My best friend is mad at me for being mad at them. How should I handle this?
Think about why you had been mad at them.Was it their fault? Or was it yours?If it was your fault, then go up to them and apologize and if you think it isn’t then you have two options:Forget about who’s right and make your friendship the real priority. Apologize to her even when you know they are wrong.Tell her you want to talk about it. If she resists, go up to their home and compel them to talk. Then take things gently (don’t taunt them or tell them you’re right) and just talk it all out.Because that’s what best friends do.
My best friend is mad at me, what should I do?
Thanks For A2A..Well if i would be you.. i will simply send some flowers and few chocolates and a note saying : i know words aren’t enough to apologize, but i will make sure I am there when u need me, Cuz i cant afford to loose the most beautiful thing happened to my life and that is your friendship.I hope this will work… best of luck .
My best friend is mad at me......?
my best friend is mad at me..........? okay my best friend is mad at me cause i told her that i was not going to the football game.. and she was like why ur my only way there.. i was like cause i dont really feel like going and im tired.. so she gets mad and says fine i just wont go to the game.. i was liek get ur mom and dad to take u she says they wont take me, i said ask annie she was like she wont take me i already asked her.. so she gets all and says i guess i wont go.. then she says bye.. but here latley she has been acting diffrent.. like shes always mad at me.. she got a boyfriend like a month ago this is when it all started.. does any body have any advice.. should she be mad at me?.. i dont wanna loose my best friend over somehting stupid but thats the way its looking.. please help me! oo and the only reason shes so mad about me not taking her is becasue she wants to see her boyfriend.. so yeah..
Why is my best guy friend mad at me? HELP!?
I am going to start with a background of our friendship. Freshmen year I met this guy named Kyle. Me and Kyle were best friends and he had a super hot and very popular best friend named Mikey. Me and Mikey started talking in March and talked until the end of July when he told me that if we wanted to be together I needed to stop talking to Kyle. When I refused he told the whole school we had sex (which we didn't) and Kyle was there to comfort me. Since Mikey had broke my heart I needed to move on and quick. The first week of school I met this guy named Josh. Josh was so nerdy and he swam and played water polo just like me and Kyle. Kyle and Josh were best friends because they swam together all summer. It didn't take long for me to fall for him and when I told Kyle about it he got really mad and said we couldn't be best friends anymore. He also started being really mean to Josh and they lost their friendship and turned into enemies. Kyle then became best friends with my best friend Skyler. I was crushed. Me and Josh talked but he said he couldn't take the amount of attention I draw to him and that he loves me but he couldn't do it. I needed someone to cry to and Kyle was there. From January until last week me and Kyle went back to normal. But this thursday I told him that I like a new guy, Tyler. He said "Open your eyes." then walked away. He won't reply to my texts, he won't talk to me in person, he is giving me the silent treatment and I miss him and I don't know what I did but I need him. I can barely eat, sleep, and I need help. It's been a week and I am going CRAZY.
My best friend is mad at me! What should I do?
say it up front. doesn't matter what you want to do its about what you need to do. you hurt your best friend that you really care about so the least you could do is go up to him and say sorry and that you didn't mean it. && i know that those comments probably made you feel awful because they would have made me feel the same way too but in a way you deserved them. now, if what he said in the comments was too far off from what really was then nicely and gently say: "hey man, look- i'm sorry okay? i didn't mean to hurt you or dicth you- if that's the way you feel about what happened. you're my best friend andi would never do that to you. i'm sorry you feel that way but most of all, i'm sorry that i made you feel that way. you can tell me off, because i deserve it, but please don't tell me it like that. i understand you're pissed but those texts really got to me & they really hurt me. in a way i did deserve it, but in no point do i think i did something so cruel to you." but once again, you're the one in the situation so you know what this is all about, what he said & did and what you said & did so you should know what to say too.
I think my best friend is mad at me. What should I do?
Good grief. You harm a good friendship by not taking the time to actually talk to someone who you supposedly care about, and now you’re just going to make it worse by TEXTING?!!! Really? Your actions said that obviously she doesn’t matter much to you because you didn’t take the time (and also didn’t have the integrity) to do what you said you would. Gee, I wonder why she’s mad? All you can do now is TALK to her. Call her up, apologize profusely, and promise never, ever, to make such a mistake again — then mean it. Offer a meet-up, or a hang-out day, or something real. Texts do not a friendship feed.
My best friend is mad at me for talking to her ex. What do I do?
My best friend is mad because I started talking to her ex. She broke up with him over a month ago and says she doesn't like him anymore. She's also dated 2 other guys since him, and i've supported her through it all. Her ex texted me one day and we started talking. Well a few days later he told me he liked me and I like him too. When my friend found out she told me that she would be extremely mad if we went out. Well she found out that I was going to his baseball game today and we were going to hang out. She texted me and told me that if I was a true friend I wouldn't have even talked to him... And I was thinking but why would you care if we were going to hang out or not, because you don't like him and he doesn't like you anymore. They don't even talk anymore either... I just really don't want this to come between our friendship... Is there anyway that she will understand and everything will go back to normal again?
My best friend's mad at me, and I don't know why. What should I do?
The EXACT same thing happened to me honey and I'm so sorry it's happening to you because I know how painful it is. I cried for so long and its months after and I still get sad thinking about it now. When this happened, I texted her one night and simply said "we need to talk." and she asked when and I told her face to face at school. So we went into a room by ourselves and I told her exactly how I was feeling and how I just didn't understand how we could have been such great friends only for her to throw it all away, and she made excuses and excuses and I that was the exact moment I realized that my BEST FRIEND, the one that I had loved more than anyone, wasn't there anymore. It was one of the hardest things ever but I moved on and found a best friend who had the same thing happen and I love her to pieces. Clare and I, my former best friend, still see eachother at soccer and things are fine between us now, but if your friend has changed so much it may be best to let go. The last thing I said to Clare before leaving that room that day was, "You were my best friend for years, and I will ALWAYS love you. And if you ever need a shoulder to cry on, or someone to call at 3 am when no one else will answer, I'll be there for you, and I'll be waiting. Until then, I love you and I'll miss you." (A few weeks ago...she took up that offer and we're good friends again. I hope this helps you!!!)