What do you do if your mom is cheating on your dad?
If you know for fact that your mom is cheating and has been for a while now, then even though she's your mom, she's cheating on the entire family as a whole. Therefore, i think you and your brother should spend some time with your mom alone without your dad and mention the facts of your knowing of her cheating and how long it's gone on. It's certain she wouldn't want you or your brother to mention it to your dad, that's when you have to tell her if she doesn't tell your dad you will. It's not right and being an adult your mom knows this. Being the parent she should be doing all in her power to set good examples not the examples she's clearly displayed in cheating. Ask her if she's cheating first, she has to be the one to admit to her wrongs before she'll ever admit the truth to your dad. If she deny cheating then you have a right to present verb,documented, cell phone text and or email proof to your mom so she understands that you do really know she's cheating and not just accusing her. I wish you and your family luck. But sometimes people do grow apart, they still love and care for one another but do manage well as a couple. So give your mom a chance to tell you the truth and be fair before casing judgment.You only have one mom and one dad please dear continue loving them both no matter who's at fault.Main thing you must remember is that sometimes couples do resolve martial differences and hardship with counseling and sometimes no matter how hard couples try things don't always work out so they part.
Caught dad cheating, should I tell my mom?
Well, I know you may not want to hear this. However, the marriage between your parents is the marriage between your parents. They dd not marry you. You are their child. Keep it that way. If it really bothers you so much, tell your Dad you expect him to tell your Mom. If he does not, tell him you will write her a letter (you can even make it anonymous). Sometimes when people hear bad news, they blame the messenger. It might change the relationship you have with your Mom forever if she knew that you knew. If I were you, I would do nothing. You need to think about all of these issues before you take your next step. Good Luck. Peace.
How do I tell my mom that my dad cheated on her?
People seem to like to say “don't tell her” but I doubt most of them have been in the situation. As someone who has been there I know what it does to you. The guilt of it is overwhelming, especially for a child.Sure, you can keep it quiet and keep the sham marriage going, but you'll also hurt everyday. Every time your father leaves you'll feel the pain. Every time your mother blindly trusts him, you'll hurt. Every day takes a toll on you. You'll feel guilt you don't deserve. You'll feel pain you shouldn't have to feel. So everyone who hasn't been there that's telling the OP to stay out of it don’t understand — it's not as simple as “stay out of it.”Now the part for you — I want to point out that this isn't what I did but what I wish I did. First, be sure you want to intervene. I'm assuming you've already thought this through since it isn't a conclusion you just jump to. Then, decide whether or not you want to be the one to tell her. You can give him the option to do it himself.Now whoever you talk to first it may be difficult, so here's an option: Write a letter. Write down exactly what you want to say and hand it to your father or mother (whoever you wish to approach). This way you get to say exactly what you want. Wait with them as they read and be ready to continue the conversation.Another side note: If you wish to confront your father, either through a letter or telling him, make sure he is free. If he is anything like my mother he will use whatever excuse to get out of the conversation. Be sure you know he has nothing else to do at the moment.Be ready for whatever happens next.
My Step dad is cheating?
Well a extremly reliable source has told me that my step dad was and possibly still is cheating on my mom. I will start from the beginning. He is 5 years younger and has been married 4 times, ..(YEAH I KNOW) but anyway, He has just recently been fired from a company he was with for 8 years along with a secertary. He siad the position was terminated, well I have come to find out that he and this girl were fired cause they were caught doing it on company time! I just told my mom what I have heard and that they may not be truth to it, although I know better. And to top it off the girl was in my grade in school, she is 23! My mom is 45...Im not sure what I really need bu tmy heart is broke, I cant imagine hers. Any advise to help her through this?
How do you know if your dad is cheating on your mom?
any changes in a man especially that he is trying to look younger is a huge red flag. if he is getting defensive it usually spells guilt too. its not exactly something anyone would want anyone else to know. he sounds like he is cheating, and its hard to know just what to do. but if it were me i would confront my dad with what i knew, and tell him how unhappy this makes u because its not only cheating the wife, but the child too.
What would you do if your mom thinks that your dad is cheating but you don't have evidence?
Nothing. Not my circus; not my monkeys. They are both adults; let them work it out between themselves.
What should you do if you know that your mom is cheating on your dad?
It really depends on you, your situation, and your age. Ultimately, we can only give advice, but you have to decide what you're comfortable doing. Here are your options as I see them ….Do nothing — let everyone keep on doing what they're already doing. However, this might be beat for the family structure, if you want them to stay together, but you have to live with knowing what you know. Is having your parents together worth that?Tell your Dad — he might already know. They may have an arrangement, but most likely he doesn't know, and will be upset. You will have a clear conscience knowing you didn't keep it from him, but your mom might feel betrayed. They will probably fight but they might work things out.Tell your mom you know — talk to her. Find out why she's doing it and everything.Me … I would go to mom first. That way you can make a better desicion.
Should I tell my dad that my mom cheated on him?
Tell your father. NOW! If you have any morals, you will not stab your own father in the back by keeping him in the dark. Your mum is doing an unethical and immoral dead. Your father is being cheated by a woman who is lost to animalistic pursuits. If you don't tell your father about it, it is going to haunt you one day and will give you immense psychological pain. Do not listen to these morons who are spouting garbage like - stay out of your parents’ relationship, it is none of your business, etc. I call bullshit on this kind of reasoning. These selfish, low IQ, ordinary people who are giving you bad advices do not, and cannot, understand the ramifications of infidelity. And guess what, most of the morons are usually divorced, single parents, etc. who probably were infidels themselves. You have every right to be involved in your parents relationship. After all you are their offspring. Your mothers infidelity will surely have ripped apart your heart. I can understand. Please go approach your father and tell him everything you have seen. He deserves to know the truth.
How shold I tell my mom that my dad is dating another woman?
If I were you, I would like to get the story from him first. I suggest you talk to your father about him seeing another woman. His philandering is impacting you. Is he planning on divorcing to be with this other woman? Does the other women even know about his family? Is he having a fling? What would happen to you if your parents break up? These are questions he should answer for you.Your father should also be the person to tell your mother. Having to talk to you about this might make him snap back to reality.You could also reach out to other family members (aunts, grandparents, older siblings) , adult friends, your school counselor, or your clergy before you talk to your father about the situation.