Would It Be Wise To Go To The Same College As My Boyfriend . .

Should I go to the same college as my boyfriend?

I was in a two year relationship...I thought it would last forever. Soo...I switched from my four year college to a community college so I could be around him...yeah not a great idea. As soon as summer break came he broke up with me and I was angry I gave up everything lol my point..go there because you want to not because hes going. I think you think you like it cause he's going to be there....and you may not realize it. well I'm stuck at the college now...sad I gave up everything and everytime I seen him walking with his new girl or I seen his new girl walking around I was sooo angry I just wanted to rip her hair out hahaha it ruined my entire day :/ maybe you can try finding one close to there. trust me..relationships don't last...do your research and find one you like..even if it's in another state. GO!!! do whats best for you(: goodluck!

Should I go to the same college as my boyfriend?

It depends on how strong your relationship is....if you have any doubts that he might leave you or cheat on you when you guys are apart then you shouldnt go to florida with him, and you should attend a college that you want to...but if you dont care what college you go to and just want a degree then maybe you should take the step to go out with him to florida...i mean the only thing it can do is strengthen your relationship and even though you'll miss your family, you should be able to survive because if you marry him its going to be you and him...you family wont be there to see you everyday anyways...and eventually if you have kids then the 'family' is you him and the kids....
Just be strong and what the heck!
Life is suppose to be spontaneous.. go live lifeee!!!
ENJOYYY it while you still got it:)

Should i go to the same college as my boyfriend?

i will be a senior in high school next year and have started to think about colleges. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, 8 months of which have been long distance; he graduated from my high school last year and now goes to college two hours away. my immediate reaction is to shrink from the idea of following him to college, but the thought of getting to see him whenever i want is also really appealing.

i know we could continue to make it work if i went to another school; after all, he's only two hours away from home. but i really like the school he goes to now- it has a really good program for the major i'm interested in, it's the size i want, and it's close to home like i want. even though it fits the bill better than any other school i've seen so far in my search, i'm afraid that i subconsciously put it on a pedastal because he goes there and i want to be with him.

naturally, my friends and family all think even considering it is a bad idea. any thoughts/previous experience?

Should I go to the same college as my boyfriend?

I'm a junior in high school at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been dating since 8th grade. We have a really steady relationship and we've talked about our future. Neither of us are stupid, in the sense that we don't want to make spur of the moment decisions. Also, I'm not the type of girl that will go to a college and give up my dreams for him. But, at the same time, as much as I don't want it to, where I go will be somewhat dependent on where he is. We both hold around 3.4 gpa's. And, he has his heart set on Wells College in Aurora, New York. Where as, I would like to travel south and go to college elsewhere. I need change.


What are your opinions on this whole situation? Please give me your input. It'd really help. I know I still have a year to go but, I want to have some idea of what I want to do. The time seems to be flying by quicker and quicker as the days pass. Thanks.:)

Same college as my boyfriend?

I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. The entire relationship has been long distance. During high school we lived about 500 miles from each other. Regardless of the distance, I seem him about every other week to a month, and we work out perfectly. This year he began his first year at college, and I am still a senior in high school, and I really want to go to the same school as him. The school that he attends is perfect for me, and it one of the top schools in the country for what I want to be. The only problem then is that my parents do not support my decision to go out of state for school. There has been so much fighting and my home life has turned miserable. He owns an apartment in the city and has invited me to live with him there, and I really want to. I have full confidence in our relationship, and I think that we will last just as we have through all of the difficult times we have faced being so far apart. Is it going to be possible to pay for school myself if I go and live with him?

I may go to the same college as my ex boyfriend?

So my ex boyfriend and I broke up last summer and the beginning of my senior year was very hard on me because he was my first boyfriend and I was still grieving over my breakup. Well now I'm totally over him but we aren't on very good terms and don't speak to one another. I'm in a huge debate right now about where I should go to college in the fall. The problem is that my two main options would be to either stay home and commute to school or go away to a state school that he and his brother also attend. I feel silly for letting myself get upset over him but seeing him or thinking about him just puts me in such a negative mood and I'm upset because I was ready to move on with my life and meet new people at college. The school has 18,000 people that attend and we have different majors but I'm still worried about running into him and having an awkward encounter. I've just been super anxious about picking the right school and I wanted some advice.

Going to the same college as my boyfriend?

It looks to me as though it is your boyfriend who is making the decision, not you. It also appears to me that, of the two of you, it is you who are wiser. Your grades might not be as good as his, but you seem to be thinking more clearly. You have recognized that he's throwing away wonderful opportunities which will never come his way again. But you cannot control that. If you sit him down and ask, "Are you going to resent me in twelve years because you settled for a mediocre degree from a mediocre college instead of going to Harvard?" he's going to tell you "Of course not!" The problem is that he might, indeed, wake up when it's too late and be resentful. Imagine him twelve years in the future, sitting on the couch in a middle class apartment, surrounded by three kids and a slobbering dog. He wonders if he might not have done a lot better for himself if he had gone to a "name" college. And he secretly blames you, no matter how much he protests at this point that he won't. You cannot change any of this because he has made up his mind. What you have to do is let him decide whatever he wants, but you have to be prepared to deal with the results in a way that is best for you. Will you be willing to deal with a break up, divorce, whatever, when the pressure of his resentment gets too strong? Suppose the "break up" happens much sooner and you keep running into him at "Mediocre University," where he's angry and disgruntled, blaming you for his not having gone to a better school. And will you ever be acceptable as a wife for this guy in the eyes of his parents, who will constantly feel that you are the reason he never went to Harvard? Will you be able to deal with a mother-in-law who deeply resents you for having stolen the chance her little cherub had of becoming a "Harvard graduate"? I'm sure you know the source of your boyfriend's motivation, and it isn't his brain. It's much lower than that. Unfortunately, while he is the one who will make the decision, you are the one who is going to get stuck with the result. Your getting tired of the "long distance relationship" is understandable. But in this situation, you really need to make the decision which is best for you, even if that involves your "laying it on the line" with this guy and telling him that there is no future for you with a guy who cannot make his choices with a serious view of the consequences.

Should I go to the same college as my ex boyfriend?

The main reason why people go to a university or college is because that is their college of their choice. The main factor should NOT be the people in there but how this particular college will help you in terms of giving you the tools for your bright future. Things to be considered are the curriculum of the college in terms of your course of choice, facilities, faculty members and rankings. If your ex will be going, let him be. Going to the same school doesn't necessarily mean having the requirement to talk and be chummy and all. You go to school to study. If he cares, let him be. He doesn't own the school in the first place.

Attending same college as boyfriend?

I decided that I wanted to attend a certain state school, and this was not my boyfriend's first choice-school, though he applied as well. Because he could not afford any of the other schools that he really wanted to attend, he ended up choosing the same university as l did. Would it be wise to stay together? We both love each other and we've dated for the last two years of high school, and I'd love to stay with him. He's expressed that at first, he wasn't sure if we should stay together, but then thought about it and decided that it's silly to leave each other just because we'll be in a new place with other new people...we'll still be on the same campus.

So what are your thoughts? =) Should we try it out and see what happens, or not?