How can I accept the fact that nobody likes me?
This is not a fact. This is your opinion and by asking this question you are just confirming a false belief that nobody likes you to yourself. If you want people to like you, you must choose not to accept the fact that they don’t like you and change your mindset.You must start from within. First you have to like yourself. I mean actually like and be comfortable with who you are. If you don’t like something about yourself (overweight, narcissistic, aloof, negative, etc) then you must work to become who you want to be (work out, read good books, find people who inspire you to be positive, etc) Then others will start to like you too. I’m 100% sure people already do like you but you can’t see it that way because internally you believe that people don’t like you!The mind is very powerful and what you believe becomes your reality. So you must learn to love yourself first and then only those who are meant to be in your life will love you for you and you will be able to accept the fact that people DO like you.DM me for a great list of books and audios that can help you find the greatness inside of you.Cheers (:
So nobody likes me at work?
i know they dont like me they show it sometimes they even say it (we are talking about 20 year old little girls who think they still are in high school...) the problem is .. i dont really care. im 27, married, have my home and husband to take care of. i wanna work to make a living, not to make friends. i HAVE friends outside of work. and they really like me. actually everybody outside of work likes me. i never had a problem like this before. but ofcourse my boss would prefer me to be 'liked' by my co workers so what do i do ... without losing my dignity and self esteem?
Should I do job at that place where nobody likes me?
You can decide if you want to quit then search for the job & then quit the current organization or else you stay at work until you achieve your goal when you made up your mind while joining your company.First of all, clear your mind with those questions, why do they hate you? Here you can talk with them clearly by going & having a friendly chat with them. When you approach them, be friendly to them & ask why they hate & how can you improve the relationship with them.This option will help you to stay longer until you gain some more experience with your work & your career goals.Second thought, when you came to know that this relationship will never go further as this problem will never solve. It's time that you have to search for a new job & when you find a good job, then you can resign with the current organization.It's better to find the solution first why they hate you & then you can leave the organization later. The fact that you had a bad relationship with your colleague now it will repeat in future. So first find why they don`t like you & then you move with the improved person to next organization.
Why am I in trouble for telling a coworker that nobody likes her?
Franky, wow you learned a big lesson today. Don't be the messenger and say what everyone says behind their back to someone. Hell don't make a female co-worker retreat to the bathroom and cry. Instantly, everyone turns against you. Don't tell someone who is incompetent, they are incompetent. They to help them. They might be overwhelmed, and haven't figured out a better way to do something or remember it. Treat it like they have a learning disability. Franky, you are there to learn social skills. It sounds like the people there need to learn them themselves. I don't know if your boss has social skills or not. If he does, try to follow his example. Ask him how to deal with the stuff that goes on. Go in there everyday with your game face on, hi Mohammad how are you doing. Did you see the Manchester United game last night? What a play so and so did. Small talk for a minute or two. Hi to the servers. Ask how are their kids and family. Okay, then ask about what needs to be done and get down to working. If you have a problem with a co-worker then you tell management. People at work love to gossip or talk about someone behind their back. If it what is done, you have two ways to not participate in it. #1 Walk away #2 Tell them to stop. #1 works best. I agree with you that being nicey nice to everyone when you come into work isbs. It isn't my personality either. I am not little Miss Sunshine most mornings. I have thoughts about all the stuff I need to do going on in my head. Have just dealt with the stress of driving there. Some places you are walking into a crisis before you can get your coat off. Give me a minute to settle in. It sounds like there is a lot of inexperienced staff there due to the part time hours, and the boss trying to help people out. Understand that, and just try to do your job the best you can. Remember you have options. Most of these people don't.
How do you respond to the phrase “nobody likes you”?
Multiple personality activated. Initiate hypothetical situations. Summon the beast.Best friend - Nobody likes you.Me - Oh, you crazy bastard. Give me a hug.Manager - Nobody likes you.Me - Look who's talking.Nemesis - Nobody likes you.Me - Oh, is “nobody” your sister by any chance? Tell her I hate her brother.Professor - Nobody likes you.Me - Did you confirm with your daughter ? *Wink*Girl friend - Nobody likes you.Me - You look fat.Neighbour - Nobody likes you.Me - In that case, I hope you don't mind my dog pooping at your place.Mom - Nobody likes you.Me- What did you do to my mom, you alien ?Food - Nobody likes you.Me - I've got you sweetheart.Random stranger - Nobody likes you.Me - I am Groot.Random stranger - What ?Me - I am groooot.Random stranger - You're crazy.Me - I AM GROOOOOOOOT.Hi ! Hope we meet again under my next post. Until then..Sayonara!
When nobody likes you, what do you do?
I don't believe that 'nobody' likes you. I am sure that somebody likes you. One thing that keeps me grounded is that 'some people like you and some people don't'. And, there is absolutely nothing I can do about the ones who don't - its just life. Warmth and Smiles.
Nobody likes my boyfriend of 3 years?
My guy and I have been together 3 years we ve been going through some stuff latelty and almost didnt make it but in the end decided to stick it out to see if we could work. My biggest problem now though is nobody likes him. even after meeting him just once and at this point my best friend is urging me to dump him for my own good. Hes a loud dude and can be insensitive selfish and lazy at times. HIs humor is not great and can be offensive. Hes bad about reading the room and I thing its most;y that he upsets people. Im trying to get him to understand that you cant just put your whole self out there all the time that you have to consider what your words and actions mean to others around you. My friend says im trying to change him and that its wrong but he seems willing to want to improve. Am i stretching on this is asking him to change his behavior asking to much or does he need to change his ways so that he can get a long. Im not ready to quit on him cuz I love him but I worry that if he doesnt change I wont have friends and thats no good either.
How should I feel after being told nobody likes me?
:[ It kinda hurts my feelings because I put a lot of effort into being a good person but it doesn't even seem to matter to anyone. If I don't have a lot of friends and am not popular. Not very many people like me is what I kinda got out of it. I was talking to someone today about why everyone else gets called over for a party. The thing is im really laid back and I drink to. I am 21.. I don't really see why I wouldn't be cool to hang out with and the very few friends I have always tell me im really fun to be with and talk to.
Would you rather be yourself and nobody likes you or not be yourself and everybody likes you?
Let me tell you something. Some years back, I was totally being myself, helping people who are being insulted just because they are different and not normal. I would go against whole world for so,e people. But it turned out that people started hating me. It was particularly in school. Teachers started thinking of me as a weird average student. I started losing marks . I went below average. Why? Just coz I lost my mind. I was being myself. Enjoying out there.But then I decided not to be myself , I started buttering teachers, started changing my attitude, became a teachers pet. That is not really me. Many people started considering me as a friend. People started respecting me. I started being those people who did not accept different kind of people. I started being friends with some people who were normal. But guess what people who I went against before changed into being people who stood up for not normal people.I know this is something confusing but I started being an extrovert while I was an introvert. I still remained a wallflower. We should not try to change ourselves. People will change if the real you is good.So now new year is starting in my academic life , I'll probably get to meet new ppl so I am going to be real me. No matter what people want. People go suck . If they like me they will come or I am good being a wallflower.In hindi there's a popular sayingSabse baad rog kya kahenge log.Translation. The biggest disease in your life is what ppl say