Why does she want to be friends with me?
She may just want what she can't have (lots of girls are like that.) She may be jealous that you've moved on and have a girlfriend (lots of girls would love to believe that after they break up with a guy, he'll NEVER find someone as good as them.) Or she might just want to be friends. I'd tell her that you want to be friends too, but you have to have some time away from her. COMPLETELY away from her. If you guys can go for a couple months without talking to each other or e-mailing or anything, THEN you can decide if you both still want to be friends. It's too soon since the breakup, and your heads need time to get clear.
Why does she want to be friends?
well now what should I do!?!?!?!., To be honest with you you have 2 options 1 hang around have someone who likes you s a fiend or 2 find a girl who really likes you and wants to be friends and become more then friends I went down that path before ending up she just wanted a guy around so she wasn't alone could spend $ on her and it wouldnt help the issue she still wanted to be friends she asked if I wanted to move in with her and all it was, was stress.......have her as a friend treat her as a friend and go out with females and have a great time she will sway one way or the other.......or maybe not
Why does she want to be my friend?
i'm a 17 year old guy and my best friend is a girl. to be honest, i dont know why she wants to be my friend. i don't play sport, i'm socially awkward, especially around girls, and i listen to emo music, when most people listen to pop and dance music. i have been bullied many times throughout my school life, and i did nothing to defend myself, and i guess that makes me a coward too. i hate how people treat me and they think just because i like emo music, i should be dressed in black. but its not my fault i dont like their type of music, because to me emo music sums up my life and what i go through each and every day. my friend does undestand me though. she respects what i like and for that, i love her. i asked her why she always comes back to me, even when she has way cooler friends than me. she said that i was a lovely nice guy, and that i always helped her with her problems, and listen to her. but, i dont feel comfortable being the nice guy, because to me they always finish last. believe me i know how lucky i am to have a friend like her because i have no other friends. i am also beginning to fall in love with my girl best friend, and this only makes life worse. i cant tell her because if it doesnt work, i cant lose her. my life would would be over, in fact, my life would be no longer worth living. i'm from a pretty poor family, so i really have nothing to offer this girl, but she sticks by me no matter what! why does she want to be my friend? what have i really got to offer anyone? lets face it, life just pure sucks! :(
Why does she want to be friends?
when you have a lot of sex with some one there is the tendency to have or get emotions unless you are made of stone. i think that in order to have sex you have to have some emotions. that is what sex is all about isn't it? if you don't have some emotions how do you get the feelings to have sex in the first place. and may be this is what her problem is that she has developed deep emotions for you. and you have sex and children in common with her. so if you don't feel like you had any emotions or feelings with her how did you get children with her? and if you feel like you didn't have any thing in common with her why did you get her to be your sex-buddy? you could have done that with anybody why her? it should be a uncomfortable situation but if you start caring about them for more than sex pride is thrown away. any since you don't have the feelings for her that she has for you it is more uncomfortable for you than it is for her. because she is risking her pride that you will come around and see that she really care more about you than just having the sex. but shame on you for throwing her away like old dirty piece of paper.
Does she like me? or does she only want to be friends?
Well i got a text message today (sunday) from her telling me that her phone was dead all weekend and she couldn't charge it because there was power outages. (which is true, damn ice storm.) and i did ask her who it was and she said she would tell me when she knew what he said. also i said i thought i knew who it was and she asked who i thought i was. I told her. "ok i really like you, i hope it was me who you like or else this will get really akward." well apparently her phone died and she didnt get that text message. (go figure when i actually get the balls to tell her this her phone dies. and i know she didn't get it because it wasn't akward at all the next day. and i know i messed up pretty bad so stop making me feel more guilty than i already feel.
Why does she want to be "just" friends?
I met this girl a couple of months ago at a club, we got a little drunk and i ended up spending the night at hers. A week or so later we met up for drinks, she mentioned that she thought i was "hot" etc. However she did not want to get involved because she thought i could do better, she suggested taking things slow. I respected this wish and we met casually for the next few weeks to grab coffee. So i did not intimidate her i did not engage in any playful/ suggestive behavior After a few weeks i guess we got into a rhythm of sorts, it was nice we were getting on really well and beginning to develop in jokes. However the other night i saw her out having a drink with another guy. I asked her about this and she said they were just friends. Out of curiosity i also asked her about us and she said she thought the coffee meetings were just a "friend" thing. I told her i liked her, and was confused because surely the means by which we meant would have suggested my intent was not friendship. Why does she want to be "Just" friends...i can't work this one out.
Why does he want to stay friends?
Let's take in account every aspectInterest matters :- He is not interested in you. Probably he prefers girls of some particular genre.Mature(adult) : He is mature enough to realise that friendship is always more wonderful than relationship.Protective of your friendship: He doesn't want to screw things up between you two.Value for the relation you share: He wants you as a life long friend and not just a couple of months girlfriend.Love: He probably loves someone else.Career oriented: He may not want to screw his career goals. (No distraction I mean)Not a despo: Let's say he is not a pervert either.Believe me he is a genuine person.Already knows he has no future with you, which means he has a vision.A family person.
Why does she want to be friends with me?
You didn’t say if she just really wants to be friends or is flirting with you. Either way, tell her politely that you can’t be friends and for her to please keep her distance from now on. That’s pretty direct but maybe direct is what she needs.Besides, what if she is just trying to string you along? There are people who cannot stand losing the adoration of others even though they are already in a relationship. Or maybe she wants a spare tire in case the chosen one does not live up to expectations. Don’t be the spare tire and keep your dignity.Regardless of whether she knows you like her or not, tell her you’re not interested in her that way anymore. If she says she will dump her BF for you, then you know what kind of girl she is—the better to stay away from this person. Maybe she would and you’d end up being her BF, and then what? If she can do something like that to her current BF, what should make you think she won’t do it to you, too?I am not saying she is a bad person. I don’t know her. All these are just scenarios I’m giving you. But bottom line is, if you don’t want her friendship, then say no.
Why do all women want me only as a friend?
If you are indeed, an extroverted, social 35 year old man who meets women on a regular basis and you’re not getting any interest from any of them, then you are doing something seriously wrong.I would guess that you’re doing a combination of things that sabotage your chances.First of all, there are undoubtedly women who have been interested in you and you are missing their cues and instead you are making a bee line straight for the women who aren’t interested. So that’s why it appears that all women only want you as friends. Those are the only ones you’ve been pursuing.For God’s sake then bring a woman friend along next time, -you have so many of them by now- and let them help you recognize what an interested woman looks like. Trust your woman friends to help you get past this blind spot. Buddy, you’re doing it wrong so get that fixed.Second, when you talk to a woman, skip all the compliments. You’re trying to be a boyfriend, not a hairdresser. You two should share values and be complementary to each other in personality. You don’t have to be alike, you just have to both respect each other.Be yourself so that the woman knows what she’s signing up for. And if you’re interested, make your move. You’ll want to say statements like this:“Please let me treat you to dinner. I like you and I want to get to know you better.”And if you have a couple of successful dates then you say “Would you please be my girlfriend?” And things like “You turn me on. Will you have sex with me?” (And by all that is holy learn how to give a woman an orgasm. It’s not that difficult and it makes all the difference.)Do you notice something? There is nothing ambiguous about these statements. You’re asking directly for what you want. If the woman is into you, she’ll be delighted. If she’s not, you’ve just ended the torture and it’s time to move on.Don’t waffle a lot about whether to get deeper into the relationship. Just take it as far as you can until things either break or get better. An ex girlfriend is better than no girlfriend. (Better for both of you.) A failed relationship isn’t a failure, it’s a stepping stone to a good relationship. No relationship at all is what failure looks like.
If a girl says she just wants to be friends does she really mean it?
I find that this depends on the setting. I think a girl you see in some of your college classes can say that and mean it, like, if she wants to study with you.But in the personals, it could very well mean something totally different. From my experience in the personals, almost every woman I’ve met under the guise of friendship, it turns out she was looking for a lover. But she can’t be forthright about it, because she’ll be flooded with responses.A woman saying she wants to be platonic friends in the personals usually means: “I might just want to be friends, but I would prefer to find a “friend” I am attracted to, just in case “I” choose to take it further. I’m only saying “friends” because if I say I want sex, all kinds of creepy, thirsty guys will show up. Plus, if I really don’t like you, it’s a fallback point where I can say I never promised you anything more. Whatever the case, I don’t want you to pressure me into making any rash decisions.Women don’t keep male friends around for going to the park and stuff. They are backup plans for sex, a free meal, or date. Like Chris Rock said, “in case of emergency, break open glass.”When this happens, and you accept this arrangement, it’s imperative that you take her at her word. Treat her like a friend, and ONLY as a friend, NOT a boyfriend, running errands and shit. If it becomes more, let HER bring it up. That way it’s strictly her idea and she feels in control of the situation.