Why does my Mom get mad at me so easily?
It happens almost every day for years. I am a 14 year old girl who makes her mother mad for the small things. Today I came home from playing basketball with friends and I went to grab some food and milk. The milk smelled disgusting and when I told my mom, she said to taste it. I didnt want to, so I told her I didnt want to drink bad milk. She kept saying to drink it, I kept refusing. She started yelling at me. I spilled like two drops of milk on the counter and went to get paper towels. My mom started calling me lazy and careless. i cleaned it up walked to the table and she said: You can't do anything right. I broke down inside. I hated it when she said things like that. So I sat there eating trying to hold back tears as my mom lectured me about how I am lazy and how I dont care about her and how I always want things my way. Now before you think the wrong thing, my mom isnt a bad person. Shes a very caring and loving mother, but when she gets mad, her words hurt bad. My mom only gets really mad at me if I dont do what she wants. If I dont wear the shoes she wanted me to wear, i get a lecture and maybe a grounding for a day. If I dont wash a dirty dish, I get the your lazy and careless, and maybe a grounding for a week. If I dont do chores or I wait to be told, I get a big.lecture, the hurtful words, and a grounding for a week. It may seem stupid, but Im a sensitive person. This has been going on for years. Sometimes she asks me, is there something wrong with you? Maybe she is right. I think that I am the reason to my moms anger. I am the reason why she is so tired every day, why she yells at me all the time. When she says I am lazy, careless, not smart, and greedy, its like I get a scar on my brain. She has convinced me into thinking that I am some sorr of monster. I used to think I could change. But Now I feel stupid for telling myself that lie. I feel like nothing will ever happen. Ive prayed to God many times. He has reached out, but I must have ignored his call.
Why is my mom always mad at me?
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. My mom acts the same way but worse. She always curses at me for the smallest things and she doesn't seem to care about how i'm feeling. Just today, she asked me to open a can of beans and cook them. so I asked where is the can opener and she said, S *I T, I don't know look for it! And im like, gosh, all I asked is where is the can opener. She makes me feel like I'm this horrible person, when I know I deserve so much better than how I am getting treated. I hate that we don't have a tight bond... that's my mother. it should be happy times... not confusing and hurtful. I don't know why you mom or my mom pushes anger out on us... it sucks.. but all I can do Is pray that God mend our relationship and to help us not fight or argue all the time. A lot of times I just cry to myself and write down how i'm feeling. And you have to encourage yourself because if you don't you will always feel down... Also, don't rebel or be disrespectful. Remember that is still your mother and you have to show respect. If anything don't say anything and just do what she says to avoid arguments. And pray for better days.. I hope everything works out well with you. God bless you sweetheart.
My mom is mad at me because I have acne?
She says she's so disappointed to have a daughter with bad acne, She envies her friends daughter for not having bad acne. It makes me so mad and when I get angry, she gets a lot more angry and says none of it would've happened if I listened to her and cleared my acne quickly. Like I have control of clearing my acne. Now I just want it to get worse so that my mom will get more pissed. They don't bother me but the fact that my mom's angry with me because I have acne just makes me so mad. Now my little sister is starting to get acne and she tells her to not become like me. The thing is, I think she's causing my acne. When she left for vacation for a week, my acne was getting better because I knew what I needed. But when she came back, BOOM my acne gets worse. How can I cope with her being like this? How can I secretively heal my acne on my own?
My mom is so mad at me. helpp??:(?
It all started yesterday when she didn't get me anything for Christmas, I got so upset looking at the pictures on Instagram and stuff of what other people got, I threw a fit. I admit I was wrong, and I've told her that too! But ive kept it inside for so long, I exploded. Not once have I gotten a birthday present, party, or Christmas present, etc. She forces me to stay in the house to study and constantly tells me about how I'll never be as good as some of the other kids around here. For the past 2 christmases, I've asked for one thing, a tortoise to keep me company at uome, but she refuses to buy me it because its too "expensive". It happened Christmas morning, but my mom wouldn't let me forget it. The whole entire day, shed bring it up and yell at me for it, saying how some of the other kids are studying rather than complaining for presents. Ive apologized over and over, but she doesnt take them, saying im "mocking her" Last night, her and my dad got into a fight, and it ended up with her kicking my dad out. He came back, but this morning, left again before she woke up. I assume its for work. Now, she wont even talk to me. When she hears me coming down the stairs, she goes and lies down on the couch. As soon as i leave, she gets up. I dont know how much longer this is going to go on! Any tips would be appreciated!:) im 13 if that helps. Also, sorry for the long post!
My mom is so mad at me and I'm scared, what do I do?
Just calm down.One time, I didnt speak to her because I was too busy with my phone and she got so mad she started to grab my phone and threw it on the floor— with a touch of grounding me for weeks.Also, similar to your case, she tried to call me many times when I was hanging out with my friends and I forgot to call or even text her where I was. She was so pissed.Another, when she called me on my phone waiting at the driveway while I was too busy at school talking with my buddies— she threw a fit saying why the heck was I being insensitive and not caring about her texts and calls.Trust me, kiddo, it wont last long. Let her calm down. Do not engage by talking back— it will be worse. Just listen— do not spite.And like I said, calm yourself down.She just loves you and if she didnt— she wouldnt have gotten mad. She reminds me of my mother— they are both the same.
Why is my mom mad at me for shaving my arms?
my brothers girlfriend is usually really mean but lately she has been giving me advice about starting highschool. she took me to the drugstore to get hairdye (that didnt look so good) and she also got me razors so i could start shaving my legs, my armpits, the hair in front of my ears and lip and my arms. My mom caught me in the bathroom today shaving my arms and she got really mad. i understand about the hairdye because she said i was too young but why is she so mad??? when she found out cara (my brothers girlfriend) told me to she was really mad, is she just jealous that cara is being nice to me now? my brother isnt home from his summer job yet and hes going to be mad that i got cara in trouble. why is she so mad?
What can I do if my mom is really mad at me and is all mad?
Honey, whatever the reason, tell her you’re sorry and then wait. Or maybe wait a little, and then tell her you’re sorry. Then ask her what you can do better next time.
Why is my mom so angry at me all the time?
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My mom is mad at me for cutting...?
Alright. I went to the beach today with my family, and my mom noticed the cuts on my arms. She decided to tell me step dad and try talking to me about it...in front of the entire beach. I told her we can talk later and we did talk, but she was very rude about it. She told me she would take my door off the hinges and take away all of my long sleeve shirts and force me into counseling if it continued. She asked what I cut with and I showed her a pair of scissors, and she took them away. I honestly cut with a blade, but I don't want her taking that from me. She said she is going to tell my dad and I told her that I want to. I've been planning on telling my dad but NOT my mom, because I knew my mom would be rude about it. I knew she would do this if I were to tell her so obviously I wouldn't. I have been cutting for a year now. I will admit I am addicted. She told me that my cuts "aren't even that deep" and related them to my brother's girlfriend's cuts, which hurt. A LOT. She has been a complete ***** about it and whenever we talk about it she raises her voice. She won't realize this is a serious problem, not something simple and stupid. I don't know what to do. Also, she is a reason why I cut, because she babies me too much, won't accept that I (literally) have no friends, drinks too much, and she just completely stresses me out. She says she doesn't want to be "the mother who has to deal with a dead child". That hurts a lot too. I'm questioning if I should just live with my father (as my parents are divorced) because I know he would handle it much better and not yell at me. She also didn't do this kind of reaction to my older brother when she found out he used to cut. She asked how I'd feel if she were to cut and kill herself. I'm too stressed to eat dinner, and I'm hoping I don't get anorexia (again) from stressing out. I have no one to turn to and want to know what to do, please help.