My best friend hates me?
It's been almost a year since I moved away from Indiana to Florida. I had a girl best friend who was two years older than me. When I left she was 14 and I was 12. I'm now 13 and she's 15. I text her a lot but she barely ever texts me back now and it makes me sad. I miss her but I don't think she misses me. I cry a lot because of it. I figured since she's 2 years older than me, she might have felt this way a lot but thought she had no choice but to respond before, and now she's realized that she doesn't have to. Did she just think I was annoying all along and hate me? I miss my best friend and I would do anything to get her back.
My best friend's friend hates me?
Well - my friend Yasmin has this friend (she's in year nine, I think. She's one of Yasmin's relative's mates), Tia. Tia has been horrible to me from the start. It wasn't too bad at first. Maybe she elbowed my out of their games a little or walked ahead with my friends without me...but it was nothing too serious - right? Then, when I was included in their stuff, it just wasn't right. She mostly ignored me when my friends were around, but when they weren't, she'd hiss to me: 'They don't want to be your friend; deal with it, they don't want you.' Or if me and my friends started a game, she'd be like, 'Katya can be the slave. Katya, move. Katya, get out of the way, Katya, go away.' Katya katya katya - while they got fun parts, like being posh ladies (uck) or the leaders. I was stuck. Stuck stuck stuck. Being the slave. Then, it just started getting ridiculous. She'd sometimes go up to me at school (what, can't you say it when I'm with my friends, Tia?) and say: 'Yasmin and (so and so) don't want to be your friends anymore', and walk away. I'm not stupid. I knew she was making it up. Then the BIG stuff happened. One time, I was waiting after-school outside of the gates, and she came up to me. 'Yasmin and (so and so) have already gone, Katya. Just go.' Now, there's something I just felt in me - she's lying. I knew it. Because five minutes later, Yasmin walked out of the school gates and came up to me. A day ago, on the park, me and some friends were on the swings. Tia pushed me, but soon said, 'I can't you're too fat', which sent my blood boiling as I'm not fat (under 84 pounds 12 year old). And later on, she said, 'let me have a go, you've been on ages' on the swing. Which is INFURUATING as I'd arrived about 10 minutes late on the park. She swore and kept saying, 'Katya, get off the f****** swing!' Then I lost it. 'ALRIGHT!' I hissed, yanked myself off the swing. I got up, yanked my coat off the ground, and threw it over my shoulder. I stamped off, leaving a murmer behind me. What should I do?? I've tried to tell my friends but they won't do anything. Tia has also been calling me a slag behind my back to my friends (bad more Tia; they've told me. By the way, I'm not a slag, I've only been out with one boy this year - and I'm not even with him anymore) which has made me angry and hurt. I want to slap her smug face. I'm not breaking friends with my friends just because of HER. Please help?
My best friend hates me now?
Me and my friend were bestfriends for ten years(since kindergarten). We did everything,hung out together like everyday,and was so close. Then now in freshman year everything went down hill. We started being friends with these two new girls,who came from a different school(but they were best friends). Me and my friend were friends with them for a couple months,but we started to not like them for some reasons. For example they are very full of themselves,and told us how ugly we were everyday. Then one day one of those girls told my best friend that she didn t want to be friends with me anymore. It didn t make any sense,because I didn t do anything. Even my best friend was confused. As time passed on,they all started to hate me for no apparent reason. The last time me and my best friend hung out was New Year s Eve. She slept over the other friends house that night(the one who didn t want to be friends with me). After that,my best friend started to hate me. She didn t consider her self friends with me anymore,didn t talk to me in school,ignores me,and unfollowed me. I don t even understand what happened,when me and her talked about this the last time we hung out she said she wouldn t leave me,even when everyone else is. What do i do? I don t reallly have the guts to text her since she will just ignore me.
Why does a friend (girl) hate me?
Girls are confusing, moody creatures at best and complete monsters at worst. I am one so I have every right to say this.I have no clue why your friend hates you.It could be something you said. Sometimes someone’ll say something to me that I don’t really appreciate and I’ll get annoyed at them. It depends on what they said, but I’ve done anything from ignoring them from a bit to full-out screaming at them. Although I’ve only had to resort the latter one a few times. I don’t like telling people off like that.Anyway, the only way you’ll get an answer is if you ask her yourself.If she’s doesn’t want to talk, please respect that and give her a week or so to cool down. Then maybe you could try texting her to see what happened.If she continues to ignore you, she might not be the best friend you could have. It may be best to let a friendship like that go before it becomes toxic. Or see if something else is going on. It might not even be you at all.
My best friend's dad hates me?
You cant do anything. Just be good mannered, polite and overall nice whenever your around him ( when you arent around him as well ) hes just taking out his bad parenting skills on you. Dont let them get to you, hes just so overprotective yet bad at parenting that hes taking it out on you. Be nice when your around him and itll either let him know your a good person or let you know that hes just a flat out ***. Your not HIS best friend, he doesnt have to like you. But thats no excuse to be a jerk around him so be nice to him. If he wont treat you the same way theres nothing you can do. If he confronts you about it just say "What did i ever do?" And if he brings up the smoking thing say "Everyone tries things like this atleast once in their teenage years. I bet you did too. It's normal and i dont even smoke." He has no reasons to blame you except his own faults. Dont let him get to you!
Out of nowhere, my best friend hates me?
he is a vampire and dont want to kill you
My best friend hates me all of a sudden?
My friend is acting weird all of a sudden and I don't know why. Here's the story. My friend and I were friends since 7th grade ( we're in 10th grade now) and we always hung out and we always laughed at each others jokes. This year we are in a group of friends and she seemed to be getting along better with one of the girls. I really didn't mind since its kinda hard to be BFFs with someone forever and people change. I was a little sad but not that much. Then a few weeks pass and she starts excluding me from everything and made me feel worthless. I stopped hanging out with them for a week. I needed time to think a little bit. One of my friends asked me what's up and I told her that I didn't really feel accepted. I still didn't want to talk to them because well, I didn't quite feel ready to yet. The next day, the whole group shunned me completely. I just left and my "best fiend" acted like she still wanted to be my friend. That same day after school, I asked her why they were acting weird and she told me that I have way too much pride, I don't care about anyone but myself, I brag a lot ( which i asked some people about and they said they didn't notice) and that I should be humble, I hate being wrong and won't admit it if I am and lastly that I should apologize for leaving them. I explained to her why i left and I never felt the same about her again. I feel that she's only hanging out with me because she feels forced to. Even before that week she didn't really show that she cared about me but only the other people in our group. I started asking people if they thought of me this way too but no one did only my BF. a few days ago I actually asked her if she wanted to still be friends and she said yes but in a weird jokingly way and then I asked if she wanted a friend with all of the negative traits she said about me but she didn't want to answer and shrugged her shoulders. I asked again and she said nothing. Today she ignored me completely, pretending that I didn't exist and joking happily with her new BF. I'm sorry if this is too long but please, I really need help with this problem because I don't want to assume something that is not true.
My husband's best friend hates me?
I have been married for about 7 months. The marriage itself is great. However, 3 years ago, when my husband and I were first getting serious, his best friend started to dislike me. My husband's best friend and I have had several fights, but for the most part have kept from dragging my husband into it. Neither one of us has been outright hostile toward each other in front of my husband. However, last month, right before my husband's birthday, we had another fight. This time, I brought it up with my husband and he stood up for me. The best friend has since blocked us both on everything online outlet and cut all communication to me and my husband. The last thing I said to this friend was "for what it's worth, I'm sorry". I felt incredibly guilty for ruining a friendship that has lasted 8 years. My husband did not seem to be phased at all and told me that I was his number one priority and he would always choose me and that he was proud of his decision. I tried to get on with my life. About a week ago, the friend opened lines of communication back up with my husband (but not with me). My husband seemed so excited. Now, I'm feeling even more guilty for causing this whole mess in the first place. I know that there is no real reason for me to feel guilty, but I just can't stop. I am completely keeping out of the friendship between my husband and his best friend at this time. What should I do? (For the record, he started this last fight, but I was not in a place where I could talk about it to him, and brought it up later.)
Why do I feel like my best friend secretly hates me?
One reason could be because your best friend is competitive.Try this : Pretend that something miserable happened to you, paint a picture of how bad things are for you.You will likely see your best friend trying to comfort you but coupled with an inner smile from your demise.If that happens, that person isn’t your best friend.