I still love my ex after 3 years. How do I move on?
I've dated several guy after my ex but have never ever felt close to even love with the other guys except for this guy I'm currently in a relationship with. He loves me very much and he's MORE than anything I can ever ask for. My ex is also in love with this other girl. I haven't spoke to him for nearly 2 years. The problem is the fact that I think I still love my ex. During my last relationship before this one (not my ex) I was always crying because of the pain I had through losing my ex. I couldn't find the heart to even love that guy I was dating because I was still loving my ex. Then I met my current boyfriend I'm with. My current boyfriend is the only guy since my ex that I wrote I love you to (but not verbally). I really want to move forward with my life and been happy these last 6 months . Suddenly the last 3 days, out of no where pain I started feeling worried and pain in my chest. I realised I was feeling the same pain I had when I lost my ex. I was falling in to memories of him and I cried all night long. I still remember the promises he made and I guess I held true to my promises to 'always love you and I'd never forget you'. I'm sure he forgotten and doesn't care anymore but my heart is in denial. To me, the guy I used to love have passed away and the guy I know now is a stranger. I can't understand in which point in life that one person will stop loving someone when they truly loved them in the first place. If they did stop, they probably never loved in the first place. If my ex had left me because he suddenly died I'd still be single and loving him but the truth is, we broke up and now he loves another person. Please help me move on. It's been 3 years. I need peace in my heart, not this horrible stinging pain in my heart. Thanks
Still love my ex boyfriend after 7 years being broke up?
Ive been married for over a year now and have a 7 month old baby , my ex has been with his live in girlfriend for about 5 years and has a 4 year old daughter . We broke up 7 years ago we were together for 11 years !! We loved each other so much we were together since the age of 14 to 25 years and since we were together since kids alot of immaturity and problems got in the way of our relationship that it just became something ugly and horrible. The love was never an issue we both loved each other very much. Now 7 years later i still think about him everyday and even worse dream about him every single night :(. I am best friends with his cousin and i do not ask about him but she mentions to me that he is not happy and is always asking about me and tells her he regrets what happened between us at the end ,he tells her he knows we were soul mates and knows that we will both seperate from the ones we are with and eventually be back together in the future. This means he feels what i do. I dont know what to do i am not even sure i love my husband even though he is an amazeing wonderful man and father i am soo confused, my ex is still with his girlfriend and i will not make any contact with him if and only if we ever are single again. I am ashamed writeing this but i need advice , i am still in love with my ex he is my soul mate my other half ....,
Why am I still thinking about my ex after 5 years ?
This is a tough situation and I know the feeling. I was with my ex for seven years when he broke up with me. After the break up I realized the flaws in our relationship that I never noticed before, which helped me a lot. That being said, he has been dating someone else for the past 3 years and I have been with my fiance now for over 2 years but I still think about my ex sometimes. There are occasional dreams and things like that and just random thoughts about times we shared together. But I think this is normal; to an extent. You see even though I do have these thoughts or feelings I know I still love my fiance. At the same time, however, I also know that my ex was my first love and that I will never love anyone the same. No one can ever love two different people the same. So just sit down and think about the situation. It is one thing to have thoughts about things in your past, I mean you spent years with this person whom you loved very much, but it is quite another thing if you are still in love with that person. If you can honestly tell yourself that you love your fiance and would be happy spending the rest of your life with her then you know your answer. You just have to make sure you know deep down inside that you will always care about your ex but it is simply over, you are happy now, and with someone who you love in a whole new way. Good luck
Should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
Don't settle for second best. True, you might lose some friends and it might be hard on you. But think of the postive effects it could have on your life. Do you really want to be in a relationship your no longer happy in, just because your afraid of the outcome? We're all afraid, that's just life. We have to take the challenges as they come, face them and embrace them.. If you don't feel like you'll be with him forever, or happily forever, then whats the use in staying? You only live once, sometimes we have to go through partner after partner to find the right one, but that's the joy of it. Sometimes we'll date them for a month, sometimes a couple years, but doesn't mean it has to be forever. Just chalk this up as it was good while it lasted, try to be as strong as you can while reality kicks in, but in time, you'll be okay. We must feel pain to feel joy, you might not be over it a week from now, a month from now, or a year from now, but eventually you will be. :) Good luck~
I still miss my ex after two years?
I recently sent her an email (email was only option cause she would not answer my call and she rarely ever texted me back) the email was telling her how I still care for her an miss her dearly. She never responded. She's been dating a guy for a year and a half now. She dumped two years ago after dating for two years. I text her occasionally but even when she responds shell reply once just to see how it's going then she won't text back after one or two messages. I really miss her but she seems fine and she must know I'm still miserable our break up was really bad and we've barely talked since. I've been heart broken for two years please help?