This kid hates me for no reason... how to deal?
If you have a lot of friends then I would not let this one kid make you feel insecure. Write back on your wall about how much attention he seems to pay you or something along these lines. That is actually considered bullying and they are making laws against that now. The guy that answered is totally right, everything changes in college. Nobody acts like this. Just ignore him. It does strike me as funny that no one likes you but he still makes a point to write on your wall. Is he trying to prove something to somebody? He is a joke...just ignore him, hard as it may be, rise above it. And by the way, NEVER quit anything because of someone else....just get angry and run harder and faster at track. RISE ABOVE HIM.
Girlfriend kid hates me?
My girlfriends son clearly hates me, and i dont know what to do. He's very rude to me, often will tell me to shut-up, will not respond when i say hi to him after he comes back from school. My gf tells him to help me in the yard with the grass, he wont. He's 14, and acts like he has no respect for me. I can not prove this, but last Year i brought a new BMW, few days after having it suddenly the tires were flat in the garage. I discovered it the next morning, and the garage door was down. He has no clue how it happend, even though his other brother cant walk, and i know my girlfriend would never do this. One night in the car he called me stupid, and i reacted , told him that was disrespectful, got very upset, and my girlfriend tells me iam over reacting, that iam too sensitive!!! She will never side with me when it comes to disciplining him. And often we have big fall outs where it's her and her son vs me, and they stop talking to me for 2 or 3 days, and i just cant take it anymore. My stepfather would beat me if i ever acted 1/2 as bad. Last night we were watching tv, and my mother called my cell phone, and i answered it in the living room. He told me to " Shut up", and my girlfriend just sat there and , i dont know if she heard him or not, but she didnt say anything. This morning i said good bye to him while he was leaving to go to school and he didnt respond. Yet she never talks to him about it. What kind of kid is this??? I spend lots of time and money on this guy and he treats me like dirt, and im sick of trying to be his dad. Should i bail on this relationship? Or whats my alternative?
HELP!!! My step son hates me!!!?
My 2 step kids live with us and the 6 yr old HATES me. We had a good relationship, but now he does not mind me at ALL, he back talks and tonight yelled out that he hates me and I completely believe him. He has outburst when he doesn't get his way and acts like he doesn't hear me anytime I tell him to do or not to do something. His dad has continuously corrected him, but he does not care. His mother passed away when he was younger so it's not the Mom putting ideas into his head. I feel like I'm going crazy!!!!
I hate my step dad. What should I do?
Short answer: There's nothing you can do.Long answer: Dealing with parents can be extremely hard. Personally, I lost my father two years ago and my mom almost instantly (two months later) met another man online. My father died in April, my mother met my stepdad in late May, and he lived with us by September. My mother abandoned me for two months with my brother to go stay with my stepdad in Arizona, while I was still grieving. Basically, I have a lot of anger and resentment left over from this. Either way, my new soon-to-be stepdad isn't the best person, to say the least. He treats me much differently (worse) than he treats his own daughter, and says very cruel things to win an argument. He constantly blames me for things I haven't done and my mom believes him, and it's extremely frustrating. Because I broke my phone last month, and currently am unable to pay for my own (my mother is also unable to pay for a nice phone for me), my stepdad pays for it, which is kind, but he uses it as leverage against me. Anything I say wrong turns into me losing my phone for however long he’d like. Usually a few hours. He once gave me a list of things to do in order to get my phone back, so I completed the list and he still wouldn't give it back because he “"doesn't make deals with children.”Our relationship is awful, and he thinks that I like him more than I would admit. I don't, and likely never will.I’m explaining all of this to easily answer your question. No matter how much you hate someone, there is likely no quick, rational solution besides waiting it out. Unless your mother decides to leave him, you'll always be stuck with him. Just try to cope for now.
My boyfriends kids hate me!?
I'm 24 and have been seeing my bf whos 32 for almost 10 months now. He was married but his wife walked out on him and their 2 daughters almost 2 years ago. She has no effort to get in contact with them. His daughters are 6 and 9 and hate me! I understand that they miss their mom and want her back but why take it out on me? I've been nothing but nice to them. I've taken them on special days out to the zoo and other places,bought them toys and I read them a story whenever I'm a their house when its their bedtime. But they still hate me. They actually say that they hate me. They have thrown things at me and hit and kicked me on several occasions. I don't know what I can do!