My husband has these inexplicable mood swings. Has anyone experienced this and what causes it?
Some people are going to give you some really stupids answers to this question BUT I am going to tell you something I learned from experience. Your husband needs to see a doctor because there could be any number of medical conditions causing this behavior especially if he is in his 30's or older. I have always had a wonderful relationship with my wife and I love her with all of my heart but about 1 1/2 years ago my behavior began to change, I would become very angry because of the slightest things and as time went by this behavior became worse and worse. I became a mean and hateful man that could and did explode in a split second for no apparent reason. I went to the doctor to have my gall bladder checked because I had been having pains in my side for a long time and the pain had finely become unbearable. While checking my gall bladder the doctor discovered a mass on my right kidney and during further examinations a mass was also discovered on the Adrenal gland on my left kidney. (these mass's were cancer) I was sent to a specialist and the first thing he asked my wife was if I was prone to explode into anger for no apparent reason. Of course we told him that my behavior had changed drastically over the past year or so. As it turned out, the mass on my adrenal gland was making the gland over produce adrenalin, ephedrine and some other hormones (4 times more than normal) The over production of these hormones caused me to become very aggressive and there was no way I could control my temper, no matter how hard I tried. they put me on some medication which helped a little and the doctor talked to my wife and explained the problem, he also told my family that no matter how hard it was they had to ignore my bad behavior until I could be operated on and the Adrenal gland could be removed. They did remove the gland and my behavior returned to normal. I just thank God that my wife and family were strong and loved me enough to understand what was happening to me............................. Bottom line is, get your man to a doctor, his behavior could be the effects of an undetected illiness that needs to be taken care of before it is to late
Why do I keep having bad mood swings?
There's a number of factors in play here. Stress and pressure can cause someone to have undue mood swings etc. Medications that someone may be taking can have effects as well. Anti-depressants can be great for some people, a total flop for others. The key is finding the "right" one for someone. You're dealing with finely tuned brain chemistry, one that doctors usually take a stab in the dark at, you have to tinker with dosages and types of medication to find the one right for you. As far as suicidal thoughts stemming from anti-depressants that is common when someone is on the wrong type for them. It can also be a side effect when taken with other medications or the person has another medical condition that the doctor is unaware of. Not to put anyone on the scare tactics but me personally I was on anti-depressants that made me suicidal and have horrid thoughts/mood swings, rather than a simple case of depression I was diagnosed with bi-polar instead of unipolar (depression), treating a bi-polar with a unipolar medication can be a train wreck waiting to happen. As far as aleviating stress and pressure I would suggest possibly finding an outlet for it in a positive way. I took up running for a while, the endorphins offest the stress and made me feel better. Not only did I feel better I lost weight so my body image improved. You don't have to change your personality or let these issues do so, just work on the stress factor and figure out why you're internalizing everything. Best of luck!
How do I handle a girlfriend with mood swings? She’s been acting crazy lately and I don't know how to act in front of her anymore. I feel like my patience is exhausted just to make her calm. It's like a cat baptism you know!
All women have those crazy days where they make no sense. We are angry. We are depressed for no reason at all. Trust me, we can't help. But it is not everyday. It usually stays for 3 days to a week in a month. Not more than that.Why does it happen?There is a sudden change in the levels of hormones. Your estrogen increases and progesterone decreases. Few symptoms are extreme mood swings, eating binge (I once had one and a half plate of boneless chicken biryani in a single go. I still get teased), sugar cravings (because of sudden drop in sugar levels), bloating. The symptoms may vary from person to person.How do you know?It usually happens in a pattern. Keep a track of her monthly cycle and check the days she acts completely unreasonable. You will find a pattern. It happens for a few girls before their periods, for a few during their periods, and for a few in the mid cycle while ovulating. Find out what her pattern is. Sometimes the crazy moody days decide to skip that month. Consider yourself lucky if that happens. :DWhat can you do?Have some patience, please! It is just for a few days, and trust me, she is going to realize that she has been completely unreasonable after she gets back to normal. Women don't do this on purpose. It just happens. So everytime she is moody, is it her hormones?No. Sometimes we are really pissed off and angry. It is not the hormones. It is the circumstances. As if the war inside us is not enough, we women have to struggle with the war outside too. Try to find out why she is upset. Sometimes, she really has a reason. What can you possibly do to help her?I heard chocolate helps. It triggers the feel good chemicals in the brain. But I don't know how helpful it is going to be. Other than that all you can do is endure the suffering. She will realize that she was unreasonable when she gets back to normal and is going to thank you for being there for her during that difficult time. Word of caution:I have a friend who is extremely moody and her boy friend had a tough time every single day!If your girlfriend is something like this, I would suggest you to get out of the relationship before it is too late. This kind of relationship is toxic. I don't believe in "I love her so much that I can go through all the suffering just for her". That is BS! That is what people say when they are delusional and call it love.
My husband is threatening me with...?
suicide? Hello guys. Ok, I posted a question yesterday about my husband threatening me with suicide here it is http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsEHUL9v9L7HG25bSuLHNMwjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090429085813AAKDQIK Anyway today he says he can’t take it anymore and really wants out. I tried to take him psychiatrist; I told him we were going see a friend anyway when I took him to the hospital the look on his face frightened me. He called me a b**th and that he was never coming back and he just ran. Well I came home an hour later to see him on his bed, I feared the worst and then I saw that he overdosed on pills he told me he took 17 Tylenols. Honestly you guys I can’t take this heart ache anymore, I’m freakin’ 18 years old and I can’t put up with this. I do love him with all my heart but I don’t know why he’s acting this way. We used to be so happy. These mood swings are tearing us apart. I tried to help him and he still wants to kill himself. Should I tell his parents about this? I know I should but he told me he would jump in front of train before that happens. I can't force him to get help anymore... I feel like I’m trapped please help me...
Can girls change their minds about a guy?
So, talking about World's greatest problem - Woman's mind, huh?If i met a guy, thought he was despo, or psycho in beginning, but as and when i came to know him, i changed the way of my perception to him, and now think he is good guy, then whoaaa!! i changed my mind... oh my god.. i change according to mood swings... really?????Yeah, women do have mood swing but a woman never changes her perception about a guy she loves from heart. Never ever! So, if she changed her mind about the way, do think why it happened?I have a list of male friends and majority of whom i hated when i met, i thought they were arrogant(reason, you guys, as you are worried how a girl would think, you out of nervousness, don't even answer to her), but then as time passed due to some situations, i started feeling 'No ami! He ain't that bad" and then we became friends.Now after becoming friends, guys have a habit at times you need some alone time, where no one else than you is what you need, just like mood swing is normal in ladies, and i know it's total. normal but if a girl won't understamd she will think you are ignoring her and bammm! She will stay away and then you will think she. CHANGED HER MIND...Really? Give it a thought next time when you feel same.
What are some signs that your boyfriend really loves you?
Basics signs to understand if your boyfriend loves you He will certainly make time for you without any lame excuses.He will reply to your text and call quickly or if in case he is late he will call and make you understand the reason .He will understand the insecurity of a girl and never try to act or do anything stupid to make you vulnerable.He will introduce you to his close inner group of friends and family so you can be more comfortable around .He will have eyes for you (may be few flirting incident in general) but you will always be his girl.You will be his Priority among along his work and people as he will never ignore you under the veil of space and time .He would understand the difference between Lovd and Lust. He would wait .He would ask you for the marriage first.He would treat your parents and family as his own and your friends as his own group .He would lead you in hardtimes, guide you when you will be low and stand by with you when you will be least expecting this him .Even after a long and tiring day if he is calling to ask you how was your day/ did you have your lunch etc . . Believe me he love you .He will balance things, work /time /relations with you.Instead of breaking up on small or big fights, he will sit with you, communicate and solve the issue and make things work again.You will see him with genuine smile and warmth whenever you will meet him.He would be a bit possessive ( natural in all men) as he is afraid to loose you .Your weight/skintone/ etc will not be a matter of concern to him .The best way to know if he love you is try testing him when things go south, if he is there till the end to make things rights and workable (girl don't loose him , he is a keeper).If a man is into you, he will come and get you . It is this simple.Though relation is based of true abs mutual efforts of both the individuals . Trust and respect him, if the person is genuine , he is not going to wander.Peace (Ra)
How do I handle my girlfriend's mood?
Define “afraid.”I would say that it’s normal not to want your partner to be unhappy. And it’s normal for people to be in a bad mood some of the time.However, it entirely depends on how she deals with bad moods. If she’s in a bad mood, that’s no reason to be taking it out on you. Particularly if she is doing it in an abusive fashion.You shouldn’t be actually afraid of your partner. At any point. That’s not normal, or healthy.