You Get Some Right Rude People On Here

Why are some people rude?

I’m rude many times. Not necessarily because I want to be a jerk or disrespect someone… sometimes it’s intentional becuase I find rudeness comes in handy in many situations, and sometimes it’s unintentional.When I use rudeness intentionally it’s because,1- Rudeness get shit done. For ex: If I’m asking for a certain task to be done and have explained multiple times how it needs to be done, at some point I’m going to tell you to stop wasting my time and either figure it out or give it to someone who knows that they’re doing.2- Rudeness allows me to get my point across without the fluff and beating around the bush. For ex: when I’m getting interrupted in meetings, or other people taking credit for my work, etc. I have a little patience for it and will tell you point blank to don’t interrupt me when I’m speaking, or I don’t need my work repackaged for consumption.3- It tells the opposing party that I’m not looking to be going back and forth on a topic. For ex: if I’m being asked out by someone and have declined more than twice, next time I will say very simply. I need you to stop asking me out, I’m not interested.When I’m rude unintentionally1- it’s becuase people assume a direct statement from women is them being bitchy. For ex: friend asked me for dinner, I said no I have this priority task I need to finish and don’t wanted to take time away by going out to eat.2- sometimes I am in a bitchy mood and snap without realizing, although if I catch it I do try to correct my mistake. For ex: being rude to the customer service person over some frustration, always try to let them know I’m frustrated and am sorry being rude and i know it’s not their fault.3- sometimes the problem is the other person’s expectations on how I should behave and talk. For ex: life.4- sometimes it’s becuase I’m more focused on other stuff and can seem dismissive about the present situation.

Why are people of Toronto so rude?

I live in toronto, and I was in a wheelchair for a year, fell down in the snow, and people were looking at me on the sidewalk. Someone finally helped me get back in.Here is another one. I had a friend here from Nova Scotia living here on business, in his 20’s, wanting to get a girlfriend. A pro athlete. No luck here. He called me from Boston and his luck was the same as in Nova Scotia. He found someone right away.I’m stuck here for a variety of reasons, and at almost fifty, I have heard of better places, but moving is out of the question.I did finally get some luck. I was raised among middle class to wealthy Jews. I’m not being racist, I am one. I had reason to to go to a mostly Italian area, and I have more than enough friends here. It’s not just the Jewish part, or the money. I lived amongst your typical people in their twenties, trying to pretend they had more than they did…I don’t like liars, and I invest for a living. I have stories. Beyond the ridiculous lies about investing in …it’s too stupid. But they are just plain mean and cowardly too. Usually when they talk about a fight it is all talk. Sadly, for someone who avoided jail my entire life by turning the other cheek, I was forced in ten years, in my disabled condition, to fight twice. The people that I met do have bad apples, and I won’t take being bullied. But it leads to an example of the type I think you know, the poor investors in moon rock with nice clothes. As I was starting to walk again, one of them looked me right in the eyes as the elevator door was closing. I didn’t have my cane..I’m much better now, but I had to run. The SOB couldn’t hold the door. When I was in the elevator..he didn’t know I was crippled (he might have been a big man) he turned into such a coward. I didn’t threaten him, just told him, with no profanity….We have some bad apples in Toronto. There is no doubt. I have heard the smaller towns are better. One last story. A homeless old man trying to stay warm in the drug store. One of these financial geniuses, nice clothes, probably works for peanuts, which is no shame, but they lie, asked him if he was “Guarding the store”. Stupid joke. Stupid mean people.There is something wrong with Toronto. Not all of it, but a lot of it, and I have heard that other people are just not like this. Is it just our generation? Continuing to today? Something is wrong.

Why do some people give rude answers on Quora?

Oh I was trying to post the same question and I saw this.Your question made me realize I probably know the answer.The answer being - Some people don't know any better. Being rude shows one has a superiority complex.I think being polite and composed is a sign of maturity and maturity doesn't come easy or early. It's unrelated to your age.And for me being mature is being non judgemental and not disregarding people's opinions even though you don't agree with them. Agreeing to disagree. Accepting the difference.I have had comments on some of my answers that were outright rude but I have CHOSEN to reply with respect and dignity and it always disciplines the other person. It goes on to reflect and reinforce my future behaviour as well and I like to maintain high standards for myself.“Throughout life people will disrespect you, be mad, treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do becuase hate in your heart will consume you too.”(Also some people don't understand your answers and comments well. Actually many a times it's that. Sometimes it's language problem, sometimes perception problem and sometimes people just don't even get good humor )