How can I live a great life when my father abandoned me when I was 1 year old and now has a new wife and kids?
How can’t you live a great life? You don’t need to have a father in your life to be a doctor or a lawyer or an author or a painter or a sculptor or a professional birdwatcher or an astronaut or even the president of the United States.When your father left, he didn’t know you. You were one. It had nothing to do with who you were as a person, because you hadn’t become a functioning person yet. You didn’t have a wealth of life experiences or deep opinions or a strong moral character - you were a baby. Like we all were once. He wasn’t judging your character and rejecting you. He was looking at you as a responsibility, which is what he was really rejecting. Look at him as an adult who was a fully functioning person, who was at that moment, experiencing weak moral character. You can make a judgement based on that.You don’t have to hate him for that every day for the rest of your life. In fact, you shouldn’t. It will overshadow everything you do, and the passion and energy you spend resenting him can be funneled into a doctorate degree or the ability to climb mountains or the creation of a giant vegetable garden. You can use that energy productively, and you should.But you do need to know that it’s not your fault that someone else made bad decisions before you were even able to speak enough words to tell them what they were doing was awful.
Why would my father abandon me before I was born?
My father refused to see me when I was born and left my mom to raise me by herself and went to live with his mom. She wanted him to stay but he refused and he got stuck paying child Support. Why do guys refuse to see their children
How can a Father just abandon his kids?
Because SOME Fathers were just never meant to BE Fathers- in the First Place. -Regardless of WHAT Their "Intentions" ever Were... :(
Do Chimpanzee fathers ever abandon their young like human fathers do..?
Do not look to chimpanzees as a gentle species of animal. They are rapacious, brutal, murdering creatures. They are not monogamous. The strtongest male will have many females. You may have been seeing Bonobos, a closely related species. Chimp society is based on the strong dominating the weak. They are intelligent animals that form gangs and invade other nearby groups, hoping to gain territory and increase the number of young females they can mate with. Any older females that are probably beyond child bearing age might well be killed in these attacks. Do you still want humans to be like chimps? .
My mom abandoned me.......should I hate her?
My dad died and after that my mom just started to do drugs and started to sleep around with countless men.........I confronted my about this on the way back from my grandma's house. Her (drug dealing) was in the car and to make herself not look stupid all she did was attempt to hit me, instead of trying to resolve the whole thing.......After the argument she ended up saying I'm fed up with you and she abandoned me at an AmPm. I called the cops and the ytold he rto pic kme up and she said "NO! not until he changes his attitude and gives me more respect!" The officers told her that she would be charged with abandonment and she sai " So be it......" I have so much anger channeled torward her to where I can actually say "I hate my mom!" Is that wrong?
What should a kid do if their parents abandon them?
I m writing a school paper on how kids end up homeless and steps you can take to get yourself off the street. If your parents abandon you (like leave you and you never see them again) what should you do? If you don t know, then what would you do in that situation?
Why did your parents abandon you?
They said they needed to go get established and save some money. In reality they were too immature and irresponsible to raise and support children. They chose not to regain custody after losing it and refused to pay child support.Born and raised here in the Republic of Korea(South Korea). My mom was American and my father was Korean. My parents were young and poor when they met and my father made my mom quit the army shortly after my older brother was born. When I was 2 years old they left us with relatives and moved to the United States. No money sent and hardly any contact for more than 2 years. It was suggested that my grandparents file a complaint for abandonment and no financial support with the family court against my parents. I was almost 5 years old when my parents finally returned to South Korea and had to answer the complaint in front of a judge.You see they had this idea that they could just grab the kids they had abandoned and flee the country again. They were completely wrong and ultimately left the country again without addressing any of the issues. Instead they filed a case in the USA but got told they needed to return and file for custody in South Korea. Two more judges told them the same thing.Tell me how it is possible that your children were kidnapped when not only do you know exactly where your children reside but you had three court cases dismissed? Could it be that you are intentionally avoiding all responsibility and child support by not visiting your children’s habitual residence or resolving any disputes in the proper court? This is the conclusion I came to and I resent my parents for not simply admitting their shortcomings.