I love my girlfriend more than she loves me!?
I love my girlfriend more than she loves me. I know it's not bad, but it seems like I'm always "pursuing" after her. When she goes on a vacation, I get more sad because I'll miss her a lot more. However, she doesn't seem to get that sad, or not as sad as I am. Is there anything I could do to make her love me more? Will spending some time apart or being busy enable me to not miss her as much or love her?
I feel like I love my close friend more than she loves me. What do I do?
Accept it. It's wonderful that you have a deep love for your friend- but she doesn't owe that love anything. You feel what you feel. She loves you too- great! But you feel that she *should* love you as much as you love her. It doesn't work that way, you can't command a feeling. If she treats you poorly, that's another matter- you can address ill treatment. But if she treats you well, enjoy this friendship, don't try to control it, and in time she may grow to love you even more than she does now.
When a girl you love says that she loves you but loves you as a friend, what does it mean?
I will share my experience. I met a girl who said the same thing. We were best friends. She was very open and extrovert and talk to lot of guys. But it didn't matter to me much as I also consider her as good friend. Though there was always a doubt in my mind as she was standing on the overlapping region of my acquaintance and friend circle. We used to talk a lot and she used to say that she loves me alot and we will be friends forever and blah blah... I believed her. But down the line things became complicated and we got into a fight and after that everything changed. The reason is simply that she met one of her friend after 4 months they really talked and after she came back she told he is one of her closest friend and she loves him a lot. That caused some unrest in me that she used to say every person it was not a big deal for her. Though I was cautious enough not to fall in the love trap as i was afraid of rejection. However, she told me that she had developed more than friend type feelings for me. But after the fight she was like she didn't damn about me and worse thing for me to digest the coming fact that I never knew'd her even after more than year of friendship plus she never kept her any words. Fast forward ...to give out the blunt truth , it means she only needs you as for emotional support like at time of hugging, sharing feelings when she is depressed , no other person give her shit, or just for time pass and more for various world reasons. There is a possibility that dosent give a damn about you. I was frustrated with fact of being rejected and further of not knowing the person whom you thought of best friend. There was so thoughts clashes, assumptions etc that was just tiring. In time i realized it was just the waste of time and not worth that all. Universe have spent created 13 billion years in creating us, we just cant control it back. Only the wrong person teaches us the right thing. I will suggest you to keep things clear and set the limits as well. Give yourself the utmost priority while taking any strong decision. Just chill and enjoy various phases of life.
Why do I love her more than she loves me?
Its not a competition. You feel like you love her more because you are scared, which happens to a lot of people.Instead of calculating who loves whom more, be comfortable with yourself, accept yourself, be okay with the things you cannot control and the things you fear might happen.Right now all your love is directed at someone else, give some of that love to yourself, then in time you will not worry about calculating who loves whom more!
My best friend loves me. I don't love him. What should I do?
“Love and Friendship”, both the words have their own importance. Love gives us pain and frienship gives us peace. Love is unconditional but it's a need. Friendship is forever but it's a Joy. Love is eternal and friendship too. But in love you think about the other person and forget youself, but in frienship you love the other person not by forgetting youself. Frienship makes you stronger and loves makes you weaker(Exception are always there). There is a very thin line between love and friendship.Both the words are very powerful. If u say , “you love him as a friend” , that means you love yourself first and then your friend.If u say , “ you have fallen in love with him”, that means you love him first by forgetting yourself. He’s more important than your life.You got to understand this, “Everything that falls, get broken”. Without a heartbreak you can't say , that you have been in love ever.Now just take time, and think. Do you love him or not.??Is he your friend??OrIs he your lover??OrIs he your soulmate??As of now. By looking at your question. I think you are puzzled in your own thoughts.Solution to this is : Get distinct from your Bestfriend. Stop texting him for few days. You would get to know the real truth of yours. Just listen to your heart. Imagine that he is not your friend anymore. You would get to know , the feeling you are going through is love or it's just a friendship.If you are clear on this, that he is just your Bestfriend! Nothing more than that. Then why are you so much concerned about him.If you think , that he is your Bestfriend than just go to him and tell everything straight forward.Why are you hesitating ??If he is your Bestfriend , he would totally understand your situation. Because friendship is more important that love. If he is your true friend, he would choose friendship over love.Don't get conscious. Be brave enough to face it. Wether it's a breakup or rejection. (In terms of frienship).P.S - Friendship and love are like worshipping a god. Needs more devotion and patience. Don't destroy it. It takes million of days to build it and a second to destroy it.All the best.
I feel like i love my mom more than she loves me..?
i love my mom so much. she's my best friend, and my role model. but sometimes i feel like she doesn't love me as much as i love her... like idk, i feel like i think we're so close but she doesn't think we're as close. i love her more than anything but sometimes i just feel like she's annoyed with me... like lately i feel like she likes my sister more. like it always used to be my mom & i we're a team, but now i feel like i'm kinda alone. i just love my mom so much and i wish i felt as loved by her.
My sister loves her friend more than me?
yes ofcourse my sister loves me but do you think she loves her friends more than me we go to all girls school and every morning theres mass at school myfriends are always late and all her friends were with her i asked her if i could go with them becoz i dont want to sit with grade 5 bullies she told me to wait for my friends and that means no my friend are not yet there i ended up sitting with the grade 5 bullies.........The day after i was at the rock garden(school) and my tummy really hurts a lot the clinic was not yet open i asked her (mysister again) but she said no....stupid reasons why ....she talking with her friends....i have my friend with me friend not friends which is smaller.....anyway....please answer
How can I love my wife more than she loves me?
Wow!!!Brother,already you’re loving her more than she. Yes,you wish to love her more right? That itself proves your love. So let’s see how to express and love more.Adore her beauty when she is ugly,when her hairstyle is bun,face is creamed with sweat, busy in her chores.Make her sit and relax for a while while she is running.Once in a week ask her whether she has any complaints,any requests for you,whether is happy or not.Take her in your arms while she is happy,give her your shoulders when she in distress.When she hurts you,don’t retaliate; it might be because of her 24 hours work or mood swings.Treat her parents as like your parents. When she is in her parent’s home give her the time to come back.If there is a fight be the first to ask sorry. No matter what don’t let her cry alone. Either you join or don’t let her cry.Prepare coffee for her for the entire life. Then she will be sugar for your coffee.Respect her,respect her ideas, her opinions on people.Never restrict her acquaintance with anyone in case you don’t like them.Help her achieve her dreams.Enjoy her tastes too;sit and watch the serials she like. It will be more fun.( but not all girls are serial lovers)Give her freedom and ask her to be her own self.Treat her like your mother. Never give her a priority number saying she is next to your mother,brother,sister etc., she is your half and she is you.Say her “I love you” and also that you wish to love her more than she do.Don’t forget to thank her.And I’m happy that someone of my gender has got best husband who wishes to love her more.Have a lovely life,like your wife.Thank you :)
I like my best friend more than she likes me..?
Like Stacy said, talking with her is the best way to communicate what you both are feeling. Maybe she doesn't know that you're concerned about your friendship.It does seem like you're a tad jealous, but that happens to everybody. She may have concerns of her own that she wants to talk about with you. It's hard to start talking about things like that, so I'm sure she'd appreciate it if you were the one to bring it up. It's best to learn now how to have difficult conversations. I hate to say it, but friends this early usually don't last after high school. At least my graduated friends don't really keep in touch. If you can practice on them now, you'll be a pro when you get to college, are dating, and eventually (hopefully) get married. Heck, even when you have kids or need to talk with inlaws or lousy neighbors. It's a great skill to have! Hope that helps! Good luck! :D
What does it mean if a girl says she loves me as a friend?
Yes, it's a good thing! The fact that she has a boyfriend shouldn't keep her from loving you as a friend. She's comfy having you as a friend to talk to & confide in. Deep down, she may have stronger feelings for you, than just friendship. For now, just be happy to be good friends with her. Just remember, before you can be anything more, it's important to be best friends. You're young yet & you'll have many gals you'll be best friends with. Even if they only want to just be friends, you'll be a well liked & popular guy. So, for now, don't make waves. Take each day as it comes, & cherish the friendship you have.