My best friend is obsessed with kpop?
my best friend is obsessed with kpop for almost a year now. i don't know what to do she won't even go out anymore because all she does is look at kpop mv's and read about her biases. i like kpop too but i think she is taking this to extremes. i mean she actually thinks she will get married with her idols and she thinks she will be a kpop idol even if she's not even asian and she can't sing at all. this thing is getting on my nerves because she won't even listen to other types of music and that's all she talks about. when people say something about one of her biases she gets really upset. she constantly fights with people on the internet that say bad things about kpop. recently she told me something about sesang fans(?) that they stalk their idols and she was really angry cause sometimes they put the idols in danger causing accidents and stuff. and she was so angry and said she would kill those fans. she is getting creepy and i don't know what to do to get my friend back. any advices? thank you
My bestfriend is obsessed with K-POP! Help!?
Trust me, I am myself obsessed with Korean music, but I do have a sense of reality! I do NOT believe I will marry my bias, or someone Korean for that matter! I do NOT want to become an idol in Korea, I have my own future plans! But my friend is completely OBSESSED with K-POP! She gets mad every time I tease her with saying that I will marry Jonghyun from SHINee. She once even pushed me aside for saying Kai from EXO is really cute and his dancing is really good too. She said: "Do you really think he'll notice someone as plain as you?!" As if I was ever interested! In her room she has at least a 100 posters of Baekhyun from EXO on her wall! And she literally freaked out and started crying when she found out he was dating Taeyeon! She started leaving hate comments on Taeyeons Instagram! When I told her I supported them, she told me to get out of her house and never call her again. The next day she pretended nothing happened and greeted me! She literally picked a fight with this Korean girl in our school JUST because she was jealous of her because she had been in Korea and gotten an autograph from Infinite's Woohyun! She shredded the autograph and the poor girl started crying! She called her a slut because apparently she had slept with Woohyun to get the autograph because "who the hell would want to give an ugly ***** like you an autograph?!" I got enough of her tyranny and helped the girl out. We haven't spoked in weeks and she's gotten worse! I just want my old friend back.
Help! My friends are obsessed with Kpop?
Yahoo Question Okay so, my friends are beyond obsessed with Kpop and I think they need an intervention. (I have two friends like this and each is different so there'll be two questions) Friend 1 (non-asian) - Don't get me wrong, I like Kpop too. In fact, I'm the one that showed it to her. I understand that the music is awesome and the guys are really hot, but what she does is just insane. I showed her a Nu'est video and her bias is Minhyun. She's obsessed. She watched one if the videos and I pointed it put that he looked like he had a hickey (just an observation). She flipped OUT. She was going on about how he'd better not have a girlfriend and she was so pi**ed off and jealous. Then I explained that they probably had no time for a girlfriend so it probably wasn't a hickey. She flipped out again saying it was a hickey and maybe one of the other members did it and blah blah blah. I'm starting to get scared here. She also has a gajillion pictures of Lay from EXO. Only of his dimple. Not his entire face. His dimple. She's got 3,000 some pictures on her iPod of kpop and I'm a little terrified. It's unhealthy. Nothing matters but Kpop and Kdrama and K-everything. Her grades are bad, so she should be studying or even doing homework for once! Not watching Kpop videos. Friend 2 (Asian) - she's even worse. She's convinced that SM Entertainment is going to give her a private audition and beg her to go to Korea to train with them (sadly she can't dance or sing) and she'll become a big Kpop idol and marry Sungjae of BTOB (I think BTOB....) it really scares me. She has just as many pictures, speaks Korean at me constantly (even though she only knows a few words) and just goes on and on about how she's going to be just like Girl's Generation and SM Entertainment is going to love her and how as soon as she graduates she's going to Korea. She won't take a foreign language because the school doesn't offer Korean and doesn't talk about ANYTHING ELSE. She's really
My friend is obsessed with kpop?
she is driving me crazy!! i mean she is talking only about kpop she tweets about kpop , kpop is the only music she likes. she doesn't even likes other guys except from asians. this is crazy cause she really thinks her biases will marry her!! i am tired of her talking ONLY about kpop. i mean i like kpop but it's not the only music i enjoy. she even tries to speak korean and throws random korean words when we talk or on the internet. she does this stupid poses trying to look korean in all of her photos but she just looks stupid to me. she's trying to look korean and i thinks she's just plain pathetic. what can i do to make her understand that she needs to live her life instead of fantasizing about her idols. she won't even go out anymore. she is always on her computer watching korean tv shows listening to korean music and looking at korean guys. she needs help. any advices?
My friend is really, really obsessed with kpop?
I love her so much, we've been friends from different sides of the country since we were young and impressionable. We went through our phases together, we went through feelings and boys and whatever we commonly liked. She was me, I was her. Inseparable. We went through another phase; Kpop. It was a phase for me, but not for her. Its all she talks about, she never drops it. Her entire facebook page is dedicated to Kpop. Its been almost two years. She obsesses over what they say ("OMG HOW CUTE IS IT THAT HE ASKED FOR WATER) . I'll never stop being her friend. But when I wanted to continue and learn new things together, she wanted to stay in the kpop fandom and lock herself away. We're not as close anymore, but I'm glad she still calls me her best friend. I just...I just wish she would be more open about herself, not some guys she worships.
What do I do about my friend that's obsessed with Kpop?
Whatever you do, do not tell her to not like K-Pop. If she enjoys it, that s great and she should be able to listen to it and watch videos on it. Everyone has their own likes and opinions. If you don t like K-Pop, tell her. Just say, I don t want to watch these videos because I don t care for K-Pop, can you watch them when I m not with you?. Then, she might understand that you don t enjoy that and she ll realize she should stop forcing you to watch videos and listen to that stuff with her. Also, tell her to stop generalizing Americans as a fat and lazy culture. She probably wouldn t like it if people said things about Koreans. Hope this helped.