A Subtle Way To Let Her Know That It

What are some subtle ways to let someone know that you like them?

Using subtlety is a coward's way out, and it rarely works.People who want subtle signs to let someone know they fancy them usually want to be subtle because they're scared of rejection. Well, guess what? The person you fancy is also scared of rejection too! While you're sitting there giving subtle signs but not being direct, they're sitting there thinking "Are these signs? Does that person like me? I can't tell. If they liked me, wouldn't they just say so? I better not do anything."And then some third person, who is just as scared of rejection but knows that the secret to life is doing the things you choose to do even if they scare you, is direct about liking the object of your affection, and the person you fancy ends up with them and not you.Subtlety doesn't work. Don't do it. If you like someone, say so. If they don't like you back, you can quit wasting time.

How do I subtly flirt with him/ let him know I like him/ want to be with him?

I've been resisting answering, despite the A2A (and thank you for that), because I've never been much of a flirter, and didn't think I had anything useful to add, but having reread the details, I think I might. Many moons ago, I was getting to know a girl. We were sitting across a picnic table from each other, mostly making small-talk, and a couple times she needed to get up and go say goodbye to someone who was leaving, or refill a drink or whatever. I, of course, stood when she stood, and she urged me to sit back down, saying she'd be right back. And as she walked past me, she brushed her hand on my shoulder. Very lightly; it could almost have been unintentional. Except she did it when she left, and she did it when she returned, and she did it each time she got up for something.Now. That's not "making the first move," in most guys' minds. "Making the first move," is stopping him, grabbing him by the belt, reeling him in, and sticking your tongue down his throat. No, brushing his shoulder as you walk past is just a sweet little gesture that barely registers consciously, but starts the subconscious thinking, "Hmmm..."That may be all you need. But you can do more. For example, if you need a chair, and he offers his lap, even as a joke, you can laugh--and then sit on his lap! If that pings against your shyness meter, consider it an extension of his joke: just sit down for a moment, laugh again, and stand back up. Again, that's not making the first move, because he invited you to do it.If you find him next to you when you're in a group of friends, brush your side against his side. Just momentarily. Plausibly accidentally, if you know what I mean. If he's looking at something on his phone and laughing, put your hand on his shoulder and lean your head close to his to see what's so funny. If you think about it, these are all ways to use physical touch or physical proximity in very innocent, non-sexual, non-romantic ways to say, "I am here; notice me!" and to build physical intimacy with him molecule by molecule. There is nothing dirty, intrusive, invasive, or first-move-y about any of them. They're just ways to attract his positive attention momentarily.Speaking as a guy, that stuff really works. Does it sound like something you could do? Because it seems to me that there's a fair amount of attraction between the two of you, and it won't take much to get close enough to make a spark. Hoping for the best for you, Haley.

What subtle signs can I do to let her know that I like her?

Women make decisions about men in about 5 seconds. Think I'm wrong? Ask a woman.If you like a girl, you move on that initial butterfly you felt flopping around in your gut. Wink. Smile. Say hi. Make a joke.Walking around hoping to get noticed is how women do it. Sorry, not meant to be negative. It's just true. Makeup, clothes, hair. Women try to look good. And then they choose from among the suitors. And you look weak, or indecisive, for one second? You could be out, for good.You're a hunter. Hunt.

How do you let a girl know how much you like her?

Subtlety is underrated in my opinion. :) One way to pull this off in the context of letting someone know you like them is to smile genuinely at them/her when the opportunity presents itself. Talk to them/her and really get to know what matters to them/her. Extend a genuine offer to help in some way and, if that offer is accepted, follow through. I think most males and females appreciate knowing who they can depend on, and most people who possess a conscience appreciate someone like that. It can be a great way to let her know that you're a reliable person who wants to be there for her. If she feel physical attraction for you, it can be a way to begin to establish trust. If she only considers you a friend, it can (in some cases) make you more attractive to her. Females are generally different from males in that way. We don't have to be physically attracted to someone initially, that can develop over time if the guy is a genuinely good person who offers various kinds of support (i.e. emotional support, helping achieve goals, etc.).  Different females will appreciate different things, but as long as she has the ability to empathize with others and she has a conscience, she'll appreciate any kind and genuine effort you make to improve her life, even in the tiniest ways. Find out what matters to her, and help her with those things. I can tell you as a girl and then woman who got a lot of attention from many males, what won my heart EVERY TIME was kindness, compassion, intelligence, and guys who were good people. The guys I dumped and left in the dust without a second thought were the losers/users/selfish/arrogant/abusers, and I watched closely how they treated other people, not just me. If, for some reason, someone doesn't appreciate your kindness or any assistance they accept from you, I would recommend you ditch them sooner rather than later.  It's fine if they turn down your offer to assist, but it's not ok if they accept an offer and then act out in an ungrateful manner. Any female who does that isn't worth your time. Synopsis: smile genuinely talk to her and learn what genuinely matters to heroffer to assist her with one of those things that matter to her and follow through on itHope this helps. Best wishes~

What's the best way to let her know you like her?

The best way to tell someone you like them is to tell them. If you aren't that close to her maybe start by asking her on a date. That could be as simple as going to a movie, or getting lunch together (sorry but I don't know what the reality of your 8th grade world is). The important thing is that you are letting her know that you are interested, and if she says yes, you have time to get to know each other so you can see if she really is someone you want to know better.

What are some good subtle ways to let a girl know I am interested in her?

Subtleties lead to friendship. They do not lead to dating. When someone likes someone else, they overanalyze the crap out of every little thing, assuming is must mean something. Most of the time it means nothing. When someone is not interested in someone, all the little subtle signs they give off go completely unnoticed. They aren't paying attention, because they have no interest. "She'll definitely notice that I remembered she liked chocolate milk and bought her one at lunch and finally ask me out!" doesn't ever work.There are no "good" subtle ways to let a girl know you are interested. They're low risk for you precisely because most people do miss them. And if it turns out she isn't interested, well you didn't put yourself out there so you didn't really get rejected.My advice, take a deep breath, compose yourself, walk up to her and say "Hey (Girl's name), You're pretty awesome. Any chance I could take you out for a (coffee, tea, milkshake, whatever) sometime?" If she says no, well there's your answer. You can stop agonizing and find someone else to pursue.