Why do guys have an obsession with asian girls?
Its not just the way Asian women look , but the way they act, I swear they have been taught since childhood the perfect ways to brush a mans ego. They know how to make men fell important , respected , adored , and dominant. They know the two true ways to any mans heart through his stomach and through his ego. That's why so many soldiers like to have Asian wives because they know how to treat a man and make him fell important.
Why do asian guys always stare at me?!?
Not that I have a problem with it! I love asian guys! But it's a little weird. I'm not sure if it's a good or bad stare either =/ Some of them smile at me after staring, and some just turn around once I look at them.. Is it something to do with my race? I'm chinese/filipino/white.. really skinny and have a tanned complexion. does that have anything to do with it? yesterday,i went to the city with my best friend and theres tons of asian guys there heaps of them stared at me and my friend was like "why do asian guys always stare at you?" (shes caucasian). this one guy kept staring at me, and i looked at him and turned away but he just kept staring! and i looked again after about 10 seconds and he was still staring at me! and then me and my friend started laughing at him cos we were like "what the hell?" and he turned away..by the way,all these guys are young. around 16,17,18 years old. i cant be that ugly right? lol. like theyd just stare at me cos im ugly? but im definetely nothing special too.. heres a pic? lol. if it helps? http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/127/l_fbdfd85d695b4448bac07404b87cfe81.jpg just ignore the cat thing. lol.. If you have any clue,please tell me!lol. i'd really like answers from asian guys too. it was be helpful. thanks! and sorry if that was really long to read. haha:P have a nice day^^
Im an asian guy who likes to wear western boots. does that make me weird?
Just wear what you like, the media nowadays shows too much what you should wear and what you should not. They are controlling peoples mind, tbh. You always have people who look weird, and give you a dirty stare. But who cares, yolo right. Do what you love, and wear what you love. one day, you are no longer there, so relax.
Why do people think it's so weird to find Asian men/boys attractive?
You're not weird. The people who think it's weird are simply close minded when it comes to their “standard” or perception of attractiveness. They ridicule because they are ignorant about race. If they're making fun of you - brush them off, these people are not worth your valuable time.I've had a ton of people both men and women talk crap about me or my race all the time -unprovoked. Don't dwell on the haters. I've even had a woman once tell me: “ugh, I don't date Asians”. Well, thank you for telling me how unattractive you really are, so I don't waste my time.It really depends on which crowd you are in, but generally I found the best crowd was in Whole Foods back then. I have also dated many non-Asian women before and they found me attractive, you're not the only one!!Just a few reasons out of the many I've heard:No facial hair, back hair or chest hair, except the head.Interested in Asian culture, specifically Korean, Japanese, Chinese. Or learning a specific language.Found other cultures not aligned with one’s values - such as being educated, family minded etc.Just “something” about the facial features.No specific reason at all - I just approached them and they thought I was attractive.Some random photos of me and my current SO:
How do Asian guys feel about Asian women dating white guys?
It's frustrating and emasculating for Asian males. It's much easier for a White male to date an Asian female, than for an Asian male to date a White female. According to OkCupid, white females are 38% more likely to respond to a White male than an Asian male. Asian women marry outside the race at twice the rate of Asian men. The statistics for White-Asian interracial marriages in the San Francisco Bay Area are even more extreme - something like a 4 to 1 ratio for White males versus Asian males.(Source: OkCupid - How Your Race Affects The Messages You Get)(Source: Pew Research Center - Page on pewsocialtrends.org)As a result, the odds are against Asian males romantically. Not only are there fewer possible marriage prospects due to Asian women marrying outside the race, but trying to do likewise (date White females) is an uphill battle for Asian males.My experience as an Asian male bears this out. Once in a while, when meeting new people, I'll be surprised and taken aback by how friendly a lady is to me. Upon reflection, I realize what made the interaction surprising is that the lady is White. Later I'll usually discover the White female is in or has had some earlier romantic relationship with a non-White male. Given the prior stats, you can see how this is unusual.When the majority of one's interactions with members of the opposite sex are devoid of romantic possibility, it's easy to internalize the perception that one is not sexually attractive. Furthermore, mainstream media gives Asian males few role models to emulate in social and romantic situations. Kung fu moves don't count. This is emasculating for Asian males. It can breed bitterness and frustration - accusations that Asian women are betraying the race, and racial epithets in their direction like 'banana' - yellow on the outside but white on the inside.All is not doom and gloom for Asian males though. I'm rooting for John Cho in the new ABC sitcom 'Selfie'. This is a breakthrough role for an Asian male, and I believe indicative of a shift in societal perceptions, even if the ratings for the show are challenged. In recent years I have been noticing an increase in the number of younger Asian male-White female couples, as well as non-traditional interracial couples of all combinations. This will help balance the dating situation and move us towards that promised post-racial society.
Is it weird for an Asian guy to own a Confederate flag?
Not especially. Maybe the Asian guy just like the way it looks on his wall. I've hung plenty of odd things on my walls over the years.
Do Asian guys usually only like skinny girls?
Obviously, Im asking a very generalized question, but in general, do Asian guys prefer the skinny, stereotypical Asian girl body, or do they like chubbier girls too. Im white and Im kind of mushy and Im really attracted to Asian guys. I know that there is a lot of pressure for Asian women to be tiny and that the stigma against overweight people is much more severe in Eastern cultures. I just wanted to know if the stigma is more about girls and their body image or is it a widespread cultural thing.
Is it strange for a white guy to have an asian surname?
OK so I'm getting the message that "Lee" or other surnames that are both eastern and western in origin are not strange... but surnames that are primarily found in asian countries are e.g. Nyugen, Wong, Chan. I'm also wondering if there is prejudice for or against a white guy with a definitively asian surname when seen on paper e.g. job interviews or other scenarios. Thanks.