How can I tell if I am in the friend zone or if she is actually interested in becoming more than friends?
She is being honest and forthright with you. How about you not worry about her intentions and simply return the favor? Did you tell her you had a great time too? I hope so. As User suggests - don't get onto that slippery slope of guessing what she is thinking or feeling. Stay in THIS moment, not many moments down the line. In this moment you have a woman who has expressed delight in your having spent time together. Take it in -- into your heart. Let it sit there and warm you up. Then tell her how you feel. Hopefully you already replied with your own confession of delight.It doesn't have to mean anything, just experience it, revel in it. You had a great night and you both felt the same way. What a wonderful thing to have happen! Next time you meet, you will see what happens that night.Just be honest and do NOT try to read her mind. Sounds like you have a gem with her, particularly in that she is not afraid to be forthright with you. Return the favor and you may very well deserve her!
Am I in the friend zone or does this girl like me?
she playfully makes fun of me most of the time and sometimes she ignores me completely. She is more touchy with me. I say something funny and she puts hands on shoulder or puts her hand on my arm to get my attention. never touched me in a sensual way tho we dont really talk but playfully tease each other and she laughs at my jokes. we make great eye contact. she holds it a long long time but lately she has not been holding it or has avoided eye contact. She initiates the convo more often than not but there are days we dont talk. we went out with a few friends and someone asked what i like in a gf and she jokingly said "damn i dont have green eyes." she is a very sassy girl the other day i gave her a thank you hug and she gave me a one arm hug with her hand on the shoulder and no other part of our body touched. hug was over tho she kinda smiling and red She waited for me one day to walk by her car and kinda pretended to bump into me and started talking to me I was sitting around her and her friends and she was talking about this guy. she said he is just a friend but likes her a lot. She showed them a picture of the guy, NOT me The other day she told me that she could see herself dating an italian guy. I am not italian haha. she said i should date an italian girl too. then she said to one of her friends that so so - NOT me-- had qualities she likes in a man. is she trying to make me jealous or what? i was a few feet away when she said it
Is it abnormal that I actually like the friend-zone?
Not really, you know some people are actually very complex to hold a relationship with. Plus most girls/guys ends up liking the person they friend-zone. Not every girl/boy but some and many that I know, why? If you are the good guy/girl in the friend-zone, THIS only applies to the guys/girls that are friend-zoned but they are really good friends with the person, you get that kind of bond that doesn't exist in relationships. Mainly because in relationships-a lot goes on there.
Does She Dig Me..Or Am I In The Friend Zone?
About two weeks ago I met a girl online. We hit it off pretty quickly. She would always send me text messages and tell me to have a good day etc. She was sweet. We went out last Sunday. She acted awkward and shy. SHe dropped hints like, "Do you want kids one day? "I'm REALLY busy..but I'll make room for a relationship." I was a gentleman towards her and she thanked me for it. After that..the tables turned some what. I was the one initiating contact. I immediately asked her out on a second date the day after our first. She said she was going to be really busy with the holidays. I said it was cool and we could figure something out after Christmas. Her text messages were short. I started limiting my texting and called her one night. We had a decent conversation for 30 and she abruptly cut it short. The next day I sent her a text and said, "Hope you're having a good weekend..looking forward to seeing you after the holidays." She responded the next morning and said. "Good morning! Hope you had fun last night." Ignoring the fact that I mentioned going on a date. Last night i sent her a text and asked if it was okay to stop by and give her a Christmas Card. She loved the idea. I stopped by today with a card and oatmeal cookies. (We went to a cookie shop on our date and they didn't have any. She wanted some) Her face lit up when she saw me. I acted SO nervous. The whole time she had the biggest grin. She gave me a Christmas card and said, "I should've baked more cookies! I didn't think about getting you some! Maybe I could stop by and give you some sometime." I said, "Sounds good to me..bring a dozen..I'll eat em'!" She giggled and smiled. I asked her out for the weekend again and she said Sunday would be good..but wasn't sure of the time. I gave her a hug and I left. I figured I would have received a text by now saying thank you again..but I haven't. I was thinking I was just a friend to her. I logged onto the site we met and realized she hasn't logged in over a week. I found that interesting. Ladies..do you think she's playing a little hard to get or am I just friend zoned?
How do I get out of the friend zone?
You are a nice guy. Nice guys don't get laid. Stop being a niceguy. Its hard I know from personal experience. You don't have to turn into an asshole, but you do have to start being more confident and taking risks with them. Say something in disagreement every now and then. Playfully make fun of any little thing about her you can. Give her a silly nickname. Watch your body language because that is 90% of what girls read. Start reading about pickup arts. Its not that you have to become some casanova but it is helpful to understand how THE GAME of dating works. You are a handsome guy who is probably amazing. I would work somewhat on what you wear, try to figure out what guys that the girls you like are wearing and see if you can incorporate that into your style. I got almost a completely different wardrobe from the "nice" but not really attractive stuff I used to wear.
Im in the friend zone what do i do?
i didn't realize how deep i was in the friend zone until tonight, i just spent an hr watching a dance movie and helping this girl play words with friends with her sister. I want to kill my self now. Each time we hang out its getting progressively worse, she actually asked me to if i could go into the store and get her tampons yesterday. thing is we went out on a couple of dates and i should have taken the clue when she said she just wanted to be friends but we work together in close proximity and i really don't want to **** up my workplace too with any drama of ignoring her. How to I cut this off though.
How do I know if I'm friend zoned? What does she think of me, does she like me?
You will know you are friendzoned when you express romantic interest in her, she says she's not romantically interested in you, and she says she'd like to be your friend.The behavior you describe could be flirty or it could just be nice. There's really only one way to find out: Make it clear that you like her in a more-than-friendly way, and see how she reacts.Well, okay, there are other options. You could pull some junior high shit and have your friends talk to her friends, and maybe through the game of telephone you can get some reconnaissance. You can also wait for her to take the lead. I don't really recommend either of those things.I don't want to minimize the difficulty of verbalizing your romantic interest in someone. It's hard and scary. But think about why it's hard and scary. What are the possible negative consequences?1. She says no, and she says mean things about you to her friends, and you lose social standing.2. She says no, and you take it personally and decide it means that you suck as a human being.You have no control over #1, but you do have control over #2, and in my experience, #2 is the thing that really stops people from expressing romantic interest.So let me be the first to say: Someone's romantic interest in you, or lack thereof, is not evidence about your worth as a human being. Really. Repeat this to yourself until you believe it. It might take years. Once you believe it, then the only risk is social standing -- and your high school social standing is so completely irrelevant as far as the rest of your life is concerned.
How do I detect the thin line between she likes me or the friend zone?
The first thing to consider is that most people like their friends, which can lead to confusion when someone enjoys your company and is friendly to you but you’re looking for more.Over the years there have been many men who I’ve known socially or through school or work who are nice and fun to be around - with whom I’m friendly and with whom I’m friends - who I would never have considered dating material.This can be an issue for people of both genders who are kind and friendly: they are open to the misinterpretation of others.So for her, there’s probably not a line. The only way you’ll know if she’s interested is to ask her out.Thanks to JF for the A2A.