My mom is always yelling, theres never a quiet moment!?
My dad has been away for awhile for his job. So it's me my mom and 3 other siblings. My mom is always yelling at all of us. Anytime my little brother and sister is doing something wrong she just yells. I feel bad for them. But she yells at me too. But since my dad has been gone, I've picked up the yelling too. My dad came back this week-end and he heard me yelling at my sister and told me I sounded just like my mom. It made me feeld bad because I want to be like my dad, he never yells, he thinks its a waste of breath. But could you tell me what I could do or how I could help my mom?
I cry every weekend sometimes,it's so unfair, im'going crazy!?
i luv my mom but sometimes she makes me so made that i cry cause i can not go out and even if i try,she gets kind of mad! even for a couple of hours or one time i was out side like two houses from my house just talking to my friend and she came over and told me to come inside it's 8 and dark. i was 16 a junior in high school. Now i am a senior and i still can't go out. i do the same thing is watch t.v go on the internet homework. and my brothers call me a loser, i have no friends to hang around with. my brother goes out and drinks! and my little brother gets to go out and hes 14 yrs old. i am 18 and can't go out .Every weekend is the same, i am very obediant and i hate this.i stay home and watch my little brother leave who is failing 3 classes, and my older brother leaves with the truck to some party. i am at home with my parents. i never been to a school game, dance, i became so antisocial and shy. anyone has mother like this she not bad mother but i just can't go out,
How do I build a better relationship with my mom if she’s always negative and always tries to make me feel bad?
I understand that it gets very difficult sometimes. This can be sorted in complete only if your mom realises that she makes you feel bad. Which is quite difficult. But there is something else you can try. Focus on the good things about your mom, the things you like about her and admire her for those things lavishly in words. Do this for a week and during this time when she makes you feel bad about something don't react (it's gonna be difficult) keep quiet or respond (don't react).From second week on wards start talking to her calmly about the times she makes you feel bad and be expressive about that while still admiring the good things about her.Also, start giving her a bit more time, talk to her a bit more often , try to know her better and let her know you better.Things will start loosening up and all of this will take time, there's no magic in real life so have a bit patience.You asking this question already shows how much you care for her. Be proud of this fact and things will get in line.
My mom and little sister always gang up on me. Please help.?
i truly understand how you feel. like me, sometimes my mom and i and my sister argue and i would feel so mad and i'd start screaming. my mom would get angry, and she'd ask why am i screaming at her, and i'd say cos she's making me angry and she never listens. most of the time, i don't even do anything wrong and suddenly my mom scolds me. like last year, i was sleeping in the car back from school, i was tired, and my mom asked me and my sister something and i didn't answer cos i just woke up and i was trying to think about the answer to her question. then my mom got angry and she started screaming and all and called my dad. my sister could've answered but she didn't! i'm the one who always get scolded. even for things that my sister did! and when my sister argues with my mom, she uses me to defend her. i get that ALL THE TIME and i've learnt to keep quiet and not fight back to stop the arguement.
Is it okay that my parents keep telling me to shut up?
No it's not right that they do it, unfortunately it's not uncommon. I see parents like that all the time, in fact, giving a child respect and earning theirs isn't really a priority for some parents.. Talking to them about it is all you really can do, the fact that you did shows that you're a good kid (I'm assuming that you did it respectfully). All you really can do is accept that for the way they are, as long as they have taken care of you to the best of their abilities they're still decent parents. Growing up you will learn that there's no such thing as a perfect parent, we still have emotions, and issues with our tempers, and we don't always say the right things at the right times. The important thing for you to do now is step back and really look at the good things they have done for you and sacrifices they have made. I'm not saying that I agree with the way they are towards you, you deserve respect too! But unless you close them out completely (please don't do that) you have to accept the way they are and try to understand that they love you and they make mistakes just like everyone else.
My mom wants me to change completely?
I already have asked a similar question before, and it's really bothering me. My mom thinks I'm too quiet and closed off. I don't really have any friends, only acquaintances, and we don't meet out of school. My mom wants me to be more social and completely change my personality. She says I'm too serious and because of that, I look mean and intimidating in public. She thinks that I'm unhappy the way I am, but I'm not! I'm an introvert, so being alone makes me feel happy. I don't mind social situations, and I really do try to be kind towards others. Most people say I'm sweet and nice, but the thing is, it's really hard for me to make new friends, and when I do (for no reason) they always ditch me or we drift apart. My mom thinks it's because I look "insecure" in public, she thinks I'm not confident in my self, but I am! I have no problem with the way I look, or my personality. I'm quiet, but definitely not shy, though I am a bit more reserved. I love to sing, and I participate in music events and in choir, so most people don't see me as shy either. I'll admit I am studious and not much of a party person, but is that such a bad thing? I want friends who like me for me, and my mom doesn't understand that. She doesn't think I CAN make friends who like me for me. It's make me feel depressed, whenever I feel confident in myself, she puts me down. She wants me to change my facial expressions too, but I can't help it, that's just the way I look! So what do I do?