Is it considered a date if the guy pays?
Anytime two people, a girl and a boy, goes out...it is a date. People think that a date is something where there is possible romance or something. That's not right, a date is a meeting of opposite genders...even if "just friends." It is good practice that a guy pays for first date because he is the man, this does not apply if the two are "just friends" After first date, any excuse of "he asked me out so he should pay" is pure BS...if you accept his date offer, you are in the date as an equal with him...takes two equal people to make a date.
What does it mean when a guy that you like says " Lets be friends and see where it goes " ?
It basically means that he does like you and would like to be friends for now. That way he can get to know you a little better. And in time, see where that goes. To honestly see if you two are meant to be with one another. He thinks it's best if you & him take it slow and start off as friends before jumping into a relationship. But, he does like you or he wouldn't have said that. So, give it time, get to know each other a little better & go from there. Hope this helps!(:
If your friends hate a guy would you still date him?
No.(Partially because I’m not into guys too much, but we’ll ignore that for now.)Allow me to tell a story.In elementary and middle school, I had a friend who had this massive crush on me. He essentially waited eight years until I was in high school to ask me out. I thought he was my best friend; he thought I was his future girlfriend, or maybe even current girlfriend. (All I have there are rumors from people who didn’t like me.)My friends barely knew him. One girl knew him—she wasn’t too impressed, but she admitted that I definitely knew him better, so let’s concede to Emily.My parents didn’t like him. I don’t think I ever realized this. My mom told me late ninth grade that they never said anything because they wanted me to make my own decisions.A lot of people didn't like him. One of my close friends in middle school hated him and only tolerated him when I was around. There was a reason he didn't have a lot of friends and why even his friends weren't too fond of being around him.I ignored all of that. Or I just didn't notice. But either way, I went blissfully for eight years thinking I had a best friend in him.Then shit hit the fan, I cut off contact with him, and everything he's said or other people had said about him came flooding my brain.He's immature. He's selfish. He's incapable of letting other people talk. He won't do his work. He whines.But he's my friend I thought. I know him best I thought.And that was the problem: I did know him best. But I didn't—couldn't—see the bad parts because I knew him and I was, at one point, friends with him.I'd like to listen to other people, more. I'm not going to let other people do my thinking, but I will listen and think.If my friends—who I trust and who my parents trust—truly hate anyone I'm interested in, then I need to recognize the inherent problem and do something about it.
My parents aren't racist but they wont let me date a black guy.?
Gangstadad's Answer: "Your parents are protecting your future. how many white male friends do your black guy friends have? I will bet it is zero, they don't like white people, you are a trophy for them." My Response: I have to say that I disagree with this because I am a black guy and I think that I have more white friends than I do black. All black guys do not hate white people. If you want to convince your parents into letting you go to the prom with this guy then let him meet your parents. Believe me, all the white girls that I have talked to let me meet their parents and now they enjoy my company more than anything. Like this one white girl that I know; Her dad gave me their number just so I could play tennis with HIM and with her at anytime. So just tell him to chill, so that you can set up a meeting between him and your parents. Your parent must be able to feel like they can trust him first. By the looks of it, I bet they have never even seen the guy.
My mom wont let me date until im 18 what should ido i cant even have guy friends or talk on the phone w/ boys?
I would say that as long as you live under their roof, then you have to follow their rules. Look, you have your whole life ahead of you, and later on, you will thank them for keeping you away for dating for now, because honestly, guys of that age are inconsiderate jerks who are after only one thing usually, and they are sparing you a lot of heartaches.
What does it mean when a girl says she would date me in a heartbeat if we weren't such "good friends".?
That's stupid. She says she's really attracted to me, but she really doesn't want to lose what we have. Can you tell me what she REALLY means. Because not wanting to date someone you know well sounds kind of dumb.