Are there any guys NOT interested in sex?
That's two questions! If all (since you've met and dated all of them) the guys in your town EXPECT sex on the first date, just move. I'm a male schlutt (well I was), and even I didn't demand sex on the first date. I was happy when it happened, but I was willing to wait. My wife made me wait 3 years, and that was well after our first date. As to the second question, yes. Yes there are guys who are not interested in having sex with you. Even several famous people, and I'll list them here: Jimi Hendrix, Winston Churchill, Heath Ledger, Abraham Lincoln, Kurt Cobain... and several others. Oh you mean living guys? Well then no. Guys may also like stuff like love and personality and all that stuff, but we also want sex. Our need for sex is the same as our need for air, and we can't turn it off. Most of us (except where you live) are willing to wait a reasonable time (I said reasonable) for it, but we all want it. It was imprinted into our DNA before we were even born, so take it up with god or whoever. If you're actually waiting for marriage, just start dating then. Dating involves at least the possibility of sex, and that's not a bad thing. Sex (or sexual activity) is what makes a romance a romance, and without it it's just a friendship. Nothing wrong with friendship, nothing at all, but it's not a romance. Take this the wrong way if you want, but it's a fact: If it wasn't for sex, we wouldn't put up with women at all let alone date them. You people are utterly confusing, emotionally unpredictable, and kind of completely crazy. You're worth it, but you're a lot of work!
Why would some guys flirt if they are not interested?
Why do some guys flirt with someone that they are not interested in at all. Particularly if this is a good friend, who they know really fancies them?I mean if its just someone you know casually, but a friend?Isn't that just really mean?And doesn't that just mean the friendship isn't worth anything either, if he is willing to just hurt you like that on purpose?
Why aren't guys interested in me?
I am very outgoing and friendly and most people consider me very attractive, but I can't seem to get guys to be interested in me except as a friend. When I go out with my girlfriends for example, I am the one who will know everyone or strike up conversations with people, whereas they will hang back and then get all the guys. If I don't do anything then nothing happens because my girlfriends are too shy or stand-offish to make things happen. But my point is that guys like me to talk to and hangout with and confide all their secrets to, but not as a girlfriend. And I know I am as good-looking as my friends, so I don't think that's it. But what I worry it might be is that I am black and all my friends are white. Maybe the guys are not interested in me because of that. And there are no black guys to date in my circle of friends.
Why do I only attract guys I'm not interested in?
Ever since I started college I've had no shortage of guys that are obviously interested in me. Thing is, even though some of them are perfectly nice guys, I'm just not interested in them as more than friends. They seem to be kind of obsessed with me and won't leave me alone. I don't even pay much attention to them like honestly I have no idea what they see in me. This one guy in particular follows me around to the point where everyone else around us seems to think we're a thing, but I just feel suffocated and want him to leave me alone. But I don't wanna be mean and hurt his feelings or anything. I just wanna be friends but he can't seem to get that. Meanwhile the guy I'm kind of head over heels for doesn't even seem to see me as a girl. I've tried giving up on him but the thought of seeing him with another girl kind of kills me inside. What am I doing wrong? Why is it that the only guys that take a liking to me are the ones I have zero interest in?
Signs he's not interested and signs he's interested?
Lets start with the later... If a guy ignores you and doesnt call you... he is not interested. Being that guys are easy...any attention that they give you means they are interested. We are not hard to figure out.
Is it odd that a 15 year old girl not interested in boys?
I'm 15 right now too, and in 9th grade. I don't think its odd at all because of the friends she has, i mean i love guys but i dont wanna have sex and drink and do all that kinda stuff, i try to stay away from that stuff and still have fun. She just needs to find some better friends, maybe she should join a sport or after schools activity so she can meet new people? Good luck!