I hate my life nothing ever goes my way am i cursed or something ? help?
i dont get it am 19 had tons of friends before lost most of them never had a real girlfriend , i got hat girl everytime i make plans with her they get cancelled and it happened like 10 times the few friends i have are always busy so i barely go out i feel alone sometimes, i failed at everything exept school where my grades are pretty normal am planing ong oing to acting school and make a career in acting but knowing my bad luck i will probably fail am always fighting with my mom ..everythings just wrong thats not fair i dont deserve it am a good person ? whats wrong i even kinda feel suicidal cuz id ont see the point in my life!
Am i cursed? every time i recive money something bad happens to lose it?
i get paid every two weeks on a friday, for about the last 6-8 months the weekend of payday situations occur where i would have to pay a large amount of or evn more than the check i receive. many of them involve my car. such incurences include, viloation tickets, towing, tires being slash with blade, car hit while parked, brakes mysteriously shut off. rear mirror broken by falling tree, un expected bank statement pendings, financial aid from school cut off, insurance stop covering things, new appliances break down, odd food spoilage, and occasionally mixed with random sickness such as vomiting nausea soreness headache shivers, at first i thought this incidents were only coincidental but these happen every and only payday weekend and i usually end up losing the money i earned what do you guys think
Am I somehow cursed with no friends?
Having friends since kindergarten to 4th grade was easy.I was a child and all kids got along together.Now as I became a teenager till now,people somehow don't like me.I started a new school and they all didn't want to be my friend.I tried talking and they all ignored me.I don't understand this anymore.My mother has a friend who has a daughter with the same age as me.Yeah we were friends until now.She hangs out with other people.Besides the fact something bad happened.I don't know why I always have bad luck with friends.I never had a friend who's all like cool the friend i would go to concerts with etc.I feel like I should just give up even trying.Nobody ever likes me. :(
Am I cursed?
Others have given excellent answers and perspectives. Here's mine.Only you can right the ship and you already have a great understanding of your position. Right now, you mind is occupied with many problems and by the time you start to spend time in solving one of the problem, other ones will not let you concentrate and hence your focus shifts. This is not so obvious and you will find yourself unfocused and not reaching anywhere and you will have this constant nagging feeling of time running out. Your past also seems to haunt you a lot.My advice for you is to deal with each of your problems separately. There is no single solution for your professional and love life. Each have different solutions. Figure out which one is more important to you and work only on that. If I were in your situation, I will give high priority for my professional life(given my immediate attention is not required at my family). Once that is set, then I worry about family, love life, etc. It all sounds like a formula, but that's the least painful way according me. YMMV.Whatever you do, don't lose your sanity and don't expect your problems to be solved in one shot. It takes time and be prepared to set things right gradually.
Am I cursed? No job, no opportunity, nothing!?
Wow...I get that you are angry and depressed but WTF??? You just don't go f*cking saying "no wonder there are so many people shooting"....do you know how many kids and died this past December?? ....to me you are pretty much saying that because you are angry and sad you are gonna go do the same sh*t!!! Idk why there are no jobs, but I'm pretty sure there are a lot of people who feel depressed about their situation....and if you agree with people shooting then, yes maybe you should kill yourself....or get some therapy....and you should be happy that at least you have a job, even if its at BK..and if you apply at professional jobs, (even as entry level cuz hey, you gotta start somewhere and show that you can get your promotions) and if you don't get anything just keep re-applying until you get something...you just don't give up...I get that you went to college and everything but you just can't expect for people to hire you just because of that you need the experience, and you said you have 10 year work experience, well is it the experience that is required for that degree and job??? And if it is it sounds like you had a job that went with what you studied for...So why would you quit/got fired?? Look at those mistakes, if some were committed and fixed them, maybe you can then get the job you want. And if no mistakes were made that made you get fired then I guess you can sue for wrongful tetmination, if you got laid off and you were a good worker then ask for a Damn letter or recommendation and a good one maybe that could get you hired...and if you quit, then why???and stop complaining...there are a lot of people who struggle to provide for their families and are happy just to get some kind of income... Sorry if I was rude but the whole shooting comment, did you really had to go there???
Do i have a cursed chart??
sun/mercury/saturn/uranus/neptune all conjunct in capricorn square mars in aries! moon square venus asc square jupiter/mc/pluto no air signs to smoothen up (not even planets in 3/7/11 houses) Too many squares give tension! i sometimes confuse my personality...do you think i have a very difficult chart?? ______________________________________... fr ur reference Sun (6th house) Capricorn 8.07 Ascendant Leo 6.09 Moon (2nd house) Virgo 20.52 Mercury (6th house) Capricorn 23.45 Venus (5th house) Sagittarius 14.49 Mars (9th house) Aries 19.01 Jupiter (10th house) Taurus 26.53 R Saturn (5th house) Capricorn 5.19 Uranus (5th house) Capricorn 1.37 Neptune (6th house) Capricorn 9.51 Pluto Scorpio 14.30 Midheaven Taurus 7.29 Asc node Pisces 6.35 ________________________________ ppl who think astrology is crap, please do not bother to answer
Am I cursed ? Why is my life such a mess.?
Despite trying everything to improve my life things just seem a complete mess. I used to do drugs and drink a lot and was in a very abusive relationship where my ex partner lost so much respect for me she even started sleeping with other men in the same house (her house ) that we lived in. I felt suicidal at times but managed to break free and move on after I gave my life to Christ and joined a local Pentecostal Church. I have stopped drinking and drugs changed my attitude , pray and fast a lot and work very hard about 60 hrs a week in my low paying job. Yet my life has not improved much, Im a very shy person so i find it hard to approach people unless they do first. But even in church when i do i reailse most people dont seem that intrested. Im almost 40 now with no kids or partner and really feel all alone.. I saw a young lady I found very attractive in chrurch tried my best to build up a friendship , anyway she asked why the intrest in her and I told her the truth of how I felt, she didnt turn me down just said she doesnt know what to say , now she doesnt answer my calls. I have tried studying and educating myself to get into a better job and saving but nothing seems to work The only lady who seems intrested is my ex dont know wheter to go back as she claims she is sorry and will treat me with love this time round. After all the abuse of her coming home at night with different men and telling me im useless and im even lucky to have her Yet I was paying for every single bill and being left penileess for 2 yrs with her. Im I living in an illusion trusting in God when Im not even liked at church or is this just a phase or is it Gods plan for some people to remain alone and single their whole lifes.
Why do I feel I am cursed? Is there anything I can do to stop feeling that?
Yes there is something you can do, realize that everything that happens in your life happens not to you but because of you.Now is it always true that when bad things happen they’re your fault or you’re responsible for them? Probably not.But, if you adopt this mindset you’ll always be able to think creatively and find solutions to your problems.As long as you believe that you’re the victim of your circumstances, you’ll continue to act in a way that perpetuates those problems and keeps you in a victim position.So start taking 100% responsibility for everything in your life and you’ll began to see things improving almost immediately.If you’re interested in more about this topic, check out my YouTube channel at Robby Frank!
How do I know if I've been cursed?
I kinda have a feeling that I've been cursed by witchcraft. When I was 17 years old I went to stay with my father. One night I woke up, and the window was open and the wind was blowing really hard. That's what woke me up. All of a sudden, the bed started moving back and forth from one side of the room to the other. It all felt so real. Later on I had woken up and realized that it was just a dream. Well, I was so freaked out that I got up to go to my dad's room and I opened the door and there were like 50 black cats sitting outside the door and though it all felt so real I had come to discover that that was just a dream. Get it? I honestly felt like all that had happened had really happened. And I think that maybe that I was cursed at the time that this was all going on. So how do I know if I was actually cursed and if I was how do I get rid of it? And I think that there is a good possibility that I was simply because it seems like nothing ever goes right in my life.
I feel cursed. What should I do?
You are not cursed. Trust me, there are many people with phenomenally bigger problems than you are in. I know many people in person who have suffered deeper losses where their life has struck them back to back. Shit happens.It’s okay that you have these problems. At the end of it all, who doesn’t have problems? Name a single person. Whenever you try doing something and you fail, don’t immediately move on to something else. Wait and ponder over your failure. Question yourself and analyze. That’s when you’re supposed to move on to some other venture. Instead, doing one thing after the other without prior introspection and analysis would be a sure shot formula to failure. So, try thinking about your steps and your decisions. That’s when you will over come failure. And btw, ever head about Edison who has failed too many fucking times before inventing the bulb? Cheer up. Don’t fret over your problems. It’s okay.How many heartbreaks did you survive? One? Two? Three? How many? Heartbreaks are not worth your depression. Understand a simple fact: everyone is a human being. Everyone will do whatever the fuck they want to do. Love people, but not beyond a limit. And btw, are you dealing with your loved ones properly? Loving someone isn’t the end. It’s about effectively managing the relationships.Betrayal in family is also becoming common these days. With increasing modernization, money earning capabilities and awareness, people have evolved in a way which was much different than what we used to be. No matter what, do not trust anybody. Everybody lies. Everybody is an individual who thinks of himself. Look after yourself. Rest will follow.If you need further help or you wan’t to talk to.. feel free to email me- dpramod98@gmail.com