WHY DO WOMEN THINK THEY CAN CONTROL MEN.?
They think that cause as men we allow them to believe that. If they didnt believe that you think they would be with us? I doubt it. The truth is as men we ahve a hard time listening so when there talking we only catch like 40% of what they said. Since we know we do this stuff we allow only our woman to treat us a certain way. Men control it all, just in time we have added on small control for woman under our over all control.
Why do women want to control men?
Men know how to have fun. Many women do not. They usually end up finding something that is unattainable to be fun (spending all day every day shopping and going to the spa, traveling the world and not having to work for it, being romantically surprised with gifts on a daily basis, adopting every cat they can find, etc.). Men can have fun by poking something with a stick or making a silly noise. Women are envious of this ability and try to ruin our fun since they cannot have fun themselves.
Why do women try to control men?
All human relationships involve power struggles. Notice how a woman or a man TRIES to control her/his partner... you never see them succeeding fully. There are always disputes (whether they show through full-blown arguments or simply through cold behavior is another matter) and changes in who's got the best hand - but no one ever wins the game. There is no ONE reason for why a man attempts to control a woman or a woman attempts to control a man. You can't generalize relationships to such a degree. There are hundreds of reasons (or more) to explain a domineering attitude, but no one reason is just it for any person, since no person is that one-sided. My dad is often controlled by my mom because she is forever occupied with some problem(s), always wanting to improve upon or change something - he is content with what they have, but does what she wants to keep her satisfied. Judging from my parents' case, women are finicky and try to use "their" men to feel more accomplished or satisfied with themselves. (My mom ALWAYS gives herself the credit for "coming up with the idea" to do something, when in fact my dad does most or all of the work. What the hell?!) Obviously, there are many other reasons deemed "correct" for groups of people (e.g. all women) acting the way they do... my favorite is to blame all problems in all relationships on insecurity. Edit: Please, let's not resort to saying one sex is better than the other. There is no weak-minded, weak-willed sex - just weak-minded and weak-willed people. The disposition, intelligence, abilities.. etc. of a person has nothing to do with his or her biological sex. Oh... one more bone to pick: Women can't multitask, just as men can't. It's been proven that multitasking lowers your concentration levels. You are unable to complete the tasks as well as you would not doing them all at once. Women get in too many car accidents with their cell phones and makeup because they try to multitask. On the other hand, men try to drink and drive. It seems we're in a competition to see who's more stupid. (I have scientific evidence to back me up on those two claims, so I'm not being a hypocrite here. ;) )
Do women like men who take control?
Dear nice guy, youve got it all wrong buddy. We don't bad mouth or distespect our girls we tak action and we take charge because we have balls. Ex: Movie Date - (WRONG WAY) Guy: What do you want to see (First mistake is asking what she wants to see, they actually want you to choose) Girl: Ohhh lets see titanic Guy: Mmm ok babe. IN HER MIND: WOW HES REALLY GOING TO WATCH THIS WITH ME) (RIGHT WAY) Girl: Ohhh lets see titanic Guy: No were gonna see terminator THATS THE FINAL DECISION DON'T DEBATE WITH HER. SHE'LL LOVE IT. THAT SIMPLE. Take charge. And this "bad mouthing" is also something you've got messed up. Some dudes do that but most of us are just trading minor insults with our women because we know she isnt a low self esteem sensitive little girl. Don't be a door mat/pushover. Ex: Clothes (WRONG WAY) Girl: I don't like that shirt you should stop wearing it. Guy: Alright babe I won't wear it anymore. IN HER MIND: WOW WHAT A WEENY/PUSHOVER (RIGHT WAY) Girl: I don't like that shirt you should stop wearing it. Guy: I don't like your attitude you should stop telling me how to wear my clothes. SHE'LL LOVE IT. THAT SIMPLE. Keep in mind that those two examples are more for new relationships. Once your all love dubby and in love its fine to watch titanic over terminator... I guess.
Why are men control freaks?!?
First of all let me explain that marriage isn't 50/50 it is more like a 60/40. Sometimes you give the 60 and sometimes he does and you both get a turn only giving 40. As far as him telling you to "shut up" that is just disrespectful. I don't blame you for being upset by it. You need to let him know when you aren't arguing that you don't appreciate being disrespected like that. My husband and I argue as well, but we have agreed not to be disrespectful when we argue. There is no name calling and no telling each other to shut up. We simply say, "Okay, I know you have a valid point to make, but right now I am unable to listen. Let's take a time out." We have agreed to this and when we use that sentence, we both stop talking and just take a few minutes to cool off. It may not work for you, but it sure beats thinking all men are control freaks.
Why do some men like a woman they can manipulate and control?
Thanks for the question.Not all men are manipulator and controlling, there are men who are encouraging and sympathetic too. But I agree they might be less in number than those who are dominating.People who are hollow within often seek satisfaction by controlling others.they feel they have conquered if they are able to regulate people around them, but they often tend to forget its the illusion of being powerful.Reasons may be-It gets their ego pumped up.their thirst for being dominant and ruling over is quenched.They feel strenghtened if they find that other person has submitted.Try to exhibit traits of manliness by ruling over.they will pull your strings as a reminder that you are below them although the reality is just opposite.Hide their insecurities and fear under the sheet of pseudo-power. As they themselves don't have the strength to face the low self esteem they possess,so they try to govern other people's life and decisions.
Do men like women they can control or the opposite?
Depends on the man, but I tend to find that men who like to control women, have underlying issues, and generally turn out to be abusers, be it physical, mental or emotional.A mature, well adjusted man, is generally looking for a partner, someone who is their equal in many ways, or can complement them in a relationship.No one wants struggle or strife in a relationship, so why even go there?Now, if a woman wants or needs to be controlled, then she most likely has some deep emotional issues, possibly even an abusive past, and no matter what, she will never be truly happy being controlled, and I can’t see this being a lasting, loving, respectful relationship.However, yup, one more, there is the scenario of domination in the bedroom, and if that’s the case, then I hope a man who enjoys control/domination, finds a women who is submissive, but only as far as their sex life goes.
If men are to control their sexuality, what is wrong with women helping them, e.g., dressing more modestly, if they volunteer to do it, of course?
If people are to help poor people not steal, what is wrong with them making their homes look like slums, to reduce temptation?If children tempt some people to pedophilia and we want to help those vulnerable to it, what is wrong with keeping children cooped up indoors instead of letting them play to reduce temptation?If someone looks nice, they may be targeted for an armed robbery, so what is wrong with dressing in rags to help others not rob them?If we use our voices to say “no” or otherwise stop another person from non-criminal but also not-ok behavior, they may become aggressive, so what is wrong with letting them take what they want rather than possibly cause them to criminally harm people?If we charge money for items in a store, people may steal them, so why shouldn’t we just give everything away for free?Your question is similar to all of these. All of the above actions are absolutely legitimate responses to fear having a crime committed against you. There is nothing wrong with any of them. However, they are generally ineffective. Criminal acts occur regardless of appearance. Women can wear burqas and still be abused (actually, this happens all the time….cite here: Mayim Bialik, if you think modest clothing protects you from sexual harassment, you need to listen to these Muslim women) and is generally more prevalent in countries where women are forced into “modesty.” But it is never the responsibility of the homeowner to ensure his house looks run-down to prevent burglary, it is never the parent’s fault that the child was playing where a pedophile was lurking (excepting willing collaboration with a known pedophile), it is never the responsibility of a person to dress in rags to prevent robbery, it is not the responsibility of a person to prevent criminal aggression by saying yes to requests they’d rather say no to, it is not a store’s responsibility to give away product to prevent theft, and it is not a woman’s responsibility to look “modest” so that a man doesn’t assault her. And, just to repeat, even if it were her responsibility, it wouldn’t work.
Do women consider themselves lucky because they can control men using sexual prowess?
Do women consider themselves lucky because they can control men using sexual prowess?What? Seriously, what???I am baffled when the lines of sexual responsibility are so blurred in people’s minds.Firstly, I don’t think that any human can be controlled by others vide sexual offers. Man or woman. And if you fall in the category of humans who can be controlled by such things, I suggest professional therapy. Because I shudder to think the corollaries of that kind of thinking.Secondly, I think “Women control the availability of sex for men” presents an extremely privileged male POV.If I looked at my relationships from the “power/control/ domination” POV, I’d say the opposite. As far as I am concerned, men control the availability of sex for women.But thankfully for me, I take responsibility for my sexuality and instead of saying someone controls availability of sex for me, I’d rather look at it from a place where the notions of ‘power / control /domination’ etc are not present at all.Lastly, if you think, in any manner whatsoever, that the sexual dynamic of power is skewed in favour of women, you need to really open your eyes and look at the world again. Or study history. Or learn about rapes and sexual assaults in the world.Do I consider myself lucky that I can control men using some prowess?Nope. Saying no (or yes) to sex is my right and not a privilege that I should consider myself lucky for.