Why do girls hate and ignore shy guys?
I'm a girl and I certainly don't hate shy guys. And I try not to ignore them. I know a few shy guys that I really like. I think the problem is that shy people, whether they be a boy or a girl, tend to be a little harder to talk to, especially upon meeting them. Meeting an outgoing person tends to be a little easier than meeting a shy person, typically because it's slightly less awkward for everyone involved cause there's more to talk about, more lively, etc. Also, and it's unfortunate and usually not true, a lot of shy people seem aloof and hard to approach because of how quiet they are. I used to be so shy until I forced myself to get out and meet people and kind of work my way out of it. So I know that it sometimes seems like people ignore (or hate) shy people. If shy people feel like they're being ignored, the only real way to fix it is to make people notice you. Typically by being less shy if at all possible :)
Do shy guys ignore the girl they like?
the guy i have a crush on ignores me in class and online. he acts like i don't exist in class. & when i try to ask him a question online, he doesn't answer me. I don't know if he feels the same way as me.. he stares at me all the time & this one time i passed him a note, he was smiling and his hands were shaking..
Why do guys ignore the girl they like?
HAHA Honey, guys are like spiders. More scared of us than we are of them. Guys pride themselves on their accomplishments (as do people in general.) by goofing up in front of you, or saying the wrong thing it somehow makes them feel stupid and that you won't think they're as good as THEY think they are. Thus, the minimal conversation and staring contests. It's safe and still gets your attention. Guys are actually gentle when it comes to the girl they like. So if a guy ignores you like you described above, be flattered!!
Do girls ignore guys they like? If yes, then why?
The truth is theree is a lot of reasons a girl could be ignoring youSome girls don’t like to let a guy down. They get uncomfortable with the idea of rejecting a guy so; instead, they just ignore the advances. This is a perfect reason a girl may be ignoring you, and sometimes you only have to give up.However, that’s not always the case. Some girls have no idea you’re even trying to get them. Some also just don’t pick up on the fact that you like them as more than a friend. They could only be under the impression that you just like them as a friend and that’s why they’re ignoring your advances. Here Is What To Do When A Girl Ignores You And Won’t Give You...
Why did this shy girl ignore me today?
Before she used to stare at me, broke the ice by chatting to me, act nervous when i'm around, seemed disappointted after the conversation. When she used to stare at me and stuff i never looked back and i used to ignore her like she doesn't exist. I remember she was going to chat to her colleague but she was busy and she was glancing at me sometimes but i didn't look back. I caught her looking at me one time and i was going for lunch she was looking at me but i didn't look back. I haven't chatted to her for a couple of months since she approached me i've only chit chatted with her saying "hows your weekend? Good morning! Bye have a nice weekend" and she replied back with a smile. I caught her giving me a side look and i looked at her again and she put her head down like she was shy and she looked up twice to see if i was still looking. Today i said hi to her and she totally ignored me like i've done something wrong. What have i done wrong? Why is she ignoring me? Help me out plz
Do shy guys ignore the girl they fancy?
Hey, so i am occasionally a shy guy and other times a very outgoing guy, so I see where you're coming from. But yeah, it's more of a confidence thing. If you really like someone your self confidence can get shot down ultimately leading to a downward spiral! And in the past I did not realize how important first impressions were, so i would say no, they either do not realize or realize it but are too scared to do anything. Hope that made sense/helped!
Shy guy ignoring me... why?
Maybe he feels awkward talking to you in front of other people because he likes you. Maybe he feels that if he treats you the same way when you're in a group as he does when you're alone then you'll do something to embarrass him because you don't want other people to know you get along so well. Maybe he feels that interacting as part of a group will change how you interact when it's just the two of you. You know when a guy teases you, is mean to you, belittles you, it means he likes you right? And he does those things as a way of hiding his feelings. Well this guy doesn't have the confidence to do that so he goes in the opposite direction, because he's worried that interacting with you in front of other people will make it painfully clear to everyone that he likes you. And laying yourself out like that, opening up, admitting that you have emotions, especially if you're shy, is a terrifying prospect. Trust me, I've been that guy, there's an infinite number of paranoid thoughts running through his head. The best thing to do is mention it when you're alone together, tell him it's not a big deal (even if that means lying) but you were just curious. Maybe if you clarify your feelings for each other he'll feel more relaxed around you in a group setting. At the moment he's a bag of nerves and hopes and fears and doubt. If you're interested in him in That way then tell him, or at least give him (more of?) a sign. Knowing how you feel about your relationship will hopefully calm him down a little, give him time and space to think and understand what's going on.