How do you view an afro-centric woman who likes dating white men?
bizarre. you haven't an iota of pride in being black. so you have a non-black man by your side,potentially a non-black child in your arms... how exactly are you even a part of the race you say you love? plenty of disenguous white liberals 'support' what was your race. i find it sad...that everyone who does date interracialy... no matter how much they try to excuse it, say how it doesnt mean anything..how its just a preference, how it doesnt matter..and all the other nonsense that they expect other people to swallow. still try to hold it true for themselves...that they are still any at all 'like' people of their race.... even though, y'know.. it doesnt matter. other interracial daters (and mixed race folk who dont have much of a choice) may try to soothe youre feelings, because its in their interests to do so... but you have issues. no, you arent in it alone, you have a small community of broken people no longer apart of their races who are in the same boat.... they are your "people" and your all pretending and telling each other that nothing is wrong. @vegito lol.. aha... the undercover self haters. so you would have us beleive that what people say... a script they read from, is more important and less telling than what they actually do? good luck with that. dating interracially? there is no way you could show more contempt for what you are if you tried.
Why do asian american women hate their own race so much?
i know 3 asian american guys--specifically korean american and 2 prefer white women and one will ONLY date white women. just because you're not racist doesn't mean other people aren't. and if you're not racist, then why even care? go find yourself a more self-confident white/black/latina whatever to hang out with. lfe's too short to pine after women who don't want you.
How do you tell someone you're not interested?
The truth. Anything else is crueler. I've seen all of the games girls play, and heard all of the pathetically lame excuses, and I always know when someone is lying to me. Lying is a sign of utter disrespect, even contempt. Just gently and tactfully say, "You're not my type," or "I don't think it would work out," or whatever applies. You don't have to be vicious about it; just let him know that you don't think it's a match made in Heaven. He'll respect you far more than if you lie to him. [edit] I see a lot of other answerers saying you should say, "Let's just be friends," but that's another huge mistake if you don't mean it. Most of the time, when a woman says, "Let's just be friends," she really means, "I don't want to see you again, ever." If you don't want to be friends, don't say it. I see that Matt knows the standard modus operandi all too well. That's what most women do, but it's what to avoid if you care at all about being nice.
Why do the media persistently denigrate men?
Why do the media denigrate men? Concerted contempt for men now seems to have become pervasive in popular culture, from advertising to political talk-shows. This has very largely been as a result of negative depiction of men by the media and by constant reinforcement. The effects of such persistent denigration have never been independently or adequately studied until now. The things the media present and the manner in which they are presented - notably on television and in Hollywood films - obviously have a powerful effect in the public mind. When viewers are constantly being bombarded with images of men being put down, subjected to snide 'asides', slapped around, generally treated as idiots, or otherwise abused, viewers eventually come to perceive of this kind of behaviour as being normal and permissible. However, such constant misrepresentations are unhealthy, anti-social, sexist, and completely unacceptable. And, whereas violence again women is frowned upon by the media, violence against men is taken lightly and often presented as being 'humourous'. In more general terms, the media appear to believe that to depict a woman brutally assaulting a man is 'alright'. This is blatantly irresponsible and sexist and sends out a very wrong message. Another common misperception perpetrated by the media is that of male cultural and economic advantage. The truth is that while white male billionaires might form an elite superclass, the average male worker is every bit as exploited - if not more so - than his female counterpart. Don't shoot the messenger? Sometimes the messenger deserves to be shot!
Could U respect a stay@home husband?
I have always dreamed about being a stay-at-home husband---am good at housework, good with kids, animals, and cleaning every room in the house but my own. Am all man---I just like to be home, to write, to make a house a home. Can a woman respect that kind of man, or will she just treat him with contempt because he is not out winning the bread?