This guy I like likes me but thinks I'm too innocent...?
Well good for you for NOT being innocent! *rolls eyes* Anywho... if you're not willing to go out of your way to show him, then why even bother!? You either show him or tell him. That or you can have some friends spread rumors about how easy you are. ;o)
Do innocent girls find Smoking "Weed" unattractive?
There's this girl I like she's one of those Innocent girls and hangs out with the group who help the community and genuinely try to make the world a better place, basically the "model students".I don't really belong in that group, I set trees on fire, party, and Smoke weed after school. I'm not like the popular group (although I do hang out with the stoners), but I'm usually the life of the party and hurt myself all of the time. People also know me as the dude with family issues, would someone find that as something to avoid? I admit that I'm always a smart *** with teachers and I get sent to the office every now and then. But, I care on the inside I just do a magnificent job hiding it. She's one of those people who involves themselves in school activities, while as I try to make everyday a fun and lively experience (party for short). I find her excruciatingly attractive but in a different way than I find another girl attractive. For example; When I see a girl who's more attractive than she is, I would chose her over the Hotter girl for some reason. But, I worry that if by some incredible feat I was able to date her, she wouldn't accept me for the whole drug thing. Or even worse that she would accept me, but I would be a bad influence or something. I'm very conflicted.
What do you think it means to be innocent?
To be innocent is a way of acting that is not presumptuous. When you see someone you know , “it’s hello, how are you?” and when you work, you do your best. You admit mistakes and correct them when possible, and you are courteous.The opposite is to be rude and suspect people of wrongdoing. You try to get into trouble and seek out bad information. If you find anything bad about a person, you spread it, and at work you are lazy and sneaky and try to get away with doing anything else but work. This takes more work than innocence, so I hate that path.Being innocent is simple fun and simple reward. That other path is fraught with disappointment and you make enemies.
If a person spreads nasty rumours about me, how will I be able to get a girlfriend?
First find out the person who did it and than call the police and report that person for defaming your reputation and image.Athanfter that write a open Letter, explain what happened, than your side of the story, mention the person who you have reported and earn the others not to spread false rumours if not you would also take action against them. Send that post to all people on your social media and if you where nasty yourself you would put the post on you school forum or college forum or any other place where the information would spread with ease.It would also be helpful to talk to some popular or social activ girls and ask them to clear up your name and tell your side of the story and it would be good to have evidence against the person who spreaded the rumours. Mostly when girls take themself to protect someone or help someone such things works fast. Only it would be hard if the rumour puts you in a bad light because the victim of the story is a girl, here you have almost no chance even if you are innocent and the real victim.