I have no friends. Where can I find someone to talk to about my problems? I cry myself to sleep from loneliness. I just want the pain to stop.
“Don't ever let the fear of losing, keep you from playing the game.”I know how it is. We've all been through situations where we've felt alone. But trust me, there are people out there who want to be your friend. Who have seen you at your best and at your worst and want to be friends with you, they maybe afraid of taking that one step towards friendship, maybe cause they fear rejection.Do a couple of things for yourself - (I know it's easier said than done, but when I went through a phase of depression - I realized that no one was going to help me run my life but me. I had to pick myself up from the dumps of weeping all day to smiling al day.)Go out and do those things which you've always liked but lost interest towards cause of how you feel about life.Work out of getting out of that little wall you've built around yourself. Break down those walls, see what the sunlight has to offer you. Understand why this happened and know that you are meant to experience the happiness that life has to offer.Enroll in a fitness class - Any form of fitness releases feel good chemicals called Endorphins. Fitness classes are way you can beat the depression and loneliness out of you. It would help you to give life your A game.Learn about others, learn about what they are going through. Volunteer - it would give you a much better learning experience.And lastly, follow what Harvey Specter has to sayWhile doing all of them, do not think that the crying is going to stop immediately. I've had tears welled up during fitness classes but they helped me cope. They helped me give life my “A” game.All the best. If you need someone to talk to, you've got a lot of people out here (Including me)
How can i be happy despite having an unhappy marriage?
Soory I would give more details but its one of those situations where I would be going on and on about thousands of issues and still no one would understand how we got where we are. But if it will help here goes a few in a nutshell. He doesn't appreciate me, we don't agree on anything, he says things that are just mean, he blames me for everything wrong in our marriage, he won't talk through our problems with me because we can't seem to talk to each other at all without the situation becoming hostile, i'm pregnant and he says he doesn't want to have sex because of that but i don't think that is the real reason....... there are others but I don't think these little details are going to help much.
I'm so fortunate but I'm unhappy?
Every 5 minutes I feel like crying because I don't see what the point of being here is. I'm so fortunate, I was born into a middle class stable family. I know I'm going to die though, I know no one will remember me when I'm dead. I know no one will care. Just the fact that I care that no one cares drives me crazy because I don't really like anybody anyways. I don't like the whole human thing. I was a lot happier before I was born and I wish I was never born. I wish my mom would have had an abortion or I was never conceived. I liked life better before when I was born. Does anyone else feel this way? If so how do you deal with it?
What do you do when a friend keeps "venting" about their life (like actual serious problems) but they want all your time and get upset when you're not online 24/7?
I can answer from the perspective of being on the other side (the venter). I don’t know that person, but for me it was a big safety net having someone else out there that was just able to listen.The answer for you really depends on how much you care about this person, and how much available time and emotional energy you have.This person probably needs help, you should gently recommend they find a therapist or psychiatrist, it sounds like they’re suffering from depression/anxiety.Someone else suggested an email address to vent to you through. That might work well too. Explain that you simply cannot be available 24/7, but there’s an avenue for them to contact you if they feel they need to (again if you’re willing to go that route).They need to start feeling comfortable with their own life, and being on their own (not forever, but in a way that gives you space).Good luck!
Completely unhappy with life?
Coming from someone that feels like that 24/7 the only thing is, just make your life awesome. The world sucks, no one can deny that. Fate or whatever you want to believe in will keep throwing crap in your face, and just when you think it's over, more crap keeps happening. This is why you have to make it better. Do all the stuff you've always wanted to do. Make this life the life you've always wanted, because you never know when something will happen. Learn Guitar like you've always wanted to do, go to Rome, climb the Statue of Liberty, or hell, just sit at home watching crappy free Comcast on Demand movies while eating pancakes. Whatever it is your desire. Though some friends and family can help, and you should always try them, you never can completely rely on them. Ultimately it is always up to you to make your life awesome, so to end a quote from Stranger then fiction. "So make it the life you've always wanted to have." You improve on your life, and the better mental mind frame will follow.
My Boyfriend discusses our problems with his friends?
We've been having problems and they've escalated to a point where I am very unhappy with him. I've tried talking to him very calmly initially raising all concerns but he neither cared nor addressed them. I came to a point where I got mad and started telling him in a more agressive way so he would pay attention. Instead of talking the problems out with me, he resorted to reaching out to his friends to discuss our problems. Unfair! Hurt! What went wrong?
I sent my ex an email telling him exactly how I felt, but he has not replied, what should I do now?
Leave it alone. You have said your piece. . And most likely you have hurt his feelings and insulted him. So he is taking the better path and keeping his mouth shutEven if he did all what you said you by send this email has become as bad as he. Never lower yourself to their levels. And if he is as bad as you think he is now your ex. So move on. You should have wrote the email and deleted it. You would have got it out of your system. But now you have caused a smoldering fire that could possibly erupt with unexpected negative results.Let it go. Even saying your sorry if you said something insulting will not help now. Even if all you said is true is most likely very painful as hurtful to him.If what you said was not wanted he wanted to hear like declarations of love and desires for more commitment and he is definitely not ready you jumped the gun. If he was not ready you have backed him into s corner and he will now will barrier bridges that will never be crossedAnything that is worth saying should be well thought out and rehearsed multiple times in front of a mirror as see imagine you would react if this was said to you. Would you be hurt or insulted or hurt. Think about it. Long and hard from now on.My mother used to say :” BITE YOUR TONGUE”. Words cut deeper than a sword. And when out especially written you can never take them backIt is done. Now leave it alone and do not make it worse
I'm on the brink of tears, can I vent to you?
I really just want to shut my door and cry in a dark corner. For the first time in weeks, I feel like I'm alone. The worst part is, today iTunes decided to play depressing song after depressing song just to make me feel better. Isn't that nice? To be brief, I really have no TRUE friends. The friends I have in real life think they're my friends but they can't even begin to understand me. My so called "best friend" I've been ignoring because I really would take no bigger pleasure than throwing her off a cliff. The other friends are just really in school friends. I take pride in having lots of online friends but lately, I've only been talking to one person. I like him. I love him. He makes life look a bit more bright. But sadly, he's like the opposite of me. He's popular, cute, awesome... And what am I? I'm just this sad, ugly girl who is so close to becoming emo. I mean, yesterday I thought, "If I'm so depressed, how come I never thought about killing myself?" It actually crossed my mind. SUICIDE CROSSED MY MIND. And it scares me. I'm hoping things will get better, but it doesn't look like things are... And here I am crying in front of a computer. I'm like that FOREVER ALONE cartoon thing that makes me laugh sometimes. I kind of forget about all these problems, but then the guy I talk to was telling me about how all his online friends were spamming him so he might not respond so fast.. I don't understand. I've been told I'm hilarious and just an awesome person but... Why don't I have any friends? I'm shy, but that's not a good enough explanation. Why... Why am I so lonely? Can't this just end already? Can someone brighten up my day? I really just asked to vent all that to you but I don't feel any better. Does anyone want to be my friend? Seriously. I feel awful. :( I really need someone to talk to... Anyone willing to be my friend on AIM? :(