Why do virgos take so long to date somebody ?
im a pisces and hes a virgo and weve been talking since like october and i want him to be my boyfriend. hes really confusing like hell disappear sometimes and say that hes scared. why are they so scared ? i mean ive been here since october so its not like i like anyone else that hed have that to worry about. i dont understand them help ? what should i do
How do Virgo men act when they like someone?
They watch you lol they try to be very non chalant about everything but they actually are very well aware of what they are doing and what you are doing. If you notice them being overly laid back or overly chill they probably like you. If you notice them peaking over at you, they like you.These men are often known to play the hard to get card despite that being more common of women. But it’s not because they want to be chased. Virgo men don’t want you to know about their overly critical and analyzing side of their personality so they try to act a little distant when they like you which can come off as playing hard to get in a way. They think over analyzing makes them unattractive. Thus, they don’t want to be with someone who is overly critical and analytical as it is unattractive to them.They love spontaneous women, with class. They can sense fakeness. So be real, be confident, mind your manners, be fun, give them a little bit of hard to get treatment but don’t be afraid to tell them you are interested, just don’t do it too fast they will move on the second they feel like you are chasing them, because women with class “don’t chase” in their eyes. They just don’t want to sense their own qualities in anyone else because they are in fact very insecure about themselves. Virgo men can become obsessed with a woman, so you will be able to tell if they like. It is very obvious when they do not like someone, they are so disinterested to the point of ignoring that person.
What do Virgo men like in a woman romantically and are they quick to spot the signs a woman likes them?
They like all types of women, ALL types. I'm talking personality because it doesn't matter what she looks like, he's just going to try to perfect her in every way possible anyway. Then he'll walk away leaving her confused and with a hole in her heart.This is because if you allow him to take control of your life in any way, shape or form, he'll lose respect and interest in you.They're not dumb, if you flirt in a classy way, they can spot this.I'm a Capricorn woman. I always find myself being bothered by Virgo men. I don't mind them, too much, but they bore me because we're too much alike. We always end up like brother and sister. I need Fire or Water in my life.Virgo men honestly do best with a strong woman who basically knows who she is and will scoff at his attempts to shape and mold her. The type of woman that will walk away and never look back if he crosses the line.These are the women they obsess over. Astrology says they are not jealous. Oh contrare! They are very jealous, but only with women who are cool internally and not looking for a man to fix her. In other words a woman who knows how to build up his shaky ego while reminding him that her ego is perfectly in tact. And your ego SHOULD be in tact, right?I love them, but I don't like dating them, but they chase me and I drop them because we're both quiet, unassuming ego maniacs who think we are god's gift, here to fix the world. I get them, totally relate and understand them. Hope you get what you want.Good luck.
How do Virgo women break up?
I don’t know why someone who isn’t into astrology would bother answering this question. Its like an atheist going into the catholic section and when somebody asks __ about god they say “ well god doesn’t exist” , like that answers the question?Anyways, Virgos are unforgiving, and over analytical. Very sexual and have high expectations. It’s not easy to hold onto them. Some virgos go quietly assuming that the relationship just didn’t ‘work’ and there was no real source of heartbreak. When they’ve been wronged- That’s an all together different story. They become venomous. Silently, they’ll prove themselves to be better than you. If you cheated, they’ll make themselves look incredibly hot, work out and go to every extent to prove you wrong. They’ll find someone like you, but better. More attractive, smarter. They aim to cause psychological damage when hurt, they’re vulnerable and fear heartbreak almost as much as imperfection. They will go on one night stands after the relationship just to fill that void. They won’t toy with you much, or talk back after it’s over but they can fight while it’s ending. They are able to argue and will hurt you- pulling every weakness you’ve ever shown and they’ll use it to your own destruction. Virgos aren’t to be toyed with, and when they’ve been hurt or fear losing something they’d rather completely destroy it than deal with suffering.In the end though, if you were somebody they loved- after all of it they’ll look back on you fondly, and recall in rose tinted glass what you used to mean to them. If you are the ‘lost love’ then you’ll always have a place in their heart, even if its somewhat bitter. They’re a dramatic bunch and I’m sad to say I’m one of them.
Why do Virgo men becomes distance after a night of fun?
I’m a Virgo, have been all my life..lol I can’t speak for other Virgos but for me, this is a problem I have. I have never been married, although my father married 5 times, I have only had a handful of relationships of more than a year or 2. Most are short-term affairs and most of the time, I am alone. I don’t mind but sometimes I long for meaningful company. I think, at least for me, is I am afraid to show my feelings on a deeper level and allow myself to be loved. Don’t get me wrong, I am a deeply emotional person! I cry sometimes over a 30 second commercial. I feel what the artist or singer is projecting as much or more than most people. My emotions are basically right on my sleeve but basically I have a coat over my shirt! I dont like people to see me cry. I have NEVER told a woman, even one I have been with for a while, that I Loved her. It is sad, but it’s Virgo! I long for a woman with a romantic mind a quick wit and oozing confidence. Who doesnt?! For me I think Libras and Taurus are great but I let them walk after a short affair. I consider mysel and have been told I am usually excellent lover(my Italian blood maybe?lol), but only at the beginning, when the candle burns brightest, but soon I flicker away as though I realized I have no intention of going beyond the initial intimacy. Women mostly want MORE and I am afraid I dont measure up and as I have gotten older, I look at myself as someone who has little to offer. I see myself compared to other men as a failure and I dont want to take away a woman's chance to find a real happy and secure man by being with me. So, not really sure I helped but I am a Virgo with 57 years experience! lol
How do Virgo men show love?
My husband is a Virgo. It took me a long time to understand this, but his way of showing me his love isn’t in romantic gestures or gifts. It is in his dedication to being a good husband and provider. It’s in the way he’s thoughtful and considerate, often bringing me things I need before I can even ask and often even before I think of it myself. It’s in the way that he cares for my vehicle and the way he maintains our yard. It’s in the way he takes on duties to relieve me of their responsibility because he knows that some days are more challenging for me than others. It’s in the way that he is always aware of how I’m feeling and is there just to sit with me when I don’t feel like or am hurting too much for talking. It’s in the way he tries to keep the dogs quiet when he knows I’m in the middle of a Migraine attack.It’s in everything he does, his thoughtfulness and the way that he takes care of me.The thing to remember though is this: horoscopes and astrological signs do not define a person and are not absolute in determining how a person will behave. Yes, my husband is a Virgo. But his personality is not shaped by his sign. His personality is a combination of a hundred things including how he was raised, what he’s witnessed and experienced, and most of all, just who he is.
Why are virgos perfectionists?
While I can't say this for all Virgos, my soon-to-be-ex-husband is one and his perfectionist attitudes drive me insane at times, so I understand. He can find just about anything to complain about, yet I think it is more a control issue than anything else. They generally don't feel in control unless their world reaches some sort of pinnacle of perfection, but they do like to pick-and-choose what those perfections (and imperfections) may be. But, give your guy some credit- he may truly want to house to be spotless to impress the kids (or the other parent if they drop them off). It's obviously an important thing to him, Virgo or not, so the most you can do is try to respect his wishes and as his girlfriend, help him along the way if he needs it. Not all Virgos are like that, but the majority I have met like to be orderly and cleanliness is essential to a functional world for them, so if you love them just try to compromise with them and don't let it get to you too much. They are usually harder on themselves than anyone else.
Do Virgo men act distant when in love?
My husband and I are both born on the same day - both of us Virgos. We are both very much in love. VERY MUCH. In this question....I'd need more information - like - what kind of distance? Before my husband, I shortly dated another Virgo male (one day after me) who was extremely affectionately distant. He had not yet made up his mind whether I was 'wife' material and thus worth the emotional vulnerability.After 7 months of interacting with him, including sex, he still had secrets that he kept from me - still remained distant physically through the day, put limits on what he did or did not 'provide' for me...on and on...But, my husband, whom I married, is a COMPLETELY different story. He IS in love with me, and although I must push or pull to find the definition of what he is feeling at times - the greater portion is evident in how he handles #1 - my personal provisions of need; #2 - things or surprises that would make me happy; #3 - how he handles my problems.So...the obvious - #1 - whatever I need - it's done. Rarely do I worry. And, if I worry (even an ounce), he was expecting the unexpected. God forbid I worry - He's got it.#2 - Little surprises show up all the time. ALL THE TIME. Oh...look...there's chocolate sitting on the counter...(I love chocolate.) Oh....look....he researched spinning cast-bait fishing reels....even though he knows nothing of the sport - but, it's my favorite thing in the world to catch a fish. So, looky there! He saved and bought me a $300 fishing reel (all researched thoroughly) and set it on the counter next to....Oh! Looky there! He put a hot cup of cappuccino next to it! I love Cappuccino!#3 - He cancelled our wedding. Like...he picked up the phone and said, "I have a crying bride here. In no world is this ok. It's HER day, and she is to get whatever she wants on HER day. So - no wedding." We got married....alone - on a beautiful day under a beautiful sky by a shining lake - both of us saying our vows under the heavens with God as our witness and crying tears of joy. He was so happy. He still is. THAT is how you know the difference.
Are Pisces and Virgo persons compatible?
I am a Pisces and my boyfriend of 3 plus years is a Virgo, so I am biased lol. Well Pisces and Virgos are opposite each other on the zodiac wheel, and are like two sides of a coin. Virgos can be a grounding energy as they are an earth sign to Pisces which is a water sign. You can look to a Virgo for logic and calm. In fact Virgo have a weird control of there emotions where it is almost if they want to feel it, that is how they feel. For example my boyfriend has an amazing ability to let go of things that upset him in a minutes time, and then can go back to being happy. This is of course opposite to roller coaster emotional Pisces. Where a Virgo can bring calm and logic to a Pisces. A Pisces can bring a dreaminess to a Virgos life. A Pisces can rely on a Virgo as a steady and reliable character. A Pisces who lives the world through their emotions can help the Virgo understand their emotions, as a Virgo can be emotionally cold at times. Virgos are also very caring in a practical sense, for example my boyfriend will make me coffee in the morning, or bring a blanket downstairs for me. A Pisces will show their emotions through their intense emotions, while the Virgo will show it through their loyalty, and their practical acts of love and kindness. I hope this helps.