My girlfriend's best friend is a gay guy, should i be worried about these actions?
If you're confident that he's gay, then don't worry about your girlfriend cheating on you with him. Nothing they do really means anything. However, if it really makes you feel that uncomfortable when she and he are touchy, then let her know. She should respect you enough to tone it down if it affects you that much.
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's guy friend?
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. We get along like best friends and when I met her I had a gut feeling about her. But lately things don't seem to great. She is the type that has a lot of guy friends, and I'm jealous of that, but its normal to be jealous. She went to the movies with 2 guy friends and one of their girlfriends. Now the one guy is single. This came off bad to me and I reacted in a harsh way. I know I shouldn't have and we over came it. Then she wanted to go to this guys house, just her, and this guy is single. I did not like that and told her I want to meet these guy friends before she does stuff like that and shes all for it. They also do know she has a boyfriend. That day she insisted on me meeting him but I wasn't in the mood, but then later in the day she says, "I'm thinking of if I should go chill with him." That came off to me as she wanted to ditch me to go hang out with this guy, so I spazed. Then she says I have a bad use of words and I ment to say I was going to tell him you & me are going to go meet him today. Now thats just fishy you say one thing and mean something completely different. She claims him to be a best friend of like 3 years but not until the other day has she been talking to him (its been 3 months since they talked), and talking to him A LOT. She swears up and down that they are just friends but so many signs say otherwise. I know jealousy is the green monster but I just don't know what to do. But she also does a lot of things that help me out on her own will, things she insists and won't stop until I allow her help. So is it just jealousy that is making me feel this way, or does it seem like something is going on? I need advice from anyone at this point because I never felt this way about ANYONE and its breaking my heart right now to think there maybe this other guy. PLEASE HELP!!!!
My girlfriend has a guy friend should i be worried?
Man.. You Need TO MAN UP & dump this girl, before you really get your Head & Heart Played! She is NOT YOUR GF, she is Using you, she is more into this guy friend, WAKE UP......... MOVE ON! & find yourseld A REAL GF! don't take this crap!! it's not worth it! that is NOT RESPECT!
Should I be worried if my girlfriend stays at her guy best friend's house?
Do you trust your girlfriend? Are you secure in your relationship? Is your relationship healthy? Then no. Do you not trust her? Is your relationship unhealthy? Are you insecure? If these things are true, you have bigger problems than where your girlfriend stays; whether she stays at her friend's place or not, your relationship is likely not long for this world.
Boyfriend hates my best guy friend.?
I have been dating my boyfriend for six months and I am completely in love with him. The only problem is that he hates my guy friend because hes worried that my guy friend will persuade me to break up with my boyfriend. That is completely not the case. I tell him all the time that I love him and my best friend isnt going to change that he is just someone I lean on for advice and as a friend. My boyfriend wants me to tell him whenever Im with my friend but when I do I can tell it pisses him off. He refuses to accept that we are friends and I dont know what to do! Help please?
My girlfriend has kissed her male best friend, should I be worried?
Well, don't really know how to start this so, here's my situation... I've been with my girlfriend about 3/4 months now and during this time she has been spending a lot of time with her male "best friend" who she is really close with, which didn't bother me in the slightest until a few weeks ago I found out that he tried to kiss her. She told me nothing happened at that he was just drunk etc etc. but later on she also confessed that they had kissed a few times while they had both been single. Now, I know there's nothing wrong with that, but she had told me previously that they were just friends and that nothing had ever happened between them. I know technically they've not done anything wrong, I just want to know why she would lied to me about this if there wasn't or isn't deeper feelings there than she is telling me? I have talked to her about this and she told me it was more of a "comfort" thing (after she broke up with her ex, who treated her horribly) rather than any sort of attraction or feelings or anything like that, but it happened more than once. They are still really close, so close that it leads to people making the "why aren't you two together?" type comments. It never used to annoy me, now I can't stand it but I'm never going to tell her not to be close to one of her best friends. I really like this girl and I don't want to be judgmental because the things her ex put her through are horrible, I know technically they haven't done anything wrong because it was before we were together (not that long before though) and even though she has told me there are no feelings from either side, I can't help thinking that there might be because she lied to me about him and trust is a big thing for me in a relationship. My questions are: If there is no feelings between them, why did she lie to me when she knew, and has admitted, that she should have told me much earlier? Do you think that there are deeper feelings between them than just friendship? and therefore should I be worried?
My girlfriend's best friend is a boy, should I be worried? Should I let her have physical contact with him?
I don’t think you should be worried solely because he’s a boy. Despite what the movie when Harry Met Sally tells you, women and men CAN be friends. And will be friends at any given point in time. You don’t have to be sexually attracted or attracted at all to someone of the opposite sex that you feel comfortable hanging out with and telling important things to. Like you would a friend.This doesn’t mean never worry when there’s a closeness between a girlfriend and another male. It just means your worry should be based upon something. If there’s no evidence that she’s cheating or that it’s more than friendship. Then you should be trusting of her. You should let your girlfriend keep her friendship and have contact with him. No one likes a jealous and controlling boyfriend.Now I know a lot of guys are concerned with cheating, and will become that type of boyfriend. But a girl will cheat if she really wants to. And no amount of you can’t see him will change that. So with that said. If at some point she does give you reason to not trust her and you do find out she’s cheating. Then break up with her. Simple as that. She’s not worth your time. And you don’t deserve her. But if she turns out honest and not a cheater and you tell her she can’t have contact with her best friend. Then you don’t deserve her then either. Trust goes both ways. And if you can’t trust fully then maybe you’re not meant to be. So no you don’t have to worry solely on the fact he’s a boy.
Why does my guy friend worry about me so much?
I have a guy friend called Paul and he's in a small local band and he does gigs in pubs and stuff. And whenever I go to some of his gigs he's always hugging me sooo tightly and he's always saying "how are you getting home" and he's always worried about me and when my mum went to pick me up Paul went to hug my mum and spoke to her and said "yeah I'm always worried about her and how she's gunna get home" .... Does my guy friend like me? He's never worried about any of the other girls getting home, just me.
Prom, slow dance with best guy friend/going to my guy friends prom?
Hun, it will be fine. Slow dancing can be nerve racking at first but seriously you guys are close and it wont be that bad once it starts, for me im like a foot shorter than the first guy i slow danced with and it was kinda weird but it was fun, so dont worry. And dont worry about not knowing any one either, im going to my boyfriends prom in a month and i dont know anyone there, its a different school and a different grade, but the only way to get to know them is to meet them. Dont worry at all, it will wind up being a blast and you will probably make a lot of new friends. DONT WORRY! it will all work out. Have fun hun!
My girlfriend has a guy best friend & I’m uncomfortable with it. How do I go about it?
Go about what? Handling it or breaking up a friendship? If your girlfriend, whom I assume you care for, says that they're just friends; best friends, then learn to accept it. Maybe he's gay or maybe you'll find,, if you get to know him better that you have a lot in common, after all, you both like her a lot. You two could become friends also and it's a lot better than the alternative…breaking up. That's just immature. You'll learn that in the adult world, men and women can be platonic friends. So, instead of being jealous, be the best boyfriend and accept her AND her best friend just the way they are…she'll love it!