Should i give my baby my ex boyfriends last name?
we were together for 2 years and he really wants to be here for the baby. we broke up and then found out i was pregnant, at first he didn't take it too well, but now he's all for it. he's been to every doctors appointment. everyone is in my ear telling me to give it my last name. but without him, there wouldn't be a baby in the first place. if he wants to be here, why shouldn't i give it his last name? i'm only 14 weeks, but it's a big decision to make. i don't know if he wants to get back together, but the way i feel.. i don't think that we will anytime soon. please just give me some helpful input. =)
My boyfriend calls me the same nickname he used to call his ex? Should I be worried?
I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I'm in love and we hope to one day get married. But I was recently snooping through his emails keeping track ya know, and I found some old emails from his ex. He was calling her the same nick/pet names as me and telling her the same things he does to me in bed. He even told her he wanted to marry her and have her kids. This is two months before we met mind you. I don't know if I should be sad angry or stupid. What should I do? I don't care if he knows I was looking through his emails. He shouldn't have to keep secrets if he wants to marry me right? There were no recent emails and we love on opposite ends of the state so I know they couldn't still be *******. But is he still in love with her? Am I just some placeholder till she takes him back? Well, anyways I just really need some advice :/
Naming my baby the same name as boyfriends ex GF?
Would it be weird to name your baby the same name as the father's ex? My baby's dad and I currently aren't together but I'm gonna have the baby soon and need to pick a name! My ex dated this girl 2 years ago for just a few months and she's married now but her name is not commonly used it's not weird at all its pretty just not used very much. Would that be weird?? Lol i really like this name i actually first fell in love with it before i even knew who his ex was. But I also wonder if she would be like WTF or if other people would think that cause we're all from the same town/school, but her and my ex aren't even friends on Facebook
Why does my boyfriend call by the same pet name that he used with his ex?
I recently found out that my boyfriend calls me the same exact pet name that he called his ex. Now I keep wondering if he thinks of her when he calls me that. I asked my boyfriend what he called his ex for a pet name, and he said he never had a pet name for her. But it was his brother that told me that he always called her baby cakes, and thought it was weird that he calls me the same name.
Why is my ex boyfriend calling his new girlfriend the names he used to call me?
It's simple. Because it's his pattern. It's something he likes to say, maybe sounds cute and he has a warm fuzzy feeling when he says it. He said it when he felt warm and fuzzy about you. And now he's saying it to the new person he feels warm and fuzzy about.It's no big deal.For your future relationships you might try as I have done. With a new sweetheart, the first time he calls me some sweet name that's not my own, I ask in a kind way, “have you called other girls that?” And if he says yes, then I say (sweetly) then let's pick another name for me.Really the guy is just using a technique that is in his list of “things girls like” being called by whatever those names are. I bet if you spoke to his previous ex she was called the same names you thought were “yours”.None of this means he was not being genuine with you. It does mean he maybe lacks a bit of imagination or creativity. But he's not a bad guy. Just no longer “your guy”.The bigger question is why does it matter to you? If you're still into him and he's moved on read He Just Not That Into You. It addresses the question “Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?” question pretty well and will definitely help bring you some closure.A last thought as I would tell a daughter if I had one, you need to focus on you now and in doing so eventually he won't be given any brain time by you at all. And that is life… relationships begin and end, and we just keep going on. Make you're “going on” be of a girl-on-fire!Good luck!
Boyfriend would want to name our 1st daughter after ex?
it probably sounds worse leaving it at that, so i'll explain the story i just turned 19, and my boyfriend is turning 21 in december..we're far off from even trying for kids, but because i have a condition (PCOS) that makes it hard to conceive, and carry to term. He knows it bothers me a lot , so he tries to comfort me about it, and promises he'll get me pregnant one day..and we sometimes talk about what it'd be like to have a family together..he wants children in the future too, and enjoys talking about it. during one of these talks, baby names came up. he told it was important to him that he names his first daughter Sarah. i could tell saying the name made him a little upset, so i didn't ask till later on. i found out , Sarah was his last ex... she apparently had a rather tragic life, and was raped multiple times by her step father and his friends... eventually getting pregnant and giving birth by c section to one of their babies. not long after she recovered from the pregnancy, one of her step fathers friends raped her again... her mother refused to believe her,so she ran away and supposedly has not contacted anyone since. my boyfriend told me he believes she likely commited suicide while running away..he said she was suicidal before and during the pregnancy, and he was the only one that was able to convince her not to kill herself....he told me recently, he had a dream of her . she was crying and smiling at him, telling him she really loved him..and was glad he's moved on. that she hopes he'll make his new girlfriend (me) as happier, and more than he made her... but is really happy to hear he wants to name a daughter after her. its important to him to name his first daughter after her , cause he really loved and wanted to protect her. maybe i'm just being a little selfish... but if we have a daughter together, i'd rather her not be named after one of his exes.. regardless of what happened to the girl. i understand their relationship was anything but sexual, since she was scared of guys, and that he just wanted to protect her... i don't like the idea of naming her after a ex for not only those reasons, but i don't really like the name. am i really just being selfish? or is this how i should feel about it?....
What do you think of baby girl name Cinderella!!!???
Ha ha ha ha ha! I think your ex must care more about himself than he does for his future child. And I think your ex's girlfriend has no backbone, for not telling him that it doesn't matter what deal they made, and letting him pick something so unreasonable! It's gonna be great when she's between the ages of 2 and 5, but as soon as she gets to school, EVERYONE will start teasing her over it. And what is the poor thing supposed to do as an adult?!? Can you imagine walking in to a job interview, saying, "Hi, Mr. Jones, I'm Cinderella." They'd assume you were insane, and wouldn't even take the interview seriously! I suppose she could go by Cindy, or Ella. Poor thing!