What do women want in the bedroom?
In the bedroom, my wife likes a comfortable, king size sleigh bed, an armoire for her clothing, individual dressers for each of us, a walk-in closet. A master bedroom should also have its own private bathroom. As for times, she usually goes to bed around 11:00.
Sex outside the bedroom??
Have you started by having sex in the shower or even in your kitchen putting her up on the countertop? If you want to have sex outdoors you can wait until it is nighttime and go in your backyard or even in your car....you'd be amazed the positions you can figure out in your car regardless of what model vehicle you have. It spices things up alot more....you don't even necessarily have to leave your driveway either if you are worried about getting caught by police (that happened to me before as a teenager lol)....I didn't get in trouble anyway....hope that helps
What do 50-year-old men want in the bedroom?
Every individual will be different, of course, with their own set of specific sexual preferences. But I’ve noticed that most mature men (of any age) want the following:A woman who is completely confident and comfortable in her own skin. No man likes a woman who complains about her perceived imperfections. Most mature men don’t care if your breasts aren’t perfectly firm and pert, if you have stretch marks, or if your skin is starting to wrinkle. Confidence is sexy.A woman who knows what turns her on. Nothing is sexier (in either partner) than someone who really knows what gets them hot and is willing to own that. There are a lot of ways to own it, and that can vary, but not being willing to completely own your own sexual pleasure is a real buzz kill.A woman who is realistic about sex. This is also true for what turns on mature women, by the way. Porn is great for entertainment if that’s your thing. But it’s problematic as a model for what actual sexual pleasure looks like for most people, particularly as you get older. It’s just not realistic to think that people can keep at it for endless hours or do it at the drop of a hat, and it’s not usually all that pleasurable anyway. Get real.A woman who doesn’t fake it. A mature man wants a woman who is honest enough to say that she’s satisfied even if she didn’t climax. Nothing is worse for a man’s ego than discovering that his woman has been faking her pleasure. Be vulnerable enough to be real about that, too. If you’re having difficulty, be honest and ask for what you need. Get some help to figure out what’s causing the barrier. You deserve that for yourself.[Adding this after some thought] A woman who can speak intelligently outside of the bedroom. As men mature, they are increasingly interested in more than just a sexy body. A sexy brain is a real turn-on (also true for both sexes). Someone who has well developed opinions, can articulate them clearly, and isn’t always buried in her phone is very attractive.The theme is honesty. Be willing to be real. Be vulnerable. Men want connection, too, they just do it a little differently than women. Mature men like all kinds of sex, depending on their mood, their personal preferences, their energy levels, and their innate sex drive. From sweet lovemaking to down and dirty fucking, it’s all good. But you can ruin a good thing when you’re not willing to bring your true self to the experience. Always do that.
What do women like the most in bedroom?
It depends on the woman. I can only speak for myself. Here's what I don't like: selfishness. If I'm aware of what the man I'm in a relationship enjoys, then I'm going to give 110% to make sure he is satisfied. Properly satisfied.Therefore, it shouldn't be a surprise that I expect plenty of reciprocity mirroring my sexually explicit work ethic.I have very sensitive areas that I like special attention to be paid to. That requires full, soft lips and big, strong hands combined with an eagerness to learn, share and grow. *no pun intended*I also enjoy intense pressure on my skin, lots of kneading and pulling combined with nibbling, licking and sucking.Please know what and where breasts are. Don't abandon them. Don't be afraid to grip my hips tightly. Please understand how to properly stimulate a clitoris.The clitoris is akin to an engine. You have to warm mine up to get it revving. Men don't need a lot of time for release but I sure as hell do.No need to go further on the details. That is for the man I choose to lie down with to know.
Do you believe that men want women to be ladylike outside the bedroom, but not in it?
When you love somebody you want them to be lady like in the bedroom at first. It isn't that you don't want her to have fun. It is that you want her to feel loved and respected. When you become more comfortable with each other and the woman's needs then it is easier for the guy when the woman wants to let her hair down in bed. Sometimes it is a bit difficult to see the woman as a sexually wild animal even when that is what she desires. Mostly it just takes some time, trust, and comfort with each other.
Do you believe that men want women to be ladylike outside the bedroom, but not in it?
I think it really depends on the person. If by ladylike you mean that a woman acts passive and looks a certain way then I'd say that there are probably a lot of men out there who like a woman to take a more active role in the bedroom. I've never had sex before but it's not that I haven't heard it talked about among friends and others. I think some men like having a dominant place outside the bedroom but when it comes to sex they want to feel desired. One way to feel desired is by having a spouse who wants to have sex with you. Not all men are like this and not all men want women to be ladylike as in a 1950's homemaker either.
My husband wants a slut, outside of the bedroom...?
Well, first try to understand WHY he wants this. Does he want to watch or is it a control factor that he can do whatever he wishes? What is the mentality behind it? Second, make sure you understand what he's looking for. Is it sex, or touching other men or letting other men touch you? What are his goals and aims? Then, if it's something you're not comfortable with, set very specific boundaries and say, "I might do that but I refuse to do this." Tell him why you aren't interested. Let him know that you will try to help him explore his fantasies, but certain things are out of your league. If it's just showing some skin, go for it and have fun. If you don't want to be touched, tell him. I say talk it out and have him walk you through some examples. Learn about it and see if you can't be agreeable to something. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you and it doesn't mean he's a total jerk. He is just trying something new. Good luck, use protection!
What do guys really want from women they love in the bedroom?
Men want women to show that they are into them. Yeah men are sexually charged creatures, and some women can be. Anyway, if a man wants any type of intimacy from his woman, he wants her to enjoy herself as well, or at least show that she does. Example, if a man wants oral pleasure from his woman, he doesn't want her to act stuck-up and reluctant while giving it. That makes it less enjoyable. It'll be better not to get it. SOME, NOT ALL, men have the mentality to find someone who is more interested and willing to give them the pleasure they need. Yes it is a horrible thing to do, but, some women are not willing to go the distance for their men. True, men should respect their women's opinions and wishes, but will those women ever break out of their shells and realize that their men like certain things, and give it a try for their men? When will they stop with the "degrading and demoralizing" bulls@#$ speech? Realize this, men will treat women like royalty, especially if they are shown that they will be treated the same, or an attempt is made. Men do have an emotional side, and women should know how to effectively trigger it, being the masters of it.
Do you believe that men want women to be ladylike outside the bedroom, but not in it?
classically, men want saints in the parlor and whores in the bedroom..i prefer an honest woman who is both in all places...nothing is more attractive than a woman who flirts with everybody she wants to but comes home with me..and if she doesn't, well, then, maybe she'll learn something new to teach me next time around! be honest, with yourself and others...don't play roles, just be you, no matter where you are, and if others don't like what you are, then to hell with 'em!
Do women like to be told what to do in the bedroom?
Love this will be my own opinion, most women do not want to be told what to do when it comes on intimacy, and I'll be one of them that hates to be told how to please my partner in bed. But there are some women that do need esp. if they are younger. Your partner is already 40 yrs. old and if I'm not mistaken she will be one of those that is shy,so by asking her to please herself in front of you will be to much. Why don't the two of you do the foreplay together, so that way she will be pleasing you while you are pleasing her. You need to give so you can something in return,...........not all women are the same, so just respect her wish or what she want not forcing her or telling her what you want to be done....