What happened on the worst day of your life and what did you learn from it?
Worst day of my life: Composing a release letter in the hospital for my dad. Well, it was my dad's last request to die at home. Right at that moment, I realized we can never control what will happen in our life. We can plan but we must not be too comfortable following our own way for we don't know what will happen tomorrow. God has the perfect plan. Regrets/RealizationsI was too focused on my own dreams that it came to the point of sacrificing my time and attention to my dad. He was the one who took care of me since I was young. After my college graduation, I left to pursue my career. I got so busy that I seldom call. He kept on saying he misses me, asking me to go home and visit him but I ignored. What I was thinking before was "I need to focus on building my career, get enough money for us and then go back and will spend time with them" That was my plan (sacrificing my dad and my family over good career and income). Show your love to your parents. Let go of what happened in the past. Reach out. Treat them with loving care for you will know when is their time. It's super hard to regret when you only realize their worth when their chair is already empty. Cherish every moment with them. Say I love You. Show your care.... I didn't let go of the past. Because of that, my relationship with him got affected. I didn't show my love for him. My anger and hatred over-empowered it. I blamed him because my life was miserable. ( my parents are unofficially separated. I grew up with a family with no-good communication) Stop blaming anyone for your misery. Forgive and accept your past and your situation. TAKE NOTE: there's a reason for everything and there are blessings in disguise for every tragedy we encounter. They didn't like what happened. They too are struggling. My super regret was those time I've missed and wasted. I didn't helped him fix our relationship ( he was reaching me but i kept on ignoring and running away) For now, I've learned to value those people who loves me, those people around me. I learned to show my love, care and attention to each of them. I learned to put them on top of my priority list. Family is more important than any material things and career.
I just had the worst day of my life, how do i cope with it?
so i'm a teen model in baltimore for magazines around the country and i woke up this morning to go to probably the best photo shoot i'll ever get to do - teen vogue's beauty section (the pictures get mailed to their offices). however i overslept. i was 2 hours late (my parents work on sundays and it is my job to wake myself up and drive myself to my work). i show up and am apologizing like crazy but they fire me. i understand them being mad, but i don't understand them firing me. THEN i go home and get on formspring and see people writing on this one girl's formspring. they are accusing her of hooking up with my boyfriend. i wasn't too worried but i just texted him asking him what it was about. he said "mads i'm so sorry i had a couple beers and we hooked up. can we talk before u do anything?" he came over and told me they had sex. i asked him if he felt bored with me and he said kind of and that it is intimidating being with me, which i don't even understand!! (someone please explain that to me) i said something like "well do you want to take a break or something?" and he said he wanted to break up to see what else is out there. so basically i got fired from my job AND dumped all in one day :( HOW do i deal with the worst day of my life, i am only 16 so i'm preeettty upset about this
Well, today's the worst day of my life as the JEE Mains Result came out and I failed. My calculated marks are not equal to obtained marks. I contacted CBSE but nothing can be done. Tears apart, I just want to know, what can i do now?
The best is yet to come!! But it won't just happen you will have to do it..Coming directly to your situation. You got two waysCry for your failure that despite all the hard work you couldn't clear mains (harsh but true). IIT ka sapna yhi toot gya.Buckle down. There are many other students in your position and not able to figure out what to do. If you are really interested in engineering then prepare for the upcoming exams (eg - BITSAT - BITS stands better than some IITs and NITs). If engineering is not your field of interest then better look for some other options.Hope for the best, be prepared for the worst. That's what life is you fall and you learn.While some will be busy wasting days moaning over their failure. Outsmart them.. you got those days extra in your account so study while rest of the students are still trying to figure out the situation.Future is what we do today not tomorrow.And since it is clear in your question that all your tears have dried up I think so that you are left only with the second option. There's no going back.You don't have enough time to search for motivation outside, it's you who can really motivate you. It's time to perform buddy…Just believe in yourself. It's you who decides what you life is.All the very best for your present..Don't take tension sab tana-tan hai..!!
How do you get along in life when your life is turning worse day by day?
Life is a struggle at times for everyone. God has over the years shown me that it is not the struggle that will defeat me but my attitude toward it. After I became a Christian over 40 years ago he began to teach me that this life on earth is a learning process. We have things we need to learn throughout our lives, just as babies who are born need to learn many things between infancy and adulthood, and not all of those lessons are easy or painless.My life here has included some very painful experiences that without God I know I would not have come through them. However, His love and strength and His promises have never failed me when I look to Him and trust that for everything there is a purpose.My mother used to say “This too will pass”. We all have storms in our lives but like natural storms they do not stay forever. The important thing is to stay the course and keep your focus on what is most valuable in your life.When I began to ask God when I was walking through a storm this question, it made a huge difference in seeing things from a different perspective and when the storm was over learned a valuable lesson that moved me forward in this journey of life. “God what is it I need to learn through this event, circumstance, or challenge?”Everything has a purpose and if we seek the purpose we find that we come through stronger and better for the experience.My thoughts and prayers are that if you are a believer that you ask God this question, and seek to understand why you feel as you do, and what you need to do to change the direction for your life. If you are not a believer my prayer is that you will give it consideration as truthfully it is always God that has gotten me through the storms in my life and shown me that each day is a gift that can be taken away in a moment, and to be grateful for that gift and trust Him for each day asking that I live it according to His plan and will for me.Your life is important and I pray you will discover the purpose of your life and may you find the courage and strength God can provide to live it out with peace and joy
What is the absolute best day of your life so far?
I can name 4 of them: 1. the day I got my divorce from my first husband 2. the day I got my divorce from my second husband. 3. The day I learned my first husband had died. 4. The day I learned my second husband had died.It may sound cold and harsh but cold and harsh is when you sexually abuse little children. Cold and harsh is when you beat little children. Cold and harsh is when you beat your wife. Cold and harsh is when you use and abuse others.