I caught my daughter having lesbian sex?
Okay, calm down, at least you didn't freak out when they were having sex. Now that would have been awkward... you're right, they're too young for sex. But being a lesbian (or bisexual) is something you're going to have to accept about her. You two need to have a serious talk. You need to let her know you feel bad, that you're not angry or anything, and you need to discuss her sexuality. Let her know that sex isn't wrong, but she's too young for it. Help her, cause she needs it. And don't tear your away from her "friend". That's just cruel. Just like if she were dating a boy you need to set some ground rules. And seriously, if you love your daughter, support her. Don't try to force her straight or any of that dumb crap. IT DOESN'T WORK. You'll just drive a wedge between the two of you and she'll never trust you again. Take it from someone who knows. My mom hates me because I'm gay. DON'T put your daughter through that.
Why is my sister so mean?
I have no idea how to handle it. I'll be nice- she'll be mean. When I decide to stand up for myself, she gets meaner. What's her problem, is it me? That'd be stupid because I did nothing to her. Does she think she can control because I'm younger? Please tell me because I must be missing something. It really bugs me. She's always putting me down. I just don't get it, it really depresses me how mean she is. Help!
Why am I still thinking about my ex girlfriend every day, when we broke up 3 years ago?
This is tough. I have a friend who broke up with his girlfriend, and found himself missing her 2–3 years later.After the break up, he didn’t date. He focused on his health and finances. It wasn’t the right time for a serious relationship, he said.Most people will have periods like this where they are completely self-sufficient.But eventually, he started feeling lonely. He wanted someone to be with. And because he hadn’t been dating, he was a bit rusty and insecure. He didn’t have any options.Stomaching the uncertainty of dating new people is often hard. So instead, people wonder about their odds of working it out with their ex, where even if it wasn’t perfect, at least it was familiar.Instead of meeting new people, he found himself dwelling on his ex-girlfriend and wondering if there could still be something there.That line of thinking leads to poor decision making. It’s why people sleep with exes & compromise standards/ values to date a mediocre acquaintance with a nice resume. There’s comfort in familiarity.Other possible scenarios:She dumped you, and that rejection still stings.Your current relationship isn’t as good as the previous one, and that’s been weighing on your mind.You still follow her on social media. That will keep an open wound from healing far longer than necessary.
How can I help heal my sons broken heart?
I'm going to try to make this long story short. My son has dated his high school sweetheart off and on for four or five yrs. They got back together about 8 or 9 months ago. when we were helping out her parents. then about a month ago. she went out of town and messed around with several (about three other guys) She lead my son to believe that they were still togther excepting jewlery and items from him and even had him get her a plane ticket back home. My son is heart broken he hasn't been hisself . It seem to me she keeps coming back around to use him . If anyone has any advise that I could pass on to him I would be grateful .This was the second time I'v had to watch him go through this because of her. thanks