My boyfriend calls me Fat. Should I leave him?
Simple questions but you will find answers in themWere you fat when you started relationship with him ?Why did your boyfriend get into a relationship with you? Is it because of your beauty or anything he deliberately said like your inner beauty or attitude?Why do you want to leave him? It's it just because he called you fat or is it because you feel like you are getting fat but the fact that he said that hurt you? Or is he abusing you calling fat all the time or he just want to breakup with you.?If you want to break your relationship because he called you fat then why did you get into the relationship at first? Sooner or later appearances change he might get bald later too that should not be the reason for you or him to end this relationship.Fat, slim is only perception, it is not what you hear that should make your decisions but what you or your bf thinks of you ?Look at yourself in the mirror, you are your best judge, are you really fat ? I don't think so, you are fat only when you can't walk by yourself, when you can't do anything except eating, when you are lazy and less caring ? If you think you are still fat then start becoming slim , after a month or so when you felt you are slim ask him again. You will find your answer.Ask your bf , is he joking.? If he saya he is then give him a hug , kiss him on cheek and ask him again whether you are fat if he says no again the be a bit affectionate this time kiss him on forehead and ask again if he says still no then he is really joking on you being fat . Love never allows a man to say lie. There is a slight chance he might start kissing you asking for apologies. If not he is seriously confused talk to him.finally take him out to a peaceful place say that you are ok with his comment and ask him what he is expecting from you boldly. If he really loves you then he will say sorry else he will say the truth if any.A plain old suggestion never follow suggestions from strangers not even me. Take suggestions,weigh them and then act appropriately. This is life not a medical diagnosis to follow blindly. Talk to your close friends, your gf and your parents. Talk to yourself in a peaceful place. You will get your notions right.Be happy.
Why does my girlfriend think i called her fat?
Well we have been dating for almost 6 months now. We are in a long distance relationship so we always usually text eachother every second of the day practically non stop. So one night she was finishing up an assignment for class and she was going out to eat dinner with a friend. Before she went back to college, she had told me she was gona start working out went she got back to the university she goes to. So back to that night, after she told me she was going to eat, i asked her if i could ask her a question and she said yes. I asked her,"have you been working out? you sure do eat out alot" and she had got offended by it. The way she took it was COMPLETELY NOT the way i meant it. She took it as me calling her fat. What i had meant was just that she does eat out alot which is no problem to me. I was just saying she eats out alot. And the workout part i didnt mean that she was getting fat so work out! I was just asking her if she had been working out because she told me when she got back to school and settled in her dorm,, she was going to start working out. Thats all i meant. But she took it as me calling her fat. Now she has told all her friends that i called her fat. she isnt talking to me but only to tell me i am a liar, that i think shes fat, and that i changed everything in this relationship. I have tried apologizing, telling her the truth and what i really meant by that, but she still wont believe me and insists that i am a liar. What do i do? i really love her and just want her to believe me, but she wont.
I called a girl fat as a joke, she cried?
There's this pretty hot girl in one of my classes in college that I would like to hook up with. She is curvy like Kim Kardashian, and I love that. I tried to be "cocky and funny" so I yelled "hey fattie that's a tight dress you're wearing today" when she was with her friends. Instead of taking the compliment she just started crying hard and ran away and all her bit*h friends started hating on me? wtf? What did I do wrong?
My "friend" called me fat?
So Im a 14 year old girl and I THOUGHT I was friends with this guy(hes stick thin) and we were just talking and he ended up laughing and calling me fat (Im 5'3 and 104 pounds) and I didn't know how to respond so I just called him really thin. My "best friend" who is a girl heard him say that and instead of defending me she just high fives him and said "welcome to the skinny club". She continued to tell him all about how skinny she was but honestly she's about the same as me, just taller and I was feeling pretty upset so I'm just wondering why do guys think it's okay to call girls fat? Am I fat?
OMG! My so called friend called me fat today!?
I'm 5'4 and 117 pounds. I never thought I was fat until she told me. I heard her say behind my back, "She's so fat! All she does is sit on the couch watching tv and stuffing her face!" And that's not true! She also told my friend (let's call her Abby) that. Abby was playing along agreeing with her (just to see what else she would say), then Abby told me what my friend said. I told my so called "friend" that I knew that she said this and she admitted it and apoligized. But it changed my mood about the way I feel about myself. What should I do? Is 5'4 and 117 pounds fat? Thanks in advance! :) ♥
What to say when a girl calls herself fat?
Say "I KNOW! Get your fatt butt to the GYM!" Just kidding. I'm sure she already knows it. Just help her make some healthy choices in her life.
Why is it rude to call a girl fat?
I don't get it, if a girl is fat, than why should I not say anything about it? Maybe she isn't aware of her bulging thighs. One of my friends is pissed at me because I saw her for the first time in like 3 months, and she gained like 15 pounds because she is pregnant or something and I commented on her weight.