Can we love and hate someone simultaneously?
The answer is an obvious “Yes”, though it sounds weird. You can actually love and hate a single person simultaneously.Since its about loving and hating, my guess its a person whom you used to love more than your own self (or you still continue to love him/her). You love that person unconditionally because of the time you have spent together; the memories you have are too good. That person is your world irrespective of with whom you are. This feeling called love is the best.Now you can hate that person for the devastation he/she did to your life and this may include that the change in priorities, change in behavior or just a total snap. This irritates you because you are used to that same person with whom you had so many memories but now the person is changed. You just can’t digest this fact.Your loving that person is the imaginary world you live in and you hate that person is the real world. Love never fades so your situation is similar to the question: love and hate at the same time.My personal advice: move out of this as quickly as possible. It does more damage than it seems.:)
Is having sex and making love the same thing ?
Making love includes being aware of HER as the woman you love, not just straight sex with closed eyes focused on your own arousal and feelings. Of course you can have sex/make love when your wife is pregnant! Yes. Just take it slow and use lube if you need to, and give her oral sex first to let her loosen up -- include lots of foreplay, touching, caressing, looking at her in the eyes from time to time, and just following her lead by her approval noises -- see if she's enjoying what you're doing to her. Then finish up by sexing to your climax. No fear, by that time she's all loosened up and relaxed, and has had a few orgasms of her own. Unless the doctor says otherwise, sex is fine right up until she goes into labor. If you need help with foreplay techniques, go onto Amazon and buy a book... or go to your bookstore, or read up on it by googling articles. The more you read the more you'll know, but really, it's down to how your wife likes it, which involves you trying different things, and noting how positively she reacts -- and remembering the stuff she likes. Also, don't be shy about asking her what feels good where.
How can I hate someone whom I love?
No need to hate someoneA person , as a whole is not bad but few of their habits make them so . Personal experience says, I once used to believe in making ppl feel in the same way like how i used to feel when i used to get hurt and taking me and my concern for granted. But still then i could not just accept the reality and could not let them go , coz somewhere i too ws attached with them . But things just not go in the way like how we want , and everything given at free of cost is taken for granted . To hide the flood of feeling of sorrow , anger used to become means to shield myself from getting hurt , I used to totally avoid those ppl for hurting me, but deep inside somewhere i know i ws punishing myself with anger . I try to deny that i dnt like them anymore but truth is, this rage was due to the failure of the fond which was not being understood by them. Situation used to turn pathetic, but its really hard to cut off strings with the person . Perhaps your Presence could not make them feel your importance in their life , but your absence will surely do . We always make ourself so available for them that they start taking us for granted . Instead of hating , keep on doing things with normal pace . Strieve to be a better person , let them realise,, that you are not any piece of dump, whom they can use whenever n however they want. Be with the one who knows how to treasure you , and when they will realise what they have lost, you are done there . Just Be yourself but try to be better . And if you know , that you gave ur best to keep them closer to you , yet they left you , then perhaps its a signal that a wonderful person may come who will value you. And KARMA KNOWS HOW TO PLAY ITS GAME STORY REPEATS IN IT'S OWN WAY BUT WITH DIFFERENT CHARACTERS ... SO JUST DON'T HATE SOMEONE , KEEP LOVING THEM SECRETLY , STOP MAKING YOURSELF AVAILABLE TO THEM. LET THEM KNOW YOUR WORTH , IF ITS DESTINED , PERHAPS ONE DAY , THEY MAY REALISE IT ........ GOOD LUCK ...
I hate to work, but love money. what's the best job for me?
i wanted to ask similiar questions. now is my chance to ask them without losing points!! i would like to have a female company around me just like a wife but i hate to marry!!! what do i do?? seriously good answers are given already. like being a tester for sleeping pills , as given above. i love money and i dont work. i worked for 10 years and invested my money. dont have a lot of money but enough to get by. wont starve or anything like it. another option is just being satisfied with the love without actually getting it. I can love the top hollywood actress rigth? without trying to win her ( huh , fat chance.. ) no harm done . all happy.
Can you fall in love with a person, just by reading what they write?
Yes, they can!! And this happened to my best friend..(I went anon to hide ths frm her..She is on quora as well!!)..So I would like to share her story..My friend, say X, was studying in a coaching institute..nd one day..After class..In the rush of dispersal, a crumpled paper caught her sight on the floor..It ws a beautiful poem about mornings..nd she ws so fascinated by it..tht X would only talk about tht poem for a complete week..Then one day she told me that she is gonna find this guy nd thank him fr such a wonderful piece of poetry..nd a few weeks passed but she couldn't find it..So finally X gave up and co-incidently in a few days we had a function..where she decided to enlighten the world with tht poem..So on that day after the poem recital..A guy came up to her..nd guess what..He ws the poet..Well..now they are married..:) nd the happiest couple ever..
Hate my progressive lenses also Seiko Supercede vs.WS type?
Hello, I have +1.5 with +1.75add. I hate my current progressive lenses(they are not SS), I find myself always tilting my head back for almost everything and even then the reading visual field is horrible (very limited and really narrow at the bottom edge) I don't know if I have the correct prescription because I when I use my laptop I find myself reading through the add and holding my reading material about 2 1/2 feet away. I've being to two different optometrists and they gave me the same prescription (with a .25 difference in one eye) and according to the last one my glasses have the correct prescription. So my two questions are: 1) Is this a matter of personal preference? 2) What is the difference between the plain Seiko Supercede and the one with WS?
Have you loved someone so much that you would jump in front of a bullet to save them?
Yes.I loved someone so much I once took a knife to my own skin for them. I bit deep into my own muscle for them. I stripped for her. I danced for her. I told her bedtime stories till she slept all warm and soft and peaceful. I taught her. I shaped her. I molded her. I ruined her. I mourned her when she died. Because she is different now. Only in the way you can be when a vital part of you dies.I have thrown myself in front of wild animals, cars, and her own stupidity before.I have never jumped in front of a bullet specifically. But I would have. I will always protect what is Mine.Always.Because she said she was going to be mine forever. And I believed her. I would have killed for her. I offered to and was intent on it for awhile. Only she could tame and calm my Wrath. And I trusted her. Until she betrayed me.I would have jumped in front of a bullet for her. I would have stopped a train for her. I would have killed a human being for her.But now she’s gone. And I don’t know what to do. Everything is so confusing, and I hate it. I just want to belong to her, and have her belong to me. But. She no longer wants me. So I… what do i do? i dont know what to do. i just wanted a purpose. and i was so happy. alli wanged to do ws to male her happy. i just wanted to love her and keep heer safe. but i wasnt good enough for her. i would have given up my eeys fo rher. i would have taken out my heart for her. and she said she didnt love me anymore. and now what? Bullshit thats what. I dont wnt to do anything and i jsut want to be alone and cry.I dont know whats wrong with me. I think about it. And I would still rather she live than me. I would still keep her safe. even though she hurt me. even though she is till hurtinh me. because i just want her to be happy. even if its not with me. even though it hurts. i just want her to be happy. i wish i could be more for her. but she doesn’t love ma nymore. and it hurts. it hurts so much i keep throwing up. but i woudl gladly take a bullet for her. because then she’ll be safe. and happy. and ill have some sort of purpose in life again keeping her safe and happy. like i promised. one last time.
I think I hate my fiance what should I do?
My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and have 1 child together he is 20 months old but lately I really dont like him I feel like I have a hatred thats built inside me and when ever his around me I have an over whelming feeling of resentment its like when we met he ws perfect and we got along great but then the more vulnerable i was like during my time of pregnancy the more horrible and controlling he got i saw another side to him he would threaten to cheat on me or he would start arguements with me i was in a high risk pregnancy so i was in hospital every week for check ups one night i had to stay in hospital after just recieving stitches as my cervix was not holding he was at home looking at girls on hi 5 and watching porn that hurt me i felt like during this time of need he was not even sparing me a thought more concerned with jerking off! Any time i would want to see friends or go out he'd threaten to leave me he did leave me a couple times when our son was just 7 months old and i also have another son from a past relationship who is 7 years old with cerebral palsy so i could not go out as both children are not walking he called me names and treated my bad when we was supposed to be gtting married he cancled are wedding and made me look a total fool. And now i am trying to work things out with him but in all honesty I dont really like him as a person. I dont no what to do I keep telling myself maybe he will change back to the person i met maybe i will grow to love him again maybe the feelings have just worn down with time. But it feels like it's more then thatI have not gone to a club for 2 years I have not seen any friends for 3 months and even when my mum calls he complains and ask what she wants even though i have him and my children i feel so alone I miss my family and friends no one visits me when his around cause he makes them feel unwelcom, I think his possessive and controlling but i dont no if i am right or just exagerating?