Why do many men answer long/emotional text messages (the ones where a woman pours her feelings in) with very short unemotional answers?
I will take you through a brief tour of a human brain. Let's start with men.It consists of various small boxes for everything. They have got a box for a car, money, sports, wife or kids.I have only included few boxes for illustration. The fact is they really have boxes for everything including "Nothing". That's why they can do something seemingly completely brain dead for hours on end. A unique feature of their brain is that the boxes don't touch. When a man discusses a particular subject, they go to that particular box, pull it open and discuss ONLY what is in THAT BOX. Then they carefully close that box and put it away being very, very careful not to touch other boxes.Now a women's brain:They also contain boxes for everything, but their brain looks little different. Everything is connected to everything. The money is connected to husband and the husband is connected to Emotions and emotions are connected to insecurity and blah blah....It is like internet superhighway, and it's all driven by an energy called emotion. It is one of the reason that women tend to remember everything and why they are good at multitasking.Coming back to your problem - When a woman communicates something, they tend to write long messages because their emotions will go through all the boxes. How a man perceives? He reads the message, connects it to the relevant box and replies. Men do acknowledge the message & understand your feelings but in their own way. They don't even know that you expect a page long reply. They would reply whatever is relevant (sometimes just a word "Ok"). And that's it - box closed, matter solved and back to whatever they were doing. I don't want to say that a woman is wrong in writing a page long message or a man is right. I just want to say that a Sandwich is a Sandwich and a Burger remains a Burger. You cannot order a sandwich and wonder why it doesn't look like a burger. That's how it is !Courtesy : Mark :)
Why do people get so upset if you don't reply to a text or a message right away?
BecauseYou felt your self worth is attacked.You feel that you are not as valuable to him as you thought yourself to be.You have expectations with him. You feel that this kind of behavior hampers your chances of you two being together.You have low self worth and your confidence depends on his validation.You need him more than he needs you.What could be possible reasonsHe is not a text person. Many people don't like communicating too much on text. They treat text only as a means to set meetings.He might be playing some mind game to make you obsessive for him.He might not have felt to reply to trivial text. Your text might not have anything which needs replying.He might value you less.He might be really busy or lazy.It might have been too late when he saw your text. Some people don't reply to texts when they lose context. For example ‘what are you doing' or 'good morning' has no reply after two hours.Thousand many other argument. Never judge a person by his texting habits. Always judge people based on how they treat you in person or may be phone.
Slow Text Message Replies From First Date?
I have recently met this amazing girl that has a child online and we have meet for a first date which I believe went very smoothly, after the first date we agreed to meet again sometime in the future. Giving that we met before Christmas and new years it's a little hard to plan for the second date yet. I have been text messaging this girl just about everyday and receiving replies - the question I have is that it takes her some time to reply, sometimes I won't receive a reply until the next day and also I feel as if I'm initiating majority of text messages. I would also like to say that I'm not the clingy type - I understand if you bombard first dates with text messages your first date could loose interest fast. Are all females like this? Do females hate to initiate messages/calls for a first date? Does this show that she is loosing interest? Maybe I'm overacting?
My words lag and slow down when I'm typing fast during a text message, what's a way to stop this?
That depends on why they are lagging.If they are lagging because your computer is busy, then you need to reduce the load of whatever is going on in the background and/or tell the OS to give higher priority to the messaging app.If they are lagging because the messaging app is sending every keystroke over the Internet and waiting for a response to come back before displaying it, then it's brain-dead and needs replacing. You could decrease the lag with a lower-latency internet connection, but nothing will completely cure it.
What does it mean when a girl replies to messages really late but types long replies?
I guess, I would need to know what had asked or said to her to see if it constituted a really long answer.At the at the risk of being a traitor to my gender women over think a lot of things and tend to not hold that back.As far as the length of time for answering, it depends on how you look at it. I know for myself, I can be a complete scatterbrain, ADD is a contributing factor to that, I may be in the middle of a typing a text, get distracted, and later think I sent it when it's still sitting there in the box waiting to be sent.However, it could also be she may not be interested but is trying to be nice. If you're interested in the girl and you're confused as to the signal she's sending out, ask her. Tell her it's confusing and tell her why. She will appreciate the honesty and you may save yourself or some other guy in the future a lot of frustration by being upfront.Then also you then also you won't have to keep wondering about it.
Why has Yahoo Mail become so slow and unresponsive?
I am having the same problem. The problem is likely related to the ads they’ve put all over the site now.Sometimes the ads hang-up the loading of the page, resulting in a delay in when the words I type show up in my email. It is very frustrating typing away and having the word not show up immediately as I type. If I get an ad that won’t load, the page will hang until I get the ‘page not responding’ message, forcing me to reload the page.In their quest for ad revenue dollars, Yahoo has greatly reduced the quality and reliability of their mail service.
Keyboard is slow when typing emails?
Testing your account, I was unable to replicate this problem. on our end, the account is working normally. What you are experiencing is likely coming from an unseen browser update on your computer. As a test, you should try out a different one of our supported browsers. Use this link to download one that is NOT the one you are currently using: http://help.yahoo.com/kb/index?page=cont... Once you have tested another browser, and are sure that it works, you can try to get your old browser to function by performing some browser troubleshooting on it. This is, of course, assuming you don't wish to just keep using the new browser you downloaded. Use the following link to help troubleshoot your original browser: http://help.yahoo.com/kb/index?page=cont...
What are some of the best late message reply comebacks?
Brutally honest!
My girlfriend responds to me too slowly because she says that her phone is slow. Should I believe her?
I'm not sure what you mean by 'slow phone'. Was she implying that messages arrive on her phone with a delay? If so, it's not very credible - SMS arrives almost instantly well before smartphones were invented.If she means she's having trouble typing on her phone and it takes her more time than you'd expect, perhaps her phone's keyboard is not behaving well, or the keys (regardless if they're physical or virtual) might be too sensitive or the other way around, causing lots of typos as she writes, which definitely takes time to correct.Unrelated to tech, and from my own point of view, you seem a bit possessive and she doesn't take that very well. Just give her some space every now and then.