I am 26 years old. I resigned my job and I am living with my parents. What would you do next, if you were me?
You are eighteen. By definition, you are an adult, and you can live anywhere you want without gaining your parent’s permission, provided the people you choose to live with will have you. Your parents are no longer legally responsible for you any more, you are no longer subject to their wishes or commands, and they are under no obligation to provide you a place to live.You don’t have to tell anyone anything if you don’t want to. You can make your arrangements with your mom, tell your dad and stepmom that you feel your life will be better if you go live with your mother, and call some friends to help you move.If you feel you must explain yourself, tell them exactly what you have said here-they are too controlling and will not let you grow up. If they decide they want to change, then give them a chance if you are so inclined to do so. Otherwise, exercise your right as a adult to live where you want to live, and move out.
Why would you still want to live if you are deathly ill?
If it were me, so that I can learn new languages, visit different countries, get rid of grudges, visit 7 wonders of the world, try different cuisines of the world, watch a couple hundred of movies I said I would but never did, adopt a couple of dogs, basically do anything I have always wanted to do, but never got to it because life happened.
What would you do with your life if you were me and had my personality?
Every one leads their life in a different way, and it is for no one to comment whether a particular way of life is good or bad. But, here are few pointers from my side:It is fun to meet new people - from both genders. Even if you don't like to talk too much, listen. Try to meet people who can satisfy you on some level - be it intellectually, emotionally, or on any other parameter. If you are into history, arts or music, then that could be one set of people you might enjoy a conversation with. You might learn something new.You spend a lot of time on your computer. Start writing - anything. It will suck, and I mean really really suck at the beginning; but you will start to get better. Let your imagination go crazy if you are trying to spin a story; if there is a field you know about better than most and are passionate about, write about that. But write. It is very stimulating.Play! You are into music; pick up a musical instrument. It doesn't matter which one do you choose, just start playing. Believe me, nothing soothes a person up than the melodies that pour out of an instrument you are playing yourself.Let me know how it goes.
I'm married to my sibling unbenknownst to me at the time and we just found out, help...?
My sibling and I were separated as children since we were adopted by different parents. We found each online and fell quickly in love with each other. We had so much in common. However, after being married, we discovered recently that we were in fact siblings. Has anyone experienced this? How do you cope? Do you divorce or work it out? We have children together. How do you get past this?
What should I do? And, what will you do if you were in my situation?
You guys have jobs? If yes, you can take your own decisions. Move out of your parents house. Like this, if her parents force her to see guys for an arranged marriage, she can reject them and can avoid the emotional drama. Keep it down for a while. Talk to them politely and calmly. Tell them you have no plans of eloping or doing anything that would make them sad or unhappy.I am sorry it has come down to this. But you guys are going to have to be tough with your parents. It may get uglier. But you guys have stuck it out for so long. A little more won't hurt.