I think I might be pregnant. How should I tell my FWB?
my best advice is probably wait a bit and make sure whether or not you're pregnant. he may react badly if he thinks you are, and it'd be pointless to mess that up if you weren't even pregnant to begin with. if you do end up being pregnant then you should probably just say it to him straight
Pregnant by FWB; How do I tell him?
I've been "involved" with my FWB (friends with benefits) for over 4 years now. I've been on some form of birth control that entire time, most recently Mirena. After feeling discomfort in my lower abdomen I went to my doctor and she ran a few tests, including a pregnancy test. That test came back positive. Almost all pregnancies that occur while on Mirena are ectopic (to my understanding), but after blood work and ultrasounds this was ruled out. I'm absolutely against abortions and think at this point I will be choosing to raise this child so I feel I should tell my FWB. I'm nervous to tell him because he's very immature and definitely not ready to raise a child (in my opinion). I don't want him to think I'm trying to trap him in this situation but I do believe he has responsibilities to live up to. How would you tell a FWB you're pregnant? Would you tell him right away or wait until the second trimester? Any advice is appreciated. Thank you!
How do I tell my FWB I'm pregnant?
Just out and tell him. Be prepared for the possible "it's not my baby or how do you know i'm the father" to come out. He may very well doubt the baby is his since you are just FWBs' and not in a committed relationship. As for him not seeing the baby much is not your choice. He can see the baby if he wants or he doesn't have to at all. But as long as he is paying child support the courts will most likely make you allow him visitations (that what they did with me and my sons father). Either way this is your baby to so you do have some say ect. I wish you all the luck.
How do I tell my parents my FWB got me pregnant?
Ok, so they don't know I have a FWB (Friend With Benefits). Like in 'Friends' we live across the hall from them, and were very close. He lives with his two male friends and I live with three female friends. We have been sleeping together for about a month, and used a condom everytime, I don't know what happened this time :S. I'm 27, in a stable and good job and can provide financially for the baby, but it's just telling my parents that I worry about. I'm sure they'll be happy to have a grandchild, and they are very supportive of eveything I do. I'm very lucky to have them. They shouldn't be disappointed because they know I have money and am old enough to cope, but I just don't know how to tell them. I can't just burst in and announce that I'm pregnat, because they know I dot have a boyfriend, but I don't know what to say :'(. I know my situation could be a lot worse, I'm healthy and very grateful for it and i have a good job, but I have a brother who is only 12, so I always try to be a good example for him, and, so i think he will be happy to be an uncle, but I'm scared what people at his school will say if they find out. The teachers and his friends know that there's a 15 year age gap between us, and that in nearly 30, but I'm scared that other children will think I'm like 13-15 and thaat I'm a sLut, and think he comes from a bad family about it (not trying to strereotype at all) and that he will be bullied :( Thank you for taking time to read and answer my question xx
My "FWB" got me PREGNANT !?
At the begginging of this summer witch was the end of my freshman year in High school me & my guyfriend where hanging out at his house and we ended up having sex! Its just somthing that happened and was totally unexpected. But a few days later we were on the phone and talking about what had happened and he starts asking me what i thought about it? I told him i wanted to be single for the summer pluss i was gonna be gone in Florida most of the time so we agreed to just be "Friends with Benifits" well me and my close friend Charlotte just recently got in a HUGE fight and being the backstabber she is , she told me Dad about me going to a house party and my dad toook my celll phone,facebook, EVERYTHING! I texted my "friend with benifits" off my cousins ipod touch and told him im a week late. he said " that doesnt mean anythinggg you just need to chill out about it" i said " I am chilll Evan i just thought you should know" he said "ok thanks for letting me know" i said "ok goodnight he said "goodnight" and thats the last time we have talked ! Now i found out im pregnant and im grounded and have no waaay to talk to the baby father or friends abt it and im scared to death to tell my parents im pregnant! Looking at my situation what do you think i should do ????
How to tell my fwb I'm pregnant?
First, was he ever under the impression you were on birth control? I'm 21, but at 18, I fully understood if I participated sex with my girl, and I came in her, I was responsible for my actions. Will being a father by 19 put a damper on his life; I suppose as smart intellectually he must be to receive a free ride to Osu (which could be Ohio, Oregon or Oklahoma), there are better things to know. All this said, he is an adult, it was his sperm ,and it is you he knows and had sex with. Tell him. Let him have some input, and if you want him out of the decision and process of gearing life for a pregnancy, get him to forfeit in writing, and be sure it's legal in your jurisdiction. My concept of a boy participating in this major fact of life, suggests he be a man, first, and show his mature side, and not regret the three glorious months of sexual ecstasy he shared with one beautiful being, but work with her for the benefit of the pregnancy and the child. I'm really curious, do you want him to be your baby's daddy, and as such, be your man in life. Hey, if you want to talk about this, just message.
Pregnant by fwb...after 4 months :(?
Made a dumb mistake , but I’m interested in giving it up for adoption since I don’t feel right about having an abortion. I already have a 3 year old and only making 65k a year which is crap money to raise a child in Seattle. How do I tell my fwb , break it off and go from there ? Can you explain how I should word this and if I should do it over text message or what ? I already know he’s not gonna want it . Although, he wants kids years down the road . He’s 34 and I’m 29. I only want feedback on how to word this and tell him I’m pregnant...will be putting it up for adoption. Thank you
I am pregnant with a FWB, and he is ignoring me!?
Abortion and adoption are both options. If you are pro-life, but can't raise a baby, I strongly suggest adoption. Don't push anymore, give him time. He's in shock, which is to be expected. If he wants to come back now, or 8 years from now let him. He should be apart of the child's life. Don't start a relationship. Stay friends, if he wants in the baby's life. Keeping friends and letting shared time with the child with will be great for the baby. Children need a mom and a dad. Let him come to the appointments, and be in the birth room if he wants. If you happen to fall in love, naturally, then you can start a relationship. But, the worst thing ever for the baby will be two parents stressed out fighting for custody, or being in a relationship neither want. If you raise the baby alone, don't worry. Keep strong. See if mom or dad or sister or brother will help babysit while at work, and could give you pointers and help. You are not a whore, and don't let anyone tell you differently . Good luck!