I'm 13 nearly 14, i desperately want a baby?
i think that decision is between you and your bf. i am 17 and have a 10 month old son. it wasn't planned or anything, it just kinda happened, but i wouldn't change it for the world! um, i would say really ask yourself if your bf is the one that you want to have a baby with because it is a really big decision. raising my son is hard but i personally think it's worth it. just knowing that someone looks up to you, watches you, learns from you, and knowing that you created it and it's yours regardless of what anyone else says is a really great feeling. i have been raising my son on my own since the day i told my mom i was pregnant. like ppl say, there are consequences to doing this, but there is also the greatest gift of life right in your hands! :)
Very sad question :'( ?
Hi, I would like to know what others would do in this situation My friend who is 22 weeks pregnant just had her 20 week ultrasound and found out that her precious baby girl has trisomy 13. The syndrome involves multiple abnormalities, many of which are not compatible with life. More than 80% of children with trisomy 13 die in the first month, many while still in utero. She now faces whether or not to go through with the pregnancy or terminate. Complications of this syndrome can include Congenital heart disease (in approximately 80% of infants ) Breathing difficulty or lack of breathing (apnea) Deafness Feeding problems Heart failure Seizures Vision problems Cleft lip or palate Close-set eyes -- eyes may actually fuse together into one Decreased muscle tone Extra fingers or toes Hernias: umbilical hernia, inguinal hernia Hole, split, or cleft in the iris Low-set ears Mental retardation, severe Scalp defects (absent skin) Seizures Single palmar crease Skeletal (limb) abnormalities Small eyes Small head Small lower jaw Undescended testicle (cryptorchidism) "Many only survive outside their mothers womb a few short minutes, hours or days. While others go home and survive months. Sadly, many of the children with Trisomy13 (Patau Syndrome) do not reach their first birthday" http://www.livingwithtrisomy13.org/ She only has a couple of weeks left to terminate if she chooses to do so What would you do. I think (would not know 100% until I was faced with it and I hope I never am) I would go though with the pregnancy and give birth naturally to my little girl whether or not she lives or already passed away. In my eyes, she deserves to be born and she can determine whether or not she lives. I my self would need that "labor and birth" to help with my own healing process. "Where there's life, there's hope" Thankyou in advance for your answers
Im 13 and i pre c.u.m but not ***?
you are just starting this road of sexuality and you got a good start in a few more weeks your growth will be a little more mature and your body will produce all the goodies for your pre *** too get a little thicker and a little more then just a drop or two of pre *** then as you journey along things will come completely together and you will be like all other boys with the growing of pubes ,penis length bigger balls etc it just doesn't haven't over night
Cant hear heartbeat on doppler?
Hi im 13 weeks and I ordered a fetal doppler from stork radio at 11 weeks. My last doc appointment was at 11 weeks and 1 day and my next 1 won't be until I'm 16 weeks.when I use the doppler I see heart rate on the screen its always in the 130 range, but never actually hear the heartbeat,i only hear the swoishing noise.could it be because iam using it wrong or is it really babys HB and I just can't hear it? Iam overweight. Should I be worried and call my doc.I'm nervous because my app. Isn't for another 3 weeks.help!!!!
I am 13, pregnant, and Keeping my baby! Need advice?
Hi, Im Sandie. I recently found out i was pregnant (Im 13) and yesterday I told my parents with my boyfriend(16). After talking for a good 3 hours we decided I should keep my baby if that's what I wanted. Now I am happy about being aloud to keep my baby and so is my boyfriend. We are both against abortion and didn't think we could do an adoption. So now I have a few questions about my pregnancy. 1. My boyfriend and his parents want him to be around as much as possible during the pregnancy and well my boyfriend wants me to ask my parents if he could move into one of the guest rooms(we have two) into our house until a few weeks after the baby is born. I don't think they will want this but he insists i ask. So I told him I want to wait for them to adjust to the news before asking. So how long should i wait to ask?(I am 8 weeks today) 2. Is there anyway to help with this morning sickness?! I am puking up my guts all hours of the day. :(
Is it appropriate for a 16-year-old boy to date a 13-year-old girl?
Ok, this is a dicey issue and I speak from personal experience. Unless your Jerry Lee Lewis and it didn't even work out for him back in the 50’s it's a bad idea.When I was in the Navy I entered at 19 yrs old. I was enlisted and I hit it off with an officers daughter inside my own squadron. She was my Dept heads youngest girl and she was 17. At that time it was 1979 and the legal age of consent in Florida was 18 to consent to sex.We dated and eventually, still before her 18th birthday, we did it actually in my barracks room of all places. How we got caught was she got caught in my room during a room inspection. Well, her Lt CDR father blew a gizzard over the fact his baby girl did it with an enlisted guy. Personally I think she was trying to punish him for being over protective.Well, the XO filed charges on me at her father's request of statutory rape. Now I was 19, she's still 17, even at trial and the whole thing goes to NIS. Thanks to my “civilian” attorney who was well worth his fee mind you, he discovered a loophole in the law. Since we had consentual sex “while on base” even though the Florida law says the age of legal consent was 18, the “federal age of consent (unless otherwise opposed by state law) was 16 yes of age over riding Florida law. Much to the dismay of her snotty pilot father, who wanted to hang my ass from a yardarm to use an old adage, my ass was saved and there was only 2 yrs difference in our ages.I told you this story to give you a moment of pause. A 16 yr old highschool student dating a 13 yr old child even in today's era would be considered seedy and perverted except in Maine, Tennessee, Kentucky and most parts of West Virginia. Those areas are morally repugnant anyway. At least when it comes to what age to marry off it's daughters.I urge you to find a girl closer to your age. What your doing is borderline illegal. I think at 16 you can be charged as an adult while at 13 she is still a juvenile. In short……dont F'n do it man.