What is the feeling of losing a best friend?
Love is not painful, but the unfulfilled expectations when you become too much attached and the pain that it creates is sometimes unbearable. It is painful especially if your feelings are genuine and you love her to the truest of your senses.It kills you everyday to realize that she isn’t with you anymore. But the thing about love is, it is always unconditional. You love her because you want to, not because you want her to love you back. That's what love is all about. Just be true to your feelings and carry on with your life.Getting over someone you love truly is an extremely difficult task. Someday your heart will learn to live with it. It may not completely move on, but it will try to heal and live with it. The problem is to just silence the mind.I lost her not because I cared less, but because I still love her way too much.I lost her because my love strangled her.I cut myself off from her life because I couldn’t see her sad/guilty.I moved away because I still love her when she doesn’t have any feelings.I regret ending the friendship, but if that is what makes her happy, then I am happy to give that to her.
Losing my virginity to my best friend?
Me and my best guy friend have been really close for around two years. Im now seventeen and he's eighteen and we're both virgins. We both feel like sex is made to be such a big deal and that people's first times are in a sense overrated (though they do deserve some hype obviously). I feel like for me personally, I just want it to be with someone who I can trust and be comfortable with, it doesn't matter if I'm planning on marrying the guy. I'm pretty sure it's gonna be an awkward experience no matter who it happens with, so why not do it with the person I know who puts me most at ease. We both talked about how we just want to get it over with, but at the same time don't want it to be completely meaningless. We joked about it a little, but we both know that it was an honest and serious suggestion if you will, that we're both willing to act on. In my head, it seems like it makes more sense to do it with my best friend who I love and care for and know loves and cares for me, than to start dating a guy and wait a couple months just to do it with him when we will most likely end our relationship before college (that sounded awfully pessimistic, but you know what I mean). We're about to be High School seniors and just want it over with. Not in a way that I want to tell all my girlfriends that I had sex for the first time and gush about it, but just because I feel ready. Ultimately it's my decision-and his too I guess-and I'm pretty sure it's gonna happen, but I just wanted to hear what other people had to say about it. I know he respects me and cares about me, and I wouldn't be a victim of some asshole guy who was just using me like so many other girls become. If it means anything, he's really attractive and I know there's tons of girls that wish they could be in my position. And I won't lie, before we became really good friends and were talking everyday, I had a little crush on him. We run in completely different social circles, but he gets me like the girlfriends I've had since I was born.
Should i lose my virginity to my best friend?
Okay so i have been debating this for a while now... its not something i will do this month but it will be something i am planning to do soon, probably when school starts... or something... whatever... So i am catching feelings for my best friend, i think i really like him and lately i have been very... sexually active... im a virgin and i would like to lose it to someone i love and care for... the only guy Ive ever trusted with my life is my best friend. I believe he is catching feelings for me too since he texted me once saying "What would you say if i told you i am catching feelings for you?" and he said "JK" at the end... c'mon hes my bff, he is not "Just kidding." Not just the text but there has been times when i have him over to my house to fix my computer and there has been times in which i catch him staring at me and just holding my hand... i felt awkward (not in a bad way)... but since hes my bff i felt like holding hands was normal.... we usually did it at school too, and walking home... he once "fake" kissed me and then kissed me on the lips for like half a second... he tells me that people usually ask him "are you going out with her? (me)" and he would bring the subject up a lot too... i wonder if he does it on purpose just to see what i really think about if we get together or what not... he is a good guy, talks to a lot of girls when hes single but he is very loyal when he has a girl and i would know. i don't know i really feel like i like him a lot and i figured that if i am ever to lose my virginity to someone it would be my best friend... i wanna lose my virginity because i cant take it, im 16 now and very sexually active like H E L L ... and i know that doing it with my best friend wouldn't make me feel like sh*t and i wouldn't regret it... but im worried that our friendship could go down the drain because we might feel awkward since we wouldn't be in a relationship and it would be like "Uhh... okay we had sex... now what?... i cant keep acting like nothing happened between us.... we see each other everyday" and i wouldn't want to lose my bff just because of sex and i don't want to have sex with a perverted loser like the ones in my school... PLEASE HELP :/... im sorry and plz don't judge me saying im a slut cuz im not... Thanks
Should I lose my virginity with my best friend?
I'm a virgin and I knew this girl for almost two years. I told her I wanted to lose it with her because she my best friend. She knows I love her and I know she loves me. and one day I was thinking “ I wanted to lose it with somebody who cared about me and she was right here all alone”….but she said something that I do and don’t understand. She said if we do that it gone to change our relationship for the worst. Don’t get me wrong I not trying to force her to do anything. She didn’t say YES or NO but lets talk about it tomorrow .I’m just trying to get a better understanding of what she was talking about when she said ‘it gone to change our relationship for the worst’ before I call her tomorrow .i don’t want to lose my best friend what was she talking about? i'm 18/male PS Please Dont Hit me with one of them "you a virgin wait" things....PLEASE let me know what she was talking about