Should I move to my dads if my mum is bad to me?
First, take a moment. Is your mum bad to you, or is she actually providing boundaries and structure to your life? Tough isn't always bad. If she is abusive and negligent, well, that's different. So do you really know which situation you are in? Just because you want something, doesn't mean it's good for you. If you can ask this question, are you ready to ask the deeper questions? Talk it over with your mum and dad. See what they really think. Your parents might be very different than how you think they are.
Should I move to my dad's house?
First, let me congratulate you on looking out for youself in a difficult situation. You show maturity beyond your age.Knowing little background of what is happening, it sounds like the idea has merit, but it seems there are other things at play here…Your mother isn't starving and you have a place to live, so it doesn't seem like she is spending everything on gambling, could she be providing a base level of support for you?If your mother hasn't been able to provide for you since age 11, how come your father doesn’t have custody?I suggest you have a conversation with your father about the situation, and your desire to stay with him. There could be important practical and/or legal consequences to this action that have to be taken into account.Best of luck!
Should i move out of my dads house?
Hi Lexi, sounds like life has thrown you under the bus and I am so sorry to hear about this negligent "father". I don't understand how a dad could treat his daughter like this and for so many years. My daughter and I do everything together and that is how it should be (we are still a family tho so that makes it better too). Moving out is a really hard thing to do and the two choices you have mentioned are not going to be ideal, far from it. Living with another set of parents requires all kinds of adjustments including the fact that sexual temptation with your boyfriend will be a big challenge and his parents may not appreciate sex in their home. A foster home means living with strangers and trying to figure out all the do and don'ts and getting into a foster home for older teens is kinda hard. There is also the risk that you will be abused, but that could happen at your boyfriend's home too (and what happens if the boyfriend thing fails, then where do you go?). My advice is not to move out, but to see if you can establish a working relationship with the stepmom and her daughter, that might turn out better than you think and if she treats you respectfully, might rub off on your dad???
I'm moving to my dad's?
Hello. I am 14 years old and I just recently asked my mom if I could move to my dad. I've lived with my mom since they got divorced, so about 11 years. My mom said yes, but she's been very upset because I'm the youngest of her children and the last to move out. I feel bad for her. I also think that I don't have a good enough reason. Is it good enough that I feel like I'll have a better time at my dads? With a new city, new friends, new surroundings?
Should I leave my mom's house and move in with my dad?
It’s not good for your self-esteem, or self-confidence to be in an abusive home; leave when you can.Tip: people can usually get to where they need to go, faster than they initially believe.Question: you are 18, legal; have you considered moving out on your own? Renting a room, take public transportation, keeping your expenses very low?You can still go to college, pursue an extra curricular activity, while working. Life is give and take, choices, and you create the ambiance of life that you want, once you are on your own.About your dad: you don’t live with him. You say he is an alcoholic. There is much more going on with him, and his life, than what you have ever seen so far. You will be negatively affected with your father too.Going from one bad place, to another bad place, (even if less bad), is not the thing to do.You are legally an adult, so you have every choice in the world available to you now; so plan a financial budget for the necessities of life, figure out how many hours a week you need to work at minimum, while at a lower paying job. Figure out what you need, and want out of life. Go after it.You create how you want yourself, and your life to be. Always remember that.You are capable. Work hard. Work smart.
I'm 21 and want to move out of my dads, but I feel stuck because he a narcissist and toxic. What should I do?
You are not your father. You are you and he is what he is. You must love yourself and you should make decisions on that understanding. When you find someone you love and want to share yourself with don’t forget. You will need to be strong and sturdy and that will be because you lived and loved for yourself and made yourself strong for this new true love that you will someday meet. In doing that you can share yourself with someone worth your gift.Your fathers time has come and gone. If he were in a clear state of mind he would want you to be everything that’s good in human beings and that you deserve everything good in life becuase that’s how children should be loved.
I want to move out of my dads house to my moms...?
I had the same exact situation where I wanted to live with my dad and not my mom anymore. When you're 16 you have the choice on where you want to live, but you have to go to court about it. Instead you can go to court and complain about how although your parents have joint custody, your dad is refusing to give your mom the visiting days she LEGALLY has. If its a joint custody, your dad has no right to tell you that you can't see your mom..
I want to move to my dads house, but my mom won't let me. How can I move there
Your Mom knows why she doesn't want you to move and its probably best for you so talk to her and ask. Maybe you can spend time with your dad over the summer but straighten up your act and act closer to your mom's expectations. You can call your Dad anytime and visit with him
Should I move to my dad’s because he gives me more freedom and I have a bad relationship with my mom?
YesAnd then when you're by your mom make sure you let her know how good at the time you had by your dad's I mean tell her it was really good that way you put the ball in the motion you either hate each other because she gets discussed it and takes it like that or she starts to compete for your love which in turn brings maybe gifts and more freedoms but I'm not one of those type of people that pray or manipulate my parents but aren't we all lol because usually in situations like that you find yourself in the middle of stuff you didn't want to be in the middle of and that's just kind of a payment for them putting you in the middle and play in the back and forth and not taking tcare of their shit because they tookvows and now they have to deal with the consequence of breaking those vows. People need to stop getting married cuz they think they have to or that they have to buy a certain time anyone out there that reads this there's a million dating sites prostitute bars but I mean seriously it at night ten years ago when I was single there was no Tinder, not to my knowledge anyway there certainly wasn't farmersonly.com and all these other Christian mangoes and whatever I mean now there's a website for every type of person there is out there so I mean if you get sick of the people that you're usually Ben Tate you know just going to farmersonly.com if you're even if you're not a farmer