Ugly Guy/Ugly Girl + Decent Looking Guy/Decent Looking Girl aka Mismatched Couples, WTF?
Now, since I am a guy, I'll be the first to admit....LOOKS DO MATTER, HIGHLY. I am not a handsome guy, I'll also admit to that! But I go out a lot and see these mismatched couples, ugly guy/ugly girl + nice looking guy/nice looking girl and I agonize thinking, WTF, I mean really WTF?????? Now before you answer with the PC answer of "oh, maybe he/she is a nice person", seriously, reality check yourself!! Unless the repulsive one of the couple (and by repulsive, I mean fairly overweight, bad skin, caveman/cavewoman looks) is loaded with money, it is NOT natural for these decent looking men/women to have such little regard for their partners looks!! Even if the repulsive person is a "nice" person, how do you deal with the romance with someone who may have back fat, hair all over and generally all around disgusting!? Now of course, a supermodel male or female can be evil and have a horrible personality so naturally you wouldn't want to spend your life with them regardless of their looks. That I DO understand. But I also know that if you ask out someone, usually the person bases it off initial impressions, i.e. LOOKS! I think these mismatched couples are due in large part to the attractive person in the couple to have some serious psychological ISSUES!! What are your thoughts?
Am i a good looking guy?
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I am from IIT, a guitarist, and a decent looking guy but I still don't have a girlfriend? Why?
Read your question again- and you might just see the reason.You described yourself as an IITian first, Good girls really don't care about your educational pedigree (as long as they are not leeches to feed off the vanity quotient).They look for someone to have a good conversation with, and have fun while hanging out.Guitarist- Unless you are a performer in a high profile band, with huge cheering audiences, a guitar does not have the ability to create instant girl fans seeking personal time with you. On the contrary, it is rather vain to think that playing guitar gets you girls, and never try to impress someone with your guitar skills, girls are too smart for that cliched move to actually work. Admirers yes, girlfriends no.Every guy out there describes himself as decent looking, and it is not looks that really matter. I do agree that looks do create an initial attraction, but they seldom sustain it.Now imagine this happening, you meet a girl, you guys get to know each other initially, and along the way she falls for you and then gets to discover that you are smart, talented and a guitarist too, you will be revered and respected. Trust me, that feeling is priceless....Until then.. keep at it... be who you are, no what you accomplished.- a fellow guitar playing, decent looking engineer ;)
Am I a good looking guy?
http://s762.photobucket.com/albums/xx262/Danielherrolock/?action=view¤t=suit.jpg I hated that suit, I should have worn my hand stitched cashmere double breasted dolce and gabbana instead of that crappy good will looking suit.
What does a guy mean when he says your decent looking?
it means that he thinks you look okay, but that your not floating his boat. thats why he is your guy friend and not your boyfriend. the guy your gonna end up dating will think your gorgeous, and not decent.
How do I know if I'm a good looking guy?
If you’re looking for a purely objective measure of attractiveness based solely on your face (which I don’t particularly value highly as a human being, but obviously is my field of work), artificial intelligence (ai) can tell you how good looking you are:Am I good looking? - the hotness.ai website will tell youTo use it, just upload a photo and get a result (pretty simple)Or, if you are looking for a more subjective means of determining how attractive you are (since beauty is in the eye of the beholder) - this dating app will give you a pretty solid measure of whether you’re hot or not hot. The dating app automatically understands how attractive you are and who is likely to find you attractive based on many past interactions. For instance, maybe you are Asian or Swedish - both looks are quite different, and what makes an Asian attractive may be quite different than what makes a Swede attractive. When you match with someone, you will know they think you’re attractive.Even within a particular ethnicity, there are many different “looks”. For instance, is someone looking for a Jason Statham or a Chris Hemsworth? The app will automatically show your profile to more people who are looking for people with your desired look, and more specifically, people who have liked other similar looking people. The app also lets users search for a particular look and find celebrity look-alike dating app profiles. Users can do this by uploading a photo and find similar looking people.If you’re a developer and you’re looking for an API that you can use programmatically, you should try the this: Haystack’s Attractiveness API - Hotness API - It is used by developers and companies who need a way to automatically determine if someone is attractive or not in a few milliseconds. There are also other APIs that can do age, gender, ethnicity/race, facial recognition, face detection, same face detection and liveness detection here: Haystack AI.The technology behind these websites and apps is quite new (as of 2017) and uses a neural network that was trained on millions of face images that were rated by humans. I’d be happy to provide more details on the specifics of this research if you’d like.Regardless of your outcome, as a great used car salesman I once knew said, “there’s an ass for every seat” - Someone will think that you’re a good looking guy, even if you’re not good looking in everyone’s eyes. Just don’t give up!
I am a decent looking girl, 22 years old. No guy has ever asked me out. Is it possible that guys are attracted to me but are not asking me out? I am shy around guys in general.
I’m 23 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I’ve gone from fat to slim, shy to charismatic, dumb to intelligent, and still no ones sniffing around. Why? Who knows.I spent a lot of my earlier years moping about my lack of success in the dating world. I thought that having a boyfriend would be the final level of my game of life. Once I achieved this, my future would surely fall into place and a picket fence with roses would spring up out of nowhere. Being a child of the romantic comedies, my perception of romance had been skewed from years of media brainwashing. I was taught to expect a grand gesture one day, and that prince charming would be at the other end of that gesture. This idea turned out to be very, very wrong.I can’t tell you exactly why you haven’t been asked out (I don’t know you as a person, and advice surrounding specific circumstances need more information than an age and vague personal description). What I can tell you is to have a crush on yourself. Once you put yourself above most other relationships, you tend to value yourself more which in turn allows you to radiate more confidence. This isn’t an easy road, but it’s one that’s almost guaranteed success (because at least someone loves you; yourself).I’ve struggled with the notion of true love these last few months more than ever (a complicated pen-in-company-ink situation), then one day I was weighing the pros and cons of this potential relationship and I asked myself, “Who do you have a crush on?” It didn’t take me more than half a second to mutter “Myself” out loud. I realized it was stupid worrying about whether this guy liked me when I got all the validation I needed from myself. I released myself of so much internal pressure that I was able to see these situations clearly.Relationships are based on compatibility, and if you aren’t in touch with who you are as a person it will be hard relating to anyone.