Do you consider them a friend if they NEVER initiate contact?
I know someone who NEVER initiates emails or phone calls. They will email me, IF I email them, but I have to get the ball rolling. They will respond, but they won't initiate. To me, this isn't 'friend' behavior... so I have decided to just stop. If they notice, cool, if not, then heck with them... Is this the right approach?
Can a person have 2 best friends...really?
you can have more than one best friend...a best friend is a friend that you know you can always count on no matter what. that you can tell your secrets too and she/he will not judge you...that when you need a place to go they help you out...you may have more than one of these types of ppl...if you feel that one of these friends is not that person you can count on then they are def not in the BEST friend catagory, but if you can count on both of them equally then you have 2 best friends and it's not a crime...every person has their good points and bad points no matter what...you may like frient A because she's fun and outgoing, but friend B is smart and helps you keep your head on your shoulders...but when push comes to shove both of them would help you in a pinch and give you a shoulder to cry on or throw you the best bday party ever...that is considered a best friend...if they both can do that then they both deserve the title.