Im feel so lame, i have 0 friends and im socially awkward and i think i have social anxiousty?
So Im a 17 year old girl and i have low self esteem and im shy and i think i have social anxiousty. I get nervous around people and dont know what to say, im always afraid what others think of me. I really am bad at comunicating with people and i always think people will find me weird. I have no friends and Im kind of a loner but im used to it. But sometimes i feel lonely. When Im with people i speak quietly and not much and most of the times im quiet. I rarely go out cos i have no one to go with so i just stay at home. I think most of the people find me boring. Thats why now i think my personality is boring. And ive never been kissed, hugged, had a bf or anything. And i feel like such a loser. With people from my class whom ive known for 3 years now ive made 0 friends. People in my class all are fiends with each other and made grops of 3 or 4 people. And i feel like when im hangin out with them like im bothering them cos im not saying much and im quiet. Now i wanna change but i dont know what to do. How can i stop caring what others think of me and be myself. I dont even know who myself is anymore. I wanna make friends but im so shy and awkward and i dont know how? I wanna live normal teenage life not this. Should i start inviting people to places? Please help me ps All the people already know what im like ( quiet, shy, boring..) and im afraid it would be weird to just change myself all of a sudden??
How to be my friends with benefits with a stranger.?
First of, control yourself if you are a real gentleman. If you do not want to act like a gentleman, find out if she's the "beauty" or the "beast". If she is the beauty, then you must approach her utmost respect and dignity. If she is a beast, any packaging of trash will look appealing to her.
Is it weird to just ask a girl for her number?
I want to ask this girl in my class for her number. Im pretty sure she likes me but she is shy and gets really nervous around me. I was thinking I could talk to her for a bit and say... hey could I get your number. Or since spring break is coming up I could say, what are you doing for spring break. Then say, well maybe we could hang out some time, could I get your number?
How long do you wait before accepting a facebook friend request?
i accept it as soon as i get the email. as for your second question i just friend them then send them a message or facebook chat with them and ask them who they are and if i don't know i delete them off
How to tell stranger im not interested in them?
I asked a question depicting how a guy i do not know introduced himself and asked me questions and asked for my phone number today. Since i said im not interested in him, most of the answers i got said to just tell him that. However how do i say that? I dont want to be mean incase he just wants to be friends. Also, since i did talk with him today wont he find it weird if i suddenly say im not interested?