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Is it okay to ask a person out that you just met?

It's certainly allowed.Are they going to like being asked out? That depends on the person.Personally, I deeply dislike being asked out by strangers. When I meet someone and they seem an interesting, sociable, person, I might enjoy getting the opportunity to hang out with them over coffee or something, in a purely friendly way and possibly in a group, but I do not have any desire to go out on a date. All asking me out on a formal date at that clueless juncture makes me think is, “Yeah, this guy definitely has no idea who I am, and is clearly only interested in me because he thinks I'm attractive.”It is a little less than exciting to me (let's say) when I've already met a man's romantic acceptance criteria by being cute and conversational. For one thing, every other woman is cute and conversational. So what?Secondly, it tells me we don't share the same values. For me to want to date a guy (and I really assume that it's this way with most people) I have to know a bit about how he thinks. Who he is.What are his politics?What books does he like to read?How well does he get along with others?Is he a reasonably good communicator?What kinds of things does he care about?A man who is not subjecting me to a similar set of deeper compatibility questions strikes me as a little naive. It suggests he hasn't thought to the same degree about how complex other human beings are, and so isn't anticipating the relationship stumbling blocks that are sure to follow if we start going out before developing a solid sense of who the other person is and how we get along.I have always passionately cursed the advice I see stubbornly resurfacing here on Quora and elsewhere that says that if you don't hurry up and act on your interest, it'll be too late and you'll end up in the “friend zone”. That seems to me a setup for foisting superficial men on me who try to push a relationship based on very little information. I hate that.For me, being my friend first is how I screen you in the long term and decide whether I'd like to date you at all, and guys who ask out immediately eliminate that important evaluation period completely.Grrr. Do not like.

Is it okay for a girl to ask a guy to prom?

Ya! Idk why people get the impression that a girl can't ask them out to prom..
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Decide whom you're going to ask. If there's one guy whom you know you want to go with, your job in this step is done. If you know several guys, who don't have dates and would be great to go with, make a list and prioritize it. You're not going to ask 20 guys to the prom, so come up with your top two selections or three at most.

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Drop hints if you're still stuck on the idea that you'd like to be asked. Many guys just need an extra push of confidence that they could make a girl happy and that she'd say yes if asked. Flirt with him, drop obvious hints and show him he's caught your eye.

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Find opportunities to be around the guy you want to go with. Proximity lets you naturally drop a question into conversation. He might say, "That was an awesome movie." You can reply, "Yeah, do you want to go to prom?" Floor him with your confidence and make him wonder if he actually heard what he thinks he heard.

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Do something creative like putting a note in his science book or leaving the question on his car after school. You can do this secretly and make him wonder who it's from. Give him a day to try to figure it out and then reveal it to him with confidence that assumes there's no way any guy could ever turn you down.

Is it ok to just ask a girl to homecoming?

While writing it on her car sounds adorable this happened to me once. One of my guy friends guy friends got a crush on me and we started texting and blah, and my friend told me that he was trying to figure out the most romantic way to ask me to winter formal. His main plan being lead me with rose petals to stick notes and more rose petals and BLEH! I was totally not into this. So I ended up just asking him before he could make it awkward. But it depends on the relationship, no matter what don't use that plan, I think the car thing is cute, if you are a guy she'd want to show off, if not then no haha. Otherwise just ask her, or do the *points at her* you, *points at yourself* me *wiggles hips* at the dance yeah? Lol, I'd go with that haha.

Is it okay to just ask questions on Quora but not answer others’ questions?

I’ll be honest. In my last answer also I have shown my displeasure with such kind of people. Though that was targetted to people who use Quora as a place to get their homework solved. But I always feel if you are receiving knowledge or information, be sure to reciprocate. There has go be a topic in this entire universe on which you have some knowledge about.See Quora has a diverse range of topics, starting from hypothetical scenarios to opinion based questions, to questions which pertain to your profession. I am not asking you to invest a lot of time reading about it and answering, though that is beneficial for both parties but try to share whatever little thing you know. Quora is supposed to be a knowledge sharing website. And that works both ways. Try to answer a few questions. amd not maintain a pathetic answers to questions ratio. In the quest of answering the question to the best of understanding of the person asking the question, you too will learn a thing or two which will definitely come to be handy at some point or the other.Unlock Quora to its highest potential. Cheers!

Is it ok to ask a guy i like to hang out?

I just met this guy at a show i went to last week. He was really sweet, cute, and cool. He bought me $30 worth of drinks and wouldnt let other guys dance with me and we danced and talked all night. I really feel like we hit it off..he even offered to drive me to my car when i didnt even park that far cuz it was raining. When i got home, he texted me and made sure i got home safely. The next day he texted me and suggested we hang out sometime but he didnt say when..its only been 4 days but i already miss him..should i just text him and ask to him to hang out or would that be too forward? I dont wanna seem desperate.. I might actually like him and i dont want to mess anything up.

Why is it people only ask if you're okay when you're obviously not?

It is a social custom, to ask, and even moreso to say "I'm fine" or "Good" or "Not bad" even if you feel like crap. I hate that. I am always honest , not always popular. My day was a 7 to 8 out of 10 in shhhtyness.

Is it OK to just ask a random lady if she'd be interested in having sex?

No, it’s not OK. It’s disrespectful to proposition random ladies going about their day.Context is a very important factor in communication.

Is it ok to ask a girl for her number the first time I see her?

Do you recognize this guy?You probably know it now from the title but he's Cody from angrypicnic.And in all of his YouTube videos he literally goes up to girls and asks them for their number.Now he does get rejected some time but most of the time he gets the girls number.It's because he has the confidence to go up to a pretty girl that he meets and make her laugh to ask for her number.If he never did this, he would never get the girls number.Of course it's okay to ask a girl for her number the first time you see her!!!In fact don't listen to the other answers that say no because it will demotivate you to go out and talk to girls or strangersYou don't need other people's validation to be socially acceptable or not.You just DO ITNOW GO OUT THERE AND GET THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS!!!!

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