Is it normal to feel really bad after turning down a guy?
A good friend of mine asked me out and I said no. I feel sooooo horrible because I know he really really liked me. i didn't really cry, but I teared up when i was texting him after i said no because he just sounded all depressed and sad and kind of ignoring me. Has anyone else ever felt this bad turning someone down? is it normal? I've turned down other guys before, but they weren't my friend
Why don't I feel like talking to anyone?
I don't know whether you had this issue all through your life till now or this is a recent change you observed in yourself. I will tell you few possible reasons along with some solutions. I hope it helps you. If it is because you are hurt, sad or depressed about anything then you need to be serious about it. If there is something that is making you sad talk about it. Share it with your close friend or family. There is certainly a solution for everything, trust me.If this is a habit from childhood then you are probably an introvert. Well, this was the situation with me only. And as I grew up I found out that I had inferiority complex kind of thing. My mind use to unnecessarily compare me with others and I use to feel they are far better than me and I use to avoid people. But then I met a psychologist who helped to get out of this situation. Whether you feel like or not when you meet someone initiate conversation. General conversation like saying hi.. When you are with friends or gathering and you feel like sitting alone, not responding much or not talking at all. Take a deep breath and try to mix up with people and take interest in conversation or discussion. One reason can be your thinking doesn't match with others around you. It happens and it doesn't mean that you are wrong or they are wrong. Everyone has their own perspective. So, try avoiding topics that can lead to conflicts rather talk about general topics. Do meditation. It will help you get answer of many things that probably no one can answer as no one can see what is their in your mind except you yourself. If you feel like not talking to anyone all the time then this is a serious issue. It is very common sign of depression. Find out the cause of your depression. Are you not happy with your job/ studies? Do you want to do something and failed? Did anyone hurt you? Have anyone friend/gf cheated or hurt you? Ask these question and if any of these are cause of your sadness then think of possible solution. Do things that make you happy. No person and nothing, absolutely nothing is more important then your happiness. If someone has hurt you or betrayed you, forgive them. It happens and holding on these things harm you more than that person. If you are not happy with your job then search for another. Money matters but not more than one's happiness. Be happy!!
When someone loves you dearly and you don't feel the same way for them, then why do you feel guilty? What to do?
The guilt is because you know how it hurts when the ones you love dearly do not love you. You start feeling bad for them. And this is when you feel guilty.But better tell them openly that you do not have any feelings for him/her. Else, you might be giving them hope which hurts even more. Never ever accept any relationship out of guilt or pity.
Im leading a guy on and feel bad and confused about it?
hello :) so theres this guy lets call him *dave*, well me and dave flirt alot and i think i might like him we were talking and he asked me who i like i said "i dont know" he said who might you like and i replied with "umm you" that was on fb chat, i then said lets change the subject please . after i told him i might like him i noticed i might not too it felt alot like when your suffocating and then whatever was sufocating you dissapeared . but i feel bad about it i mean i told him i might have feelings for him but now i dont feel like i do im sorry i know this makes no sense, but please try answering as well as you can cause im confused myself thank you :D
Can you put yourself in someone else's shoes?
Yes, now that I know Jesus. He has changed my mind about hating anyone. Usually racists are indoctrinated with this thinking from a young age. They should read their Bible and study science. The Bible says from one man and woman came all men and women. We are all children of God. Science has been able to trace the Mitochondrial DNA from any person in the world and track down one common female ancestor. This verifies what God said about us all coming from one human pair as being accurate. We can overcome ignorance with knowledge and patience! We can overcome hatred with love. May God bless you!