DO WHITE GUYS LIKE BLACK GIRLS?
im in 9th grade and go to a mostly white highschool and ive also noticed even though im black i only crush on white guys. and i havent seen alot of them like black girls back or even go out with us. and theres alot of cute funny white guys in my algerbra class and they all seem nice so is there a way i can attract them to ask me out or atleast get them to flirt with me bkuz i tend to be shy even though alot of guys say im attractive to.
Black guys: do u like white girls?
im a black guy and i love white girls ive dated black girls in the past, but within the past 2 years ive only been with white girls. im pretty much obsessed with yall now lol bout every black guy likes white girls, regardless they admit it or not. most black guys dont believe white girls are going for us, but i beg to differ. if your wanting to start hanging out or dating black guys, the easiest way to catch our attention is showing off some booty lol walk by us an stick that butt out
White guys dont like black girls?
Guys will not like girls for a variety of reasons. Like you said, "all races are beautiful." This is true. Of course in every group, there are negative aspects. Some negative aspects are practiced more with certain groups. This all depends on upbringing. Want an example? Not being disrespectful, but I don't like loud mouth women that talk and talk like they're all that. Sadly, I've seen many black women act in this manner, which to me is a big turn off. Other groups have their loud mouths too, which I would rather avoid as well, so it's not a race thing with me. I also have met black women that speak at a more comfortable level too, instead of making such a big show of it. Also, this could be a reason why many "brothers" seem to lean toward white women. As I said, no disrespect to you....just an observation. I'm sure those that read this will not like it. Oh well....that's the breaks. Just being honest. You seem to be a more promising aspect, judging from your writing. Just keep on showing your best side and I'm sure this guy will notice in time. If not, there will be others that will like you for your mind, and not your body only. Best of luck for you.
Why do white girls ( and women ) act so stuck up towards black guys?
I posted before but added details. Dont get me wrong, I find white women attractive as hell, but it seems like all they want is other white guys with money, and they pose like they are so much better than what you are. Im not insecure, nor do I lack self esteem. But it does bother me to see them act like they are movie stars. Im 23 and used to date white girls before I moved here 3 years ago ( NJ ). Man do the women here really suck. Lately I dont even acknowledge there presence. Also I find it really hard to date women in this state, and I am a good looking well mannered guy. It just seems like all the girls here have 1. Been here there whole lifes and already have a bf or some man in there life. 2. You arent there type. 3. Focused on themselves and not interested in a relationship. 4. Into the white guys with money, fancy cars, and degrees. Also into white guys that mistreat women So how does someone from another state fit in with the people that have lived hear their entire life? Every girl I have tried to talk to has been either a misleading, snooby or game playing *****. Unfortuneatly, I am in a mostly white area. Maybe NJ is just saying that I should leave it aint for me.
What is it like dating a white boy as a black girl?
As a freshman in college, I dated a guy named Kyle that lived a few miles from me. Kyle's stepfather and half of his siblings were either black or mixed. He grew up with them since he was a kid in Florida. He came to live with his biological father during college.We took a late class together and decided to carpool. We became really close. He would point out racist people to me, people who spoke freely about their racist views to him because they assumed he agreed with them.When we began dating, we got looks sometimes. Black guys that normally ignored me; being the nerdy, virgin bookworm that I was, would flirt with me right in front of Kyle saying things like, “You need a real man. A black man. Come over here by me. He can't do you like I can!” I would give them looks and leave the place with Kyle.We couldn't go to places with a lot of black men because of this. But we had to be careful about everywhere we went. We would often meet for group lunches with other couples. We were invited to visit one guy's home to ride horses for the weekend. We were making arrangements about whom would ride with whom when he said, “Ah, well you can't come. I'm sorry. My parents and grandparents are kind of racist. Maybe next time?” I just walked off with tears in my eyes. Kyle ran behind me and hugged me telling me he didnt want to go either. One by one everyone else dropped out too.Although Kyle was very supportive, it put a huge strain on our relationship. We were only 18. He wasn't prepared for Alabama racism and neither was I. I was raised colorblind by my parents. I guess they thought they were protecting me. I developed panic attacks and anxiety disorder. One professor was so horrible to me my mother had to come to the school and talk to him. Kyle and I drifted apart and eventually lost touch. Interracial dating created horrible issues on top of our already racially charged school environment.
Why do some black guys have a white mentality?
When my daughter was growing up in Atlanta, in the 80’s and early 90’s, she and most of her white friends emulated their black friends and tried their best to act and talk black. They were officially called “wiggers.”Yes, there is a huge expanse in the cultural differences of white and black people (that makes it neither positive or negative). Many educated blacks want to disassociate themselves from the black Community—the “brothas”—thus they come off or give the appearance as acting white. They talk by enunciating their words, they don’t use ghetto slang, and they do not pepper their speech with vulgarities. They are how almost all black newscasters speak. They do not make their sentences rhyme (akin to Jesse Jackson or Johnnie Cochran). The don’t juke and jive when they walk. They just act regular and like any other human being, and for that, they are branded as “Uncle Toms,” by their fellow blacks. That is a real shame.So I guess what I’m saying is, your black buddies are just acting natural, normal, and regular—like how my real African friends talk and act, who are truly African, here in Germany—not trying to be an African American, but just an American period. My real African friends scoff and shake their heads at how most blacks in America act and talk. The blacks in America did not get any of their culture—any of it—from Africa. It is their own take on being African, and since none of them came from the motherland, they really do not have any right associating themselves with true Africans. It is a totally different culture.You’ll notice any other culture of people, like Orientals, Europeans, etc, just act regular, natural, and normal. They do not feel any need to disassociate themselves from their Community and act a particular way. Thus, if your black friends want to act regular, natural, and normal, so be it. If they wish to remain “bros in da hood” so be it. Neither lifestyle is right or wrong—it is all a matter of taste.