Why do i hate my friend for no reason?
i have a friend thats been my best friend since 5th grade (we're in grade 9th) and now everytime i hear her talk i just wanna hit her! we had our fights in the past but she didnt DO anything that makes me so mad at her! any ideas why i hate her? and any advice to change it, because i really dont want this to ruin our "friendship", plus it would make our whole group get mad at somebody which will get alot of drama!!
Dog gone mad? What can I do?
My dog is scary. She is not on her period, but she is an aggressive @sshole. Sorry, i’m mad at my dog for being the mad one. My dog’s name is Brookie, but ugh, I wanna call her mad hatter cause of these reasons. 1) she barks at any person including me. Note: she never was like this; she was super friendly and cuddly then and now she changed, a lot. 2) recently, after I came home from work, I saw my sofa torn into pieces—I trained her not to do that!! She’s not herself nowadays! 3) she doesn’t want to be held by anyone including me, again! 4) she poos on the floor whenever i’m not home & I smell it once I get back—I have to clean it straight away for the guests that arrive every other Saturday. 5) she’s a monster. I’m a 27 year old woman. I know how I should take her to the Vet for a quick check-up, but i’m currently saving money so what is wrong with her? What are the noticeable of being ill?
Are these reasons to not want to be friends with someone who is your close friend?
1) if you go to their place and you use their laptop and end up seeing that they watch porn where women dominate men around. slave master kind of porn OR 2) you are using your close friends laptop and you noticed that they googled for your name and the orgaization you volunteer for. because you told them about you volunteering for an organization that does some helping the poor stuff. would you tell your friend or would you just distance yourself and the become insecure and wonder why?
Would you be mad if?
a canadian city had a football team in the NFL personally i will becuase of these reasons mess up scedule formula 1 division has 5 teams and the anothers has 4 un even teams ( 4 teams in each division, 4 divisionsin each conferance, 2 confrences ) other countrys will say americain gridiron teams and 1 canadian team. what do you think?
If you truly love someone why would you cheat?
The person you love is not fulfilling your needs. And that doesn't always mean sex. Most people think when a person cheats it is for sex, which is not always the reason. But if you truly love this person you will talk to them about why you would feel the need to cheat. And if he truly loves you he/she will listen and hear what you say.
Why do guys get mad when you call them "son"?
I guess if a lot of people are rebuking you for it, you alreadt realise it is offending some people - why do you need us to tell you that - the people complaining are doing so because they are not happy about it. Reasons why it might not be liked? 1. Can easily come over as very patronising - unless you are a very "motherly" much older type of person. If same or similar age (not old enough to be a parent), it REALLY seems patronising to most people - and a little bit daft too. 2. If the person has ANY sort of issues with one or more of their own parents, this might REALLY be an unwelcome comment to make. Ditto if they have LOST a parent. 3. Even if they have fab parents it can be a problem! I have great folks but if someone called me "son" - I would wonder who on earth they thought they were to presume they had the right to assume they could even begin to measure up to my parents. I suspect I am not alone with that feeling - hence ".....they almost always say something along the lines....." 3. Creepy people tend to call people son if they want to get "intimate with them". It is supposed to make the person feel liked / loved etc - in practice it can make people squirm as it feels a bit "predatory" 4. Just a thought, what would you do if a family friend starting calling you "missy" or some other female version of "son" - daughter rarely used as a form of address - would you feel that was appropriate or welcome? I Sorry but the sentence you offered us saying "they almost always say something...." really ought to have told you the answer here. :) Be good, have fun - "missy" ;) :) Mark ** EDIT ** Ashley, I am not trying to be unpleasant I promise, but when in your own words "they almost always say something", could you not work out there and then "nobody seems to like me calling them son" What WE think doesn't really matter - what should matter is the feelings of your friends - and you should not need to consult us - the clue is if *THEY* correct you about something - it means (without meaning too I am sure), that it isn't coming over as well as you meant it too. The GOOD news is that I suspect when they realise you have stopped doing it, they will be pleased because they will realise you took enough care to LISTEN to their objections and react to it :)
My boss gets mad easily. How should I ask him for a raise?
How well do you know your boss? Do you know what pushes his buttons? Keep these things in mind before you ask for a raise.It may be better to discuss raises during your next review. If you don’t know when your employer conducts reviews, ask HR. Salary adjustments are usually discussed during reviews - chances are he will be prepared to address raises and be more composed during your review when he has to spend some time with you, as opposed to you barging in his office, interrupting his thoughts and telling him you want a raise. In other words, although bosses are primarily ogres and self centered, for purposes of asking for a raise put yourself in his place: How would you like it if you were deep in thought or under stress and your employee barged in and wanted to discuss raises. I promise you - you wouldn’t like it.In any event, be well prepared and well organized before you discuss a raise with your boss. Present a persuasive case why you deserve more money. Point to your accomplishments and particularly those that made money for your company. You also need to know market pay for your role, but your selling point is the value you add to the company and how you have improved your role. These reasons are why you deserve a raise - not because you are being paid below market. BTW these preparations should be ongoing, whether or not you are asking your boss for a raise - they are are great prep for employment interviews elsewhere
Why do people get angry without a reason?
Because they have unchecked mental health issues and go straight to a secondary emotion (anger) before they even process the primary emotion (probably a feeling of pain, hurt, betrayal, etc).This happens often when people are irritable for whatever reason and get triggered by someone else’s personality/actions.Unregulated emotions lead to unsavory social interactions for sure.
How do I convince my parents to let me get dreadlocks?
Don't get them, its very bad for your hair and really grimmy. You'll go months without washing your hair, and you'll have to shave your head to get them off. Most girls don't like dreadlocks anyway!