My 13 year old friend wants to suck a guy off....?
ok the popularist boy in school asked my friend to suck it and my friend to it seriously and she wants to just doesn't no when's the right time and wouldn't really feel to comfortable in front of him like that cause there friends!!!!! he also wants to do her but my friend said i don't think so i could end up prenant what should i do?help!!!!
Betrayed...Would you want to reunite with this old friend....?
I can only give you advice from personal experience, but you'll have to go with what your heart tells you to do. I agree very much with Meghan above....I also have a very similar situation but it hasn't been so long (circumstances are different, VERY long story). I had a falling out with my best friend 4 years ago. Because I am stubborn, i let it get to the point where it just went too long and she gave up on trying to work on our friendship. About 2 years later, i still missed her very dearly and wanted the friendship we had before. I started to e-mail her and we didn't have a lot to say to each other. The "conversation" seemed cold and different, and the e-mails became further and further apart. Now, 4 years later, i've decided that things are just too different for us. I think if we ever got together to talk, we would feel so uncomfortable and awkward, and i would leave just feeling very very very sad. So, that being said, i would tell you that 7 years is a very long time to be apart, many things have changed in both your lives, and you will probably realize that a true, trusting relationship just can't be salvaged anymore. BUT, if you really do believe she is a good person and that you can start to build your trust in her again, then you need to just do it. Otherwise you'll have regrets about the "what if's". Personally, i still have regrets but know that things would never be the same as they were, and i have a handful of close friends that mean a lot more to me today. Geez, sorry that was so long. It really struck home though!
Any psalms or prayers for repairing broken friendships?
Psalm 51 is a great psalm to reconnect with God. Your old friend will take time, if things ended badly. The last thing he would want, is for you to be able to read the communications he has, with the friends he moved on with. The problems you spelled out, are for sure why you wouldn't be welcome in that forum. I do know that in Christ you are a new person. Many times people don't continue the living relationship with God, and they go back to their old selfish selves. A note in the mail asking for forgiveness, and stating that you will not pursue him, but just wanted to make things right, is appropriate. Many times it is with relief that relationships gone wrong are broken, and each party has moved on. He might be afraid that one contact will lead to more of the vicious cycle that he is finally free of. He might watch from a distance, to see if you really are different. In time he might make contact himself, to see if you are for real. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that we are not doing battle with flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. We are to forgive others as we would have God forgive us.