How to tell your friend she's ugly?
You don't, be a nice person, good friend, and tell her she looks nice. It will boost her selfesteem, and she'll be happy. You'd only want the best for your friends. How would you feel if you were called ugly? I personally would never tell a friend that they are ugly. Ugly is a harsh word, "you don't look good" is better. It may still be rude but they could take it differently. If you said they they didn't look good, then they may just change their outfit. My friends would be so insulted if I called them ugly, which I never would. Be nice.
How do I tell my friend that she has lice ? ?
About a month ago I was at my friend's house & she had a bottle of "lice free" on her dresser next to her bed. I let it go assuming that she had it out there by accident. I went to a juice bar with her & saw more lice in her head, I didn't say anything cause I didn't want to point it out in public. She sleeps over all the time ! Then yesterday she was laying down & I saw lice & bugs crawling in her hair ! How am I suppose to tell her that I know she has lice ? Won't that be embarrassing ? I'm scared I'm going to get it ! She is always itching :'( .
How do I tell my friend she's wrong?
I had a ‘friend’ who was always angry. When we met at a club, she showed me her artwork and I showed her mine, and she immediately wanted to hang out. She always used this childish voice, but I thought it was cute. She was funny and had cool music.Then she started telling me about an old boyfriend who used to hit her. She would get really upset about it. And the job she just lost was the companies fault for being such jerks. She’d get really mad about that. And her parents were so mean, too. She left them, and she wasn’t ever going back. She was going to sleep in her car, unless she could crash with me a few days. That was once, never again. She got grouchier and grouchier and started getting mad at ME about stuff. Me! I’m trying to help someone down on their luck, and she’s complaining about it? I got away from her.I kept hearing about her terrible relationships on facebook, how it always ends in hatred and she always ends up alone. It’s not her fault that she’s not this or she’s not that. She just spews hate. Who can love that? And when it’s never her fault that she’s angry at everyone for not kissing her ass, you just kinda gotta back away slowly like she’s a rabid dog.
How do I tell my friend she's being a bitch?
I have very few close friends and many acquaintances. One of the things I value most about my closest friends is that we can tell each other the unvarnished truth, whether that truth is that I am being a bitch, or probably am a bit too fat for those leggings, or otherwise need a kick up the bum. At the same time we can call each other to share amazing or terrible news, or turn up at each other's homes in the middle of the night and in the middle of an existential crisis. We are surrounded by people with whom we are forced to have a relationship, such as colleagues and sometimes difficult family members, and when we choose our friends I think we should choose carefully. Having someone in your life with whom you can be utterly honest is a precious gift.Having said all that, I am aware that for many people, that is not always how friendship works. If you were being a bitch yourself, how would you feel if she sat you down and told you that? Maybe you could be a bit sneaky and couch your opinion in an anecdote from your past in which you behaved badly, in order to soften the blow and make it less of an overt criticism. In animal behaviour terms, show her your metaphorical belly.
How do I tell my friend how rude she is being?
Ok, I have a best friend named Kate and lately she is being SUPER RUDE to me, and I didn't do anything. Ok, to start off, we both made a pact to stick together when we join the field hockey team. Like we would be partners and sit together and stuff. Now whenever we have practices, she'll like point out what I have to do and she tells me all these obvious things that I ALREADY know! She treats me like a piece of crap that's stupider than anything when I know how everything goes. She only has one more day of practice than me since I handed in my physical one day later. And she makes it out like she is an expert when she didn't play field hockey ever. Second, she keeps on preaching how high school is all about meeting new people and I agree. But she took it too far today at a pep rally today and she was standing behind these two extremely snobby girls that would talk behind Kate's back in a snap. Then i asked katrina where we should sit and she said she cant just "sit with me" and she motioned to the girls? And im like WTF cant you see they arent your friends just cause we play on the same team? And we only joined this week and she makes it like shes bffs with them. then during the whole pep rally she barely talked to me and sat with her other friends. A whole bleached down and to the right. So what do I tell her? Not to ditch a friend when you have no right to? I mean no offense everyone talks behind her back and Im nice enough to hang with her and never say anything about her but now shes making me. what do i do? plz help we have a practice tomorrow morning and i dont want a fight i just want her to stop =(
How do you tell your friend she is stupid?
this one is a hard one, dont be point blank sugar oat it enough so that way it doesnt hurt her feelings. next time she does something stupid shake your head and when she asks about your reaction just tell her. make sure she knows that you mean it in te best way and you still love her but that it is something that you have noticed
How do you tell your friend she smells?
It would depend on the friend and the cause of them smelling as to whether I would say anything.If they were suffering with mental health issues or depression and neglecting themselves, I may encourage them to shower in a very throw away, non specific way.If I knew they would be hurt by my pointing out a smell they may already be aware of, I wouldn't point it out to them. It depends on the friend. Some of my best friends I know wouldn't take too kindly to being told they smelt if that were the case and I think some would prefer to be told as would I if that were ever the case.If it were something out of the ordinary but a generally common cause like garlic breath, I wouldn't hesitate in handing them a chewing gum or a mint or advising they invest in some themselves as you both know its only a smell from something they have eaten.Some people suffer with fungal infections or skin conditions and other health issues that cause their body to omit smells and as hard as they try, they find hard to keep them hidden. Masking them with perfume or body sprays can make them smell worse. The chances are that they know about it already so pointing it out would just add fuel to the fire stress-wise and could exaserbate any existing feeling of paranoia they may be experiencing.If you feel it's really necessary because It's affecting you being around them To the point of it causing you to feel permenantly distracted or even nauseous, tell them privately and choose your words kindly. It's a real tricky subject to broach - whatever the outcome, let them know you are on,Y telling them because you love and care about them as if that were not the case, there would be no need for you to bring something so personal to their attention in the first place.
How to tell your friend that she wears to much make up?
My friend is in the 8th grade so pretty young. She wears tons of make up. We've tried to tell her nicely that mayb she should cut down. Even her dad has told her she wears too much. It looks really bad and we all think that she looks like a sleeze because she started wear really short skirts and tight tops. Her make up is really dark always a black. She puts on tons of eye liner. She's so insicure and I can't think of a way 2 tell her. Plus she started to cuss alot. Me and my other friends aren't really loving the words she uses. Whenever me and her fight she always ends up crying. It gets really annyoing. I've been her friend since 2nd grade so I can't just dump her as a friend. We're in a book club together with some other friends. She says that she's just being artistic with her make up but it really looks sleezy. She not the kind of person I want to hang around. My other friends have started to notice a change in her too. She always into boys and that's all she wants to talk about. She thinks that boys look at her all the time but they don't. We have to keep building up her confidence. But she is such a drama queen. She thinks that her problems are so much bigger than ours. I remember one time when my grandpa died and I was about to tell her but she said "I don't want to hear it!! I think this guy looked at me". I can't be honest with her or she'll start crying. It's annoying. I can't think of any good things to say about her. Help asap!!! Thanx
How do you tell your friend she is a bad singer?
First of all you need to find your guts, if you can't why bother to even worry about telling her that she can't sing? You know it could be just your opinion that she can not sing too well, that she needs training. If other people have heard her sing and they think she's not to good also, maybe one of them will give tell her something. Sooner or later someone will tell her. Why does it have to be you? You are her friend and maybe it would be easier for you if you just wait until she asks you what you think about her singing. Tell her the truth!