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Why Wont He Unfriend Her

My husband wont unfriend his baby mama on facebook?

he always like commentin on her pics that she looking fine and crap and i ask him bout it and he all like nah baby i just playin and stuff and i tell him to remove her from facebook and focus on me and his son and he wont so wutta i do?

Boyfriend won't unfriend his ex?

They've been separated for about over 3 years now, and she's still messaging him, like twice a year or something just for greetings and stuff, and he never responds, but sometimes he tells me things like, "oh my god, my ex popped out another kid", or says stuff about her dating this guy who turns out to be gay, etc., and I'm not jealous or anything but I don't really understand why he needs to keep checking up on what's happening to her?

The last time he told me anything about her (which he obviously found out from facebook), I told him "I don't really understand why you're still friends with her.", at which he just shrugged his shoulders.

He's very bitter about their breakup and he admits that, I think she owed her something and took some of his stuff with her when she left, he doesn't expect to ever get them back but gosh, shouldn't he be over it by now?

Sometimes I think he's just ego-tripping over the poor girl. Like he enjoys seeing her being miserable and enjoys how she keeps pleading for him to talk to her.

Should I just leave things the way they are?

What happens when I unfriend someone on Facebook?

If you're asking what happens technically, the answer is (relatively) simple:They no longer show up in your news feed. Depending on your privacy settings, and the privacy settings of the person you unfriend, you still may see each other's comments and posts if you have mutual friends. To explain:Say I'm friends with Joe Smith. Joe unfriends me, but Jane Doe is our mutual friend. Joe and I will no longer show up in each other's feeds on Facebook, for the most part. But if Jane comments on Joe's post, or Joe comments on a post Jane is tagged in, I might still see these posts and comments.Of course, that depends on privacy settings. If Joe's settings make it so only friends can see his posts, I shouldn't see his posts, even if Jane comments on them. In some cases I might see them, but I won't be able to comment on them.I, personally, have a public account, so Joe could still see anything and everything I post (except the occasional post I share only with friends), and would still be able to comment on them.All that said, if you're asking what happens when you unfriend someone on Facebook in the psychological/sociological sense, that entirely depends on the two of you.Some people get very upset if they're unfriended by someone. They may get angry and lash out. They may post about it publicly. They may contact you to ask why. They may bad-mouth you to other people.Other people don't care (or don't notice). If you're unfriending someone to make a point and the other person doesn't notice or care, did you really unfriend them?I look at unfriending as the nuclear option - if you're unfriending someone you're actually close with in real life (a family member, perhaps), it can cause real issues. Better to "unfollow" this person so that you're still friends but his or her posts won't show up in your feed.If you don't know why you're friends with this person and can't remember how you even met, this person probably won't either and I wouldn't think would even notice the unfriending.

Should I unfriend her now that she's with someone else and won't talk to me anymore? I met her on my overseas travels and we liked each other, but she started seeing someone else because I wasn't able to meet up with her again when I said I would.

Yes, unfriend her. If she won't talk to you, she's not your friend

Should I unfriend a girl on facebook that ignors me ?

I went out with this girl a couple of times and then she starting ignoring me. Then a few months later we starting talking again but when I ask her out on a date she cancelled on me last minute. Then a few months after that we starting talking agian and then she igored me agian so I texted her a couple of times and she didn't respond. So I got a roll of penny's and wrote out "I miss you sarah" and sent her a pic of it but I still got no response. Then a couple weeks later she starting liking my statues on Facebook so I messaged her on there and said " hey stranger how have you been?" and still no response what should I do?  I feel like she is toying with me. I want to unfriend her and forget about her even tho her friends are my friends I don't care. I don't want her on my mind at all and if she texts me after I unfriend her I'm going to tell her how I feel or do you think I should tell her how I feel before I unfriend her?

What is the best way to ask my boyfriend to unfollow her ex on Facebook? Not unfriend.

You already have some good answers on whether you should tell him you want him to unfollow her or not (don't), but I'm going to add something for you to think about. You say you feel uncomfortable with them talking so much, but you aren't saying why. The why is your fear that they have a deeper connection than you and your boyfriend and that he could somehow leave you for her in some way. Unfollowing her, in your head, is the equivalent of cutting of the possibility of their reconnection and him pushing her aside for you. Do you really need the validation so badly you'd risk his resentment, when he may not (probably doesn't) have any romantic intentions in mind with this Facebook friendship?Is your relationship so weak that a Facebook feed is all it would take to separate you? If yes to any of that, get out now, because the relationship isn't strong enough to be worth the effort to maintain it. If no, why worry about something that doesn't really matter? Once you go down this rabbit hole, where do you stop? Do you start forbidding him wishing her a happy birthday? Do you make him throw out presents she gave him? What about other girls that could be attracted to him? How will you handle that? Relationships require trust. You aren't showing your boyfriend the trust needed for a healthy relationship to survive. Will he break that trust someday? Maybe he will, but that's how you know to move on to the next guy, until then, you're just sabotaging your own relationship with mistrust and demands. His resentment for your lack of trust will bite you in the end, and may actually drive him to that other girl instead of driving him away from her away, like you hope.This is about your own insecurity and that's your issue to handle, not his.

Should I un-friend a person on Facebook if (s)he told me (s)he doesn't want to talk to me?

I saw this question. It caught my attention because as I’ve matured on social media, I do distinguish it as an activity driven past time. The most distracting is Facebook in that a woman could be messaged a number of times and if she is married and wants to be respectful towards her husband, she stays away from one-on-one conversations in MESSENGER or CHAT with men. On the other hand, because it is “social” I will usually try my best to respond to a comment or instigate comments of my own (often a beautiful photograph or a funny cartoon or a wonderful quote). My preference is to interact with everyone publicly. The only ones that doesn’t apply to almost always are my kids, my sister, my friends in Calgary, relatives in Vancouver. It would not mean that I “do not want to talk to you” specifically, it just would mean whatever you have to say can be said publicly … or can’t it?

To move on do I really have to unfriend my ex from Facebook, unfollow him/her on Instagram and delete his/her phone number?

It works for different people. I’ve friends who remove their exes entirely from their life and that includes social media platforms. To them, out of sight means out of mind.As for me, how I got over my ex was to always be on a lookout what he’s up to, who he’s seeing etc. It secretly makes my blood boil and that’s when I know I have to get back up on my feet and be doing BETTER than him.To me deleting is quite childish but do whatever makes you feel better. Just remember that once you delete, you will have no access to his feed and you are no way adding him back even if you regret it months down the road.The choice is yours. I’m still friends with all my exes on FB. Maybe you could just unfollow their feed if that helps. People delete numbers so that they won’t drunk text or call them (it’s embarrassing).

Why doesn't my ex-boyfriend unfriend me on Facebook even if I asked him to do so?

Possibly, because he has everything you post blocked and doesn't see anything from you.Possibly, because he doesn't want to have anything to do with you, even as far as unfriending.Possibly, because he is aware that if you unfriend him, you two are unfriended, and he thinks your request is simply a way to get more attention from him.Unfriend him.

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